The narcissistic mother: one of the most terrifying personalities

Narcissism refers to a personality disorder where the person has an unreasonably high sense of their own importance and constantly seeks the admiration and attention of others. It is considered a mental health condition that can create issues in many areas of the affected person’s life, including personal relationships and work.

WebMD states that “narcissism can be a trait, but it can also be a part of a larger personality disorder.”

At the extreme end of the spectrum, there is Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), a condition diagnosed by medical professionals.

Common signs of NPD are often called by the acronym SPECIAL ME, WebMD notes.  

  • Sense of self-importance
  • Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success 
  • Entitled
  • Can only be around people who are important or special
  • Interpersonally exploitive for their own gain
  • Arrogant
  • Lack empathy
  • Must be admired
  • Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

Being around a person who is narcissistic can be hard, but it’s even worse when you are raised by one.

The issue with narcissistic parents, especially mothers, is that they can affect their child’s development in a negative way.

Their emotional toxicity puts the child at risks of experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and low self-worth.

Some of the things these mothers do is compare you with others using words such as, “Why can’t you be more like (someone else)?” or make you question your self-worth.

Narcissistic mothers invalidate their children’s emotions and achievements, dismissing their feelings instead of offering support. They manipulate emotions, making children doubt themselves and struggle for approval, often feeling they’ll never be good enough.

What’s most, a narcissistic mother tends to create rivalry among siblings by favoring one of the children.

The situation is even worse when these mother’s have daughters and see them as a “threat,” thus compete with them for the attention of the other men in both their lives, including the husband/dad and son/brother.

Other characteristics of a narcissistic mother are: not respecting her children’s boundaries, sees her child as an extension of herself, constantly criticizes her children, sets unrealistic expectations, she’s obsessed with maintaining perfect appearance in front of others, ignores her children’s needs, competes with her children, only treats her children well in public, shows jealousy of her children, and expects admiration.

According to Psychotherapist Lena Derhally, some things they could say are as follows:

  1. That never happened. You must have imagined it.
  2. “I do so much for you, and you never show appreciation!”
  3. You should try being more like your [another person]. They’re so wonderful.”
  4. Why can’t you just get over it already?”
  5. “Don’t waste your time. It’s probably too hard for you.”
  6. “You’re always so busy with your own life that you don’t even think about me.”
  7. “I’m so tired of doing everything for you.”
  8. “You’re gaining weight and won’t be able to fit your new clothes soon.”
  9. “I’m going to have to punish you if you don’t do exactly what I say.”
  10. “Be quiet. Nobody cares what you have to say.”

Dealing with a narcissistic mother can be tough.

However, once you realize your mother is one, there are certain things to do in order to protect yourself from her behavior.

First and most important of all is to stop blaming yourself, because who your mother is isn’t your fault. Next, you can try and set boundaries, minimize contact and communication, work on your self-esteem, stay calm and respectful, and eventually, if you believe you need professional help to deal with a narcissistic mother, don’t be ashamed or afraid to seek professional support.

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Tattooed woman who keeps her nose in a jar – before and after

Tattoos represent a form of self-expression that sometimes have certain cultural or religious significance. For some, they are simply a pure form of art or a way to commemorate an event or a loved one.

However, no matter the reasons behind having one, tattoos are a personal choice that some cultures still perceive as taboo.

Toxii Daniëlle is one of the most tattooed women. However, her looks isn’t only changed by the ink on her body but also through other forms of body modification, such as cutting her nose which she now keeps in a jar.

This tattooed woman has tattoos covering her from head to toe, with the upper part of her body almost entirely black.

 
 
 
 
 
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Her appearance has attracted the attention of many, and she now has over 155,000 subscribers on her Instagram where she posts photos of herself and her modifications, which also include subdermal silicon implants embedded beneath her skin and a split tongue.

In an Instagram post, street artist Devon Rodriguez interviewed her and asked her what inspired her to change her looks to that extent.

“Because I like to be imperfect and I think that imperfections make you unique,” Toxii said.

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Asked about the pain that came with her forehead implants that resemble horns, she said her nose removal was way worse.

“Did you keep the nose?” Rodriguez proceeded asking, to which Toxii replied: “I have all my body parts, in like little jars, yeah.”

Recently, Toxii shocked her followers when she shared a photo of herself before the tattoos and the modifications. Many say they can’t believe what a difference four years can make.

“You were so beautiful before,” one person commented. “What on Earth made you do this to yourself?”

Another questioned: “Why do you hate yourself?”

Someone else added: “I don’t understand how you can make these mods in such a short time.

“I think these decisions are best made over a longer period – it gives the body, mind, and soul time to adjust to the change and make a healthy choice on continuing. This quick impulsiveness breeds discontent and regret.”

Tattooed Toxii
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There were also those who connected her appearance to satanic rituals.

As expected, tattoo lovers and those who believe in the beauty of self-expression dubbed Toxii “Beautiful before and during and after.”

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The perfect age gap if you want a relationship to last

The truth is that you can’t choose who you fall in love with, but it turns out that the age gap between you and your partner can actually determine the longevity of your relationship.

We have witnessed huge age gaps between partners in Hollywood over the years, and while we have somehow accepted it as something “normal” when it comes to celebrities, it is a bit different when ordinary people are in such relationships. The stares and the judgment still persist, even during these times we consider modern.

Actor Robert DeNiro became a father for the seventh time at the age of 79. His girlfriend is 45.

One of the relationships that has attracted the attention of the wide public during the past couple of years is that between French President Emanuel Macron and his wife Brigitte Trogneux, who is 25 years his senior.

Speaking of the public’s obsession with their relationship, the leader of France told Le Parisien, “If I was 20 years older than my wife, nobody would think for a single second that we couldn’t be legitimately together.

“It’s because she is 20 years older than me that a lot of people say, ‘this relationship can’t be tenable, it can’t be possible.’”

Anyway, the connection between the age gap and the longevity of one’s relationship has been discussed by experts.

While they believe there isn’t a specific range that is considered acceptable, a study has shown that the greater the age difference, the higher the chances of separation.

As reported by the Independent, a research conducted by the Emory University in Atlanta showed that “couples with a five-year age gap are 18 per cent more likely to split up than those of the same age.”

For those with ten-year age gap, the chances of separation increased to 39, and for those with 20-year-age gap to 95 percent.

The researchers behind the study found that couples with an age gap of just one year had the lowest chances of separation.

Speaking to Metro, counsellor Sedef Salim says, “While there can be societal and cultural biases around relationships with significant age gaps, this really falls down to the two people within that unique connection and relationship.

“If there is love, trust, acceptance, and responsibility for the possible implication of being in that relationship, then the ideal age gap can mean different things for each unique couple.”

Psychotherapist and author of Retroactive Jealousy, Making Sense of It, Toby Ingham, adds that it is difficult to give an exact number when it comes to the right age gap between partners.

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The terrifying reason cruise ship passengers are asked to turn off lights and close curtains when traversing specific waters

Travelling onboard a luxury cruise ship can be quite an experience, but what many don’t know is that it sometimes comes with an unusual “threat.”

In fact, it has recently been reveled by a passenger on the Cunard Queen Anne ship, which is embarking on an 111-night ‘maiden World voyage’ from Hamburg, Germany – visiting sights such as New York, Sydney, Hawaii, Penang and Cape Town, alongside passing through the Sulu-Celebs sea – that the passengers were warned to shut off lights and draw curtains.

In the TikTok video, which has over 8 million views, the captain warns the nearly 3,000 travellers onboard the cruise ship of a ‘heightened level of security alertness’ as a result of traveling through piracy-prone areas.

The external promenade decks shuttering overnight would reduce the ship’s visibility, the person who shared the captain’s announcement on TikTok explained.

@lillydapink I didn't know there were pirates around this area. We are crossing from Darwin to Manila #cruisetok #cunard #fyp ♬ original sound – cruisegypsyuk@lillydapink

As expected, the video attracted the attention of many who said they were unaware of such dangers.

“Well, that sounds terrifying,” one person commented.

“Not really, it’s just safety precautions, the risk is very low,” the TikToker who posted the video answered.

Another said, “Idk why but every time I hear about real life pirates I’m always shocked/amazed that they really exist.”

A third added, “I used to work on a cruise ship and there are a few areas where you get piracy. We used to get a special security company that used to come onboard with g*ns when we go past Somalia. You’re safe.”

Cunard Queen Anne cruise ship.
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Someone else added: “To be honest, if a cruise or passenger ship was attacked by Pirates, the response from naval vessels would be swift and sudden, moreso than if it was a regular merchant vessel.”

Speaking to the Business Insider, a representative for Cunard said: “As part of standard maritime procedures, our Captains may make precautionary announcements when sailing through certain regions.

“There was no specific threat to the ship or its guests, and our onboard experience remained uninterrupted.”

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Breastfeeding method results in the death of a 7-week-old baby

Every parent wants the best for their child, and losing one is one of the most devastating things a person can ever experience. Sadly, a family from Britain experienced the loss of their seven-week-old baby due to a breastfeeding method that seems to be popular among young parents.

Now, following the tragic passing of baby James Alderman, whom his parents called Jimmy, the National Childbirth Trust (NCT) has issued a warning over breastfeeding babies in carriers, stating that hands-free breastfeeding is “always unsafe.”

Jimmy’s mom, Ellie, breastfed him while he was carried in a sling, The Sun reported. She then noticed the baby was unconscious and panic surged through her. Despite the attempts to revive him, Jimmy passed away three days later at a hospital. The cause of death was listed as suffocation.

An inquest into his sudden passing revealed that baby Jimmy was in an unsafe position too far down the sling and collapsed after a few minutes.

His face wasn’t covered, but he wasn’t getting enough oxygen inside the sling during breastfeeding.

Senior coroner for west London, Lydia Brown, wrote in a Prevention of Future Deaths Report that “very little” safety information about baby slings was available to parents despite a “significant increase” in their use.

She asked for industry standards promoting the safe usage of slings.

“There appeared to be no helpful visual images of ‘safe’ versus ‘unsafe’ sling/carrier postures,” she said, adding that “the NHS available literature provides no guidance or advice”.

“In my opinion action should be taken to prevent future deaths,” she said.

Jimmy’s dad, George Alderman, told Sky News, “Baby slings are sold as being a lifesaver, allowing you to get on with your business while your baby’s safe and close to you, but in this instance, we had our baby close, but not safe.”

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Only people with an IQ of 140 can spot the 5 differences

If you enjoy solving puzzles and challenges and believe you have a keen eye for detail, then you are at the right place.

Why many of us love brainteasers is because they are not only fun but also challenge our mind. They also make us focus on a single thing in order to solve the mystery behind it. What’s more, they are intriguing, engaging, and rewarding.

What is interesting about these mind-challenging tasks is that even the toughest riddles and mysteries to uncover are the ones ‘hiding’ in plain sight. You wouldn’t suspect anything, yet it is there, staring right back at you, just waiting to be noticed.

Some believe that only those with an IQ of 140 are able to spot the 5 differences between the two photos that seem identical at first sight.

Only those with IQ of 140 can spot all the 5 differences

So, are you ready to put your brain power to work?

Your goal is to spot the 5 subtle differences between the two images. These differences may be small and hard to spot, so pay close attention and stay alert. This challenge is meant to test your observation skills, focus, and ability to quickly process visual information.

If you have a hard time doing the task, or you’ve done it already and want to know how you did, you can take a look at the answer below.

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Man made frantic final call to wife before tragic death after they paid $166,000 deposit on restaurant

Manon Olivon received a frantic final call from her husband François-Tanguy Olivon asking her for help and telling her “to come and get him right away.”

Sadly, she never heard of him again after that and 12 days after the call, his body was retrieved from the Adour River.

According to a local outlet, a CCTV footage showed him wearing a “completely torn” T-shirt and falling off a bridge in the town of Bayonne.

Manon and François were starting their life over, moving from France to the States where they were planning to start a restaurant at the SoHo neighborhood. The couple had sold their restaurant in France where they have been living with their children.

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They paid over a $166,000 deposit and $47,500 for two months rent for January and February to Robert Moskowitz, owner of New York-based Only Properties LLC, Manon shared with The Post.

However, now that François died tragically, the plan for the business failed and Moskowitz refuses to give Manon the money back.

She sent Moskowitz a letter explaining her situation, but he remained deaf to her plea.

“Today, I am not writing to a landlord – I am writing to a man. A man who, I hope can look beyond clauses and figures and understand that sometimes, life puts us through unimaginable trials that we cannot face alone,” she wrote in the letter.

“If you cannot return the full amount, then I beg you to at least return one month’s rent. It would be an immense help to me and my children.”

Francois-Tanguy Olivon's body was recovered from a river 12 days after his frantic final call to his wife
Francois-Tanguy Olivon’s body was recovered from a river 12 days after his frantic final call to his wife/ GoFundMe

His lawyers said they would hold Manon responsible for the entire 10-year lease unless she signed a ‘surrender agreement,’ which she eventually did.

She’s now doing her best to provide for her family, which she describes as close-knit.

In the meantime, she started a GoFundMe page.

“With a heavy heart, I am launching this fundraiser. The funds raised will help me: Ensure a stable future for my children after this devastating loss, cover the costs related to François-Tanguy passing, handle daily expenses as we try to rebuild our lives.”

According to experts, the landlord didn’t do anything against the law when he refused to return the money.

We are very sorry for the devastating loss of this family.

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George Clooney calls out Trump on 60 Minutes, but the president doesn’t hold back

George Clooney had a lot to say about the US president on 60 Minutes, and as expected, Trump didn’t hold back, dubbing the Ocean’s Eleven actor “a second rate movie ‘star’ and failed politician pundit.”

During his appearance on the TV program that aired Sunday, Clooney warned Americans about the government’s increasing encroachment on journalism, an opinion Trump didn’t seem to be happy about.

Clooney has been promoting his newest project, the Broadway production of Good Night and Good Luck, a movie he originally wrote and directed in 2005. It follows the life of journalist Edward R. Murrow, who is targeted by Sen. Joseph McCarthy during the anti-communist Red Scare of the 1950s.

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“When the other three estates fail, when the judiciary and the executive and the legislative branches fail us, the fourth estate has to succeed,” Clooney said, referring to the press as to the fourth estate.

“ABC has just settled a lawsuit with the Trump administration. And CBS News is in the process… We’re seeing this idea of using government to scare or fine or use corporations to make journalists smaller.

“Governments don’t like the freedom of the press. They never have. And that goes for whether you are a conservative or a liberal or whatever side you’re on,” the actor added. “They don’t like the press.”

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Trump took to Truth Social to criticize Clooney, accusing him of supporting Biden and then “dumping him like a dog,” referring to Clooney’s op-ed published in the New York Times in which he asked from Biden to step down.

“Later, I assume under orders from the Obama camp, pushed all out for ‘Kamala,’ only to soon realize that this was not going to work out too well,” Trump continued.

You can see the full 60 Minutes interview with George Clooney below.

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