10 Things That Will Change About You When You Lose Your Parents

Our parents are our greatest support. When they are an essential part of our life, we know we have someone to rely on whenever things get rough. They are there to help us overcome the obstacles and give us advice on how things should be done. Those who have their parents by their side while growing up and later in life are very lucky. Those who lost a parent know the grief and the sadness of losing a part of your heart and soul. When a parent dies, things change. We are no longer the person we used to be. These are some of the things that take a completely different turn once we experience such a tragic event.

1. You Become More Anxious

The loss may affect you in a very deep emotional level. Those people whose mother or father died are more likely to struggle with depression, anxiety, and stress. Even everyday commitments take a lot of extra effort to deal with.

2. You Can’t Deal With People Complaining About Their Parents

When you know your parent is not around any longer and you will never have the chance to hug them or tell them how much you love them, it’s impossible to deal with people who are complaining about their mothers and fathers. They have no idea how lucky they are to even have them in their life.

3. You Feel the Grief in Your Body

The sadness and the grief one feels after losing a parent not only affect their mental, but also physical well-being. So during the process of mourning, people should we well aware of this and take care of both their body and soul.

4. You Learn to Live with Sadness

Someone who lost a parent will never stop missing that person who left the world, but as time passes by, they learn how to live with the loss and come to terms with the fact the person is no longer there. Eventually, they continue living their life, as that’s all they can do. In cases people are severely affected with the loss and the grieving lasts for too long, they should ask for medical assistance.

5. Holidays Have Changed

Holidays are that time of the year that we spend with our family and friends. That’s time of love, enjoyment, and happiness. So when one person is no longer there, we will forever miss their place during those family gatherings. However, over time, we create new meaningful ways of celebrating the occasions without them.

6. You Learn to Accept Their Flaws

No matter the relationship you and your parents had, once they are gone, you will miss them dearly. In cases there were some things that you didn’t like about them, their death will make you accept all their flaws and mistakes.

7. Your Emotions Become Complicated

It is very natural for a person whose parent, or parents died to be overflown with negative feelings and emotions. But remember, that’s normal and it’s an inevitable part of the grieving process.

8. Your Relationship with Your Siblings Changes

Relying on your siblings might be one of the ways of coping with the pain easily. However, whereas in some families brothers and sisters become closer as the grief unites them, there are also those families where the siblings split apart because the parents were the ones keeping them together.

9. You Catch Yourself Trying to Call Them

You know they are gone, but your heart and mind can’t easily accept the fact you’ll never see them again, so you catch yourself writing them a message, or calling them on their phone.

10. You Learn How Strong Love Is

You realize that when a person is gone, the love for them is still there and never fades away. You learn that the love you got from your parents, and the one you gave them back is all that matters. This helps the healing process. If you need any support, see the following resources resources: Grief.com (USA) www.grief.com My Grief Angels (USA, Canada) www.mygriefangels.com If you or someone you know is suffering from a mental health crisis, please reach out to a crisis line in your area. Here are some helpful numbers: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA): 1-800-273-8255 Depression Hotline (USA): 1-866-208-4949 Crisis Text Line (USA): 741741 For life-threatening crises, call 9-1-1.

Tom Mabe lures the thieves right into his trap – now more than 15 million people have watched the clip

Basic manners such as not stealing other people’s belongings should be taught from very early age. However, judging from the clip below, many failed in doing so. Luckily, Tom Mabe is there to teach these ill-mannered individuals a lesson they will never forget, and that’s not to put their sticky fingers on what’s not theirs. 

Tom is a well know YouTube personality as his clips make millions of people laugh. He really is a master of catching wrongdoers in the middle of committing their minor or sometimes big crimes. 

This particular video has been seen by more than 15 million people, and no matter it was taken back in 2016, I feel like I could be watching it over and over again. 

Tom really wanted to see how many people would try and actually steal his phone while they believe no one is watching. And boy, it seems there are more thieves around us than we can even imagine.

Tom is shown either sleeping or looking away while his phone is out of his reach. When passersby notice this, they figure our stealing Tom’s phone would be a piece of cake. But, of course, there is a catch. Well, more or less like there always is. The phone has a remote controlled stun gun installed inside. 

You are already guessing, the video is hilarious. 

Once the thieves grab the phone, Tom presses the remote and they get tazed. Ouch, that has to hurt a lot. But at the end of the day, people who steal don’t really deserve anything less than being punished for their actions. 

People say how the best part of the clip has to do with that couple at the park. The man put it in his pocket and then denied taking it, but that’s when Tom said, “that’s fine, I have a locator.” The man really got what he deserved for lying into Tom’s face. 

I am sure none of them will ever try stealing again.

Take a look at the video below. This is definitely a must watch. 

Isn’t it great seeing thieves getting caught red-handed? Press the Share button if you agree, so that we’ll be able to put a stop to this !

Waitress sees a crying mom at Cracker Barrel, leaves note on her to-go bag

Despite all the commitments around the house, parents, especially moms should also make sure their kids spend quality time which includes learning new things, exploring, having fun, and being well fed. 

After such busy days full of running errands, a family decided to visit Cracker Barrel and have a nice dinner. But as we already know, being out with kids doesn’t always turn out as expected. 

Now the story of their trip to the restaurant has gone viral and people are praising the waitress who served them for her compassion and kindness. 

Jamie Mathew Heustess’s son Ian has autism and as she says, things are hard sometimes, especially when they are out. Jamie often shares with her friends how she manages to cope with Ian’s behavior when he experiences a meltdown in public. 

This time, they really had a busy day as Ian had a karate lesson and they had taken a trip to Walmart. 

Along with a photo she posted, Jamie wrote:

We had gotten drinks at Cracker Barrel, but not ordered yet. The reason for his meltdown? A Finding Dory toy that has mystery figurines…..Dad bought him 2. Neither had Nemo. Cue meltdown… he does not understand it is the luck of the draw. His cries escalate….making it impossible to think straight. So…..i am sitting waiting on a to go order while Daddy takes him home…….Autism is not easy…..some days it totally sucks…. 😭😭

Chris, Jamie’s husband took Ian out and they were about to head home when the waitress came to them to see whether they wanted to order anything. According to Jamie, “it was probably her 5th of 6th time stopping by the table.”

That’s when Jamie started crying and told the waitress whose name was Kailyn how her day was a rough one and how most of her days are more or less tiring.

Kailyn seemed to know exactly what to do in order to cheer this mother. Jamie said:

“About 15 minutes later, out comes my server with my bag of dinner. She smiled and told me that my dinner had been taken care of, no need for payment.
I started crying all over again.
I asked if she was sure and she reassured me it was taken care of, not to worry.
I cried walking out, sure the other customers and employees thought I was crazy.”

This kind waitress went an extra mile and wrote something really beautiful on a note that she attached on the paper bag. The inspiring and encouraging note said:

“Your child is amazing. Mommy, be strong. Keep your head up. You are doing a great job. Have a great night. Your server, Kailyn.”

Kailyn’s manager learned of her touching gesture and how she planned on paying for the family’s dinner with her own money, so he stepped in and took care of the bill himself. 

“She left me the words I needed to hear, that I think EVERY MOM needs to hear. Their caring and thoughtfulness did not go unnoticed…
My note from Kailyn is now hanging on my fridge, for those moments I need to be reminded of the kindness of strangers.”

This lovely story is just a reminder that many times, all it takes for someone’s day to get brighter are words of encouragement and support. 

Please share this story with your friends and family

Peace and Love

Bored Daddy

Jimmy Kimmel Asks People Whether Homo Sapiens Should Be Saved, And The Answers Show Human Level Of Stupidity

A recent and pretty much shocking report published by the United Nations states how the number of plants and animals in danger of extinction is more than one million.

The reason? Human’s activity and lack of interest for saving the planet. The extinctions are taking place at an “unprecedented” rate and they are likely to affect and threaten humanity itself. But do we really care? 

One of our favorite hosts, Jimmy Kimmel, gives us the answer to this in the most hilarious, yet saddest and most concerning way possible. Speaking of the UN report, he took to the streets of LA and asked people whether homo sapiens, aka humans, should be saved from extinction. What people had to say is cringeworthy to watch. 

This video is basically all you need to know about America’s educational system. One would have expected for grown-ups to know better. However, all these answers Kimmy got as a response are so devastating that we would assume we are a nation of under-educated people whose basic knowledge on math, history, and science is on the level of an average 12-year-old. 

People are saying how Jimmy’s crew probably interviewed a large number of people and than just made a video of these selected few. But if that’s not the case, I guess we really are doomed as homo sapiens. 

The thing is that none of the people who spoke in front of the camera had any idea of what homo sapiens might be. But they still decided to answer the question and seemed confident in what they had to say. I don’t think saying “I don’t know” is that embarrassing like speaking on a subject you don’t know anything about. One person was honest enough to say, “I don’t know what a homo sapien is. If they’re going extinct, that’s very sad. But at the end of the day, I don’t care.”

Another person said how she’s seen a homo sapien once while at the zoo. She even went further explaining how he was “pretty big, gorilla looking” and was apparently “picking his whatchadilly.” Well, let’s say she was likely describing a human here. 

Below are just some of the comments on the video.

Do you believe this really speaks of the human level of stupidity?

Grandpa Gets Audited And Fires Back at The IRS in The Best Way Possible

There is one thing in life that you should remember, and that’s to never mess with old people. They’ve been here long enough to know how things work. A grandpa was called to the IRS office, but he came with a brilliant plant. You are going to love this one. The IRS decides to audit Grandpa, and summons him to the IRS office. The IRS auditor was not surprised when Grandpa showed up with his attorney. The auditor said, “Well, sir, you have an extravagant lifestyle and no full-time employment, which you explain by saying that you win money gambling. I’m not sure the IRS finds that believable.” “I’m a great gambler, and I can prove it,” says Grandpa. “How about a demonstration?” The auditor thinks for a moment and says, “OK. Go ahead.” Grandpa says, “I’ll bet you a thousand dollars that I can bite my own eye.” The auditor thinks a moment and says, “It’s a bet.” Grandpa removes his glass eye and bites it. The auditor’s jaw drops. Grandpa says, “Now, I’ll bet you two thousand dollars that I can bite my other eye.” The auditor can tell Grandpa isn’t blind, so he takes the bet. Grandpa removes his dentures and bites his good eye. The stunned auditor now realizes he has wagered and lost three grand, with Grandpa’s attorney as a witness. He starts to get nervous. “Want to go double or nothing?” Grandpa asks. “I’ll bet you six thousand dollars that I can stand on one side of your desk, and pee into that wastebasket on the other side, and never get a drop anywhere in between.” The auditor, twice burned, is cautious now, but he looks carefully and decides there’s no way this old guy could possibly manage that stunt, so he agrees again. Grandpa stands beside the desk and unzips his pants, but although he strains mightily, he can’t make the stream reach the wastebasket on the other side, so he pretty much urinates all over the auditor’s desk. The auditor leaps with joy, realizing that he has just turned a major loss into a huge win. But Grandpa’s attorney moans and puts his head in his hands. “Are you OK?” the auditor asks. “Not really,” says the attorney. “This morning, when Grandpa told me he’d been summoned for an audit, he bet me twenty-five thousand dollars that he could come in here and pee all over your desk and that you’d be happy about it.”

Farmer Brings Rooster To A Movie Theater And An Old Lady’s Reaction Is Going Viral

Just when you think you’ve seen it all, life surprises you and you figure out there are still a bunch of things you are yet to discover. What an old lady at the movie theatre got to see for the first time ever is going to make you laugh. This is definitely a must read. A farmer decided he wanted to go to town and see a movie. The ticket agent asked, sir, what’s that on your shoulder?” The old farmer said, “That’s my pet rooster chuck. Wherever I go, chuck goes.” “I’m sorry sir,” said the ticket agent. “We can’t allow animals in the theatre.” The old farmer went around the corner and stuffed chuck down his overalls. Then he returned to the booth, bought a ticket, and entered the theatre. He sat down next to two old widows named Mildred and Marge. The movie started and the rooster began to squirm. The old farmer unbuttoned his fly so chuck could stick his head out and watch the movie. “Marge,” whispered Mildred. “What?” said Marge. “I think the guy next to me is a pervert.” “What makes you think so?” asked Marge. “He undid his pants and he has his thing out,” whispered Mildred. “Well, don’t worry about it”, said Marge. “At our age we’ve seen ’em all” “I thought so too,” said Mildred, “But this one’s eatin’ my popcorn!”

Enraged dad shares pics of daughter’s ex boyfriend and puts bounty on his head

Abuse does not discriminate and everyone can become a victim of domestic violence. Escaping from the hands of the abuser is not always easy. Many times those affected are afraid to speak and even if they do, this issue is many times overlooked and denied.  

The victims should be encouraged to gather courage and ask for help, because if the abuse lasts for too long, it may result with severe physical and mental consequences, or even death. 

When a girl named Chelsea Simmons was brutally beaten by her now ex boyfriend, the injuries she suffered were so severe that she lost the sight on her left eye. Her face and body were all covered in bruises and she was on the brink of death. 

Chelsea’s father was furious and was determined to do everything in his power to make the attacker pay for what he did. He released his pictures and put bounty on his head. 

Cedric Powe, Chelsea’s ex has a criminal history, including an arrest of domestic abuse and obstruction of justice. He has also violated several orders of protection. 

This incident that took place back in 2015 left Chelsea traumatized and scared for her life. 

“Apparently he choked her until she passed out, brought her back, then choked her again and continually stomped on her head,” explained Chelsea’s stepmother, Melissa Zack.

“She’s scared and she probably will be forever.”

After he attacked Chelsea, Powe fled to the south side of St. Louis.

This wasn’t the first time for this young lady to be hurt by this vicious man. Back in 2013, he kidnapped her and demanded cash from her family to release her. 

“He needs to be caught so that this doesn’t happen to anyone else, and I don’t have to worry about it happening to her ever again,” said Melissa Zack.

The $500 reward that Chelsea’s father offered for valuable information about Powe helped the authorities locate him and arrest him. 

He was charged with attempted first-degree murder, and domestic violence after which he was sentenced to 14 years in jail. Additionally, he has to serve 4-years of parole and pay $1,352.60 in restitution.

Chelsea was eventually able to put this ordeal in the past and is now happily married with a daughter. She had all the support from her family and it helped her start her life again and be happy. 

10-year-old girl with special needs bitten by student on school bus

Peer bullying is a real issue that is present in almost every educational institution. However, many times, it goes beyond the school building and may take place even in the school bus. 

Such was the case with 10-year-old Lillian Waldron who is a student at Langlade Elementary School in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Recently, when she got home from school, she was anxious and couldn’t calm down. Her mother Lynn Waldron-Moehle couldn’t possibly know the reason for her daughter’s condition because sweet Lillian has a developmental delay and is unable to communicate. According to her mother, her mannerism is like that of a 2-year-old child. 

Lynn though that giving Lillian a bath would help calm her down, and that’s when she noticed the horrific bruises on the girl’s arms. 

Poor Lillian got attacked by another student in the school bus who bit her severely multiple times. 

“She can’t tell them to stop, she couldn’t get away, because she’s in a five-point harness car seat. She just had to sit there and take it and the bus driver wasn’t stopping,” Waldron-Moehle told WBAY.

“She loves baths and that’s soothing to her, so I brought her home, and I was getting her ready for the bath and I took her sweatshirt off and that’s when I noticed the major bruising on her upper arm,” she said.

“The seat was right behind the bus driver and he couldn’t hear anything going on or see anything? Come on,” Chad Waldron, Lillian’s father, said.

Lillian’s principal watched the video footage taken by the bus camera and was able to see the incident. All the students sharing the bus are with special needs. 

“He said it was gruesome and horrifying to look at, and that the girl was brutally biting my daughter’s arm,” Waldron-Moehle said.

The girl who attacked Lillian no longer attends the school. But incidents like this are likely to occur if other precautions aren’t undertaken. According to Lillian’s parents, last year, their daughter was undressed and touched inappropriately in the school bus. 

“The District is conducting an investigation into the situation and will be working with the bus company to ensure appropriate processes and procedures are in place to prevent this from occurring in the future,” school district Superintendent Michelle Langenfeld said in a statement.

Until the investigation is on and for the sake of Lillian’s safety, she will go to and from school in a van with two adults.