The hidden meaning of thumb rings: what they represent for women vs. men

For most people, rings are just a piece of jewelry that serves the purpose of matching an outfit or simply add a touch of elegance and style, but for others, they have deeper, more symbolic meaning, especially when they are worn on the thumb.

Since the thumb stands apart from the rest of the fingers, many see it as a symbol of independence and empowerment, and wearing a ring on it shows strength, freedom, and strong sense of individuality.

What makes thumb rings even more intriguing is the meaning they carry depending on weather they are worn by women or men.

What a Thumb Ring Symbolizes on a Woman

Women who wear thumb ring are believed to be bold, independent, and not afraid to break away from traditional norms.

Feminist or LGBTQ+ Expression (in some cases)

During the 90s and early 00’s, wearing a ring on the thumb, especially on the right one, was seen as a symbol of feminist values and even same sex attraction.

Fashion & Confidence

Thumb rings are unique and striking, thus an ideal choice for women who wish to showcase their creativity, highlight their individuality, or add a bold touch to their style.

What a Thumb Ring Symbolizes on a Man

Power & Status (Historical Roots)

Since ancient times, thumb rings were associated with power and status, especially in men. In ancient Rome, they were worn by those who wanted to show their power and influence, while in parts of Asia, they were sometimes crafted from jade, gold, or ivory to symbolize prestige and masculinity.

Individualism

In modern times, men wear thumb rings to show their uniqueness, creativity, and their rebellious nature.

S**ual confidence

For some, this piece of jewelry, especially when worn on the left thumb, serves as a symbol of their strong sense of s**ual confidence, suggesting that they are comfortable in their own skin and unapologetic about his desires. It can also reflect openness and a willingness to explore in intimate relationships, and even if a man doesn’t really want to send such a message, it still adds a hint of mystery and even charm.

Do you prefer wearing your ring on your thumb?

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My mother-in-law took our wedding card money—and wouldn’t give it back

Our wedding day was picture perfect, just like I’ve always imagined it would be. Of course, there was also the usual chaos, nerves, and glitter everywhere. Grant and I put out this cute little card box for people to drop their envelopes in, and just before the ceremony, my mother-in-law, Sharon, offered to keep an eye on it “for safekeeping.” Since she’s family, both Grant and I agreed. What’s most, we were thankful to her for being so thoughtful.

Fast forward to our first dance, and the box wasn’t there anymore. When I asked Sharon about it, she said, “Oh, don’t worry, I put it in my car. I’ll bring it back after brunch.”

Next day, brunch rolled around but the box was still nowhere to be seen. And Sharon? She looked totally unbothered. And then, at one moment, she said she had counted the money and there were $5,000 but she was keeping them because she was more responsible than me and her son. What’s more, she causally mentioned that she had already spent $500 of OUR money on aunt Marlene’s hotel stay.

We asked for the money from the wedding again, but my mother-in-law got angry and left. Both Grant and I just stood there, shocked by her irrational behavior, knowing that arguing with her would be in vain.

We let a couple of days go by before Grant reached out to his mother.

However, since she got even more stubborn about the entire money situation, we decided to flip the script. Grant looked her straight in the eyes and said, “Ok, mom, no money, no baby plans, just like that.”

She took a moment to process what Grant said, and out of nowhere, her “I want to be a grandma” instinct kicked in.

She handed us the money, and she did it with a huge smile on her face.

We deposited it immediately, labeling it our Baby Fund.

What Sharon didn’t understand was that her interference only made us stronger. She was basically the universe’s way of teaching us the importance of boundaries. And yes, while family is wonderful, once you are married, you have to look out for each other first, no questions asked, because no one else gets to write your story.

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Heartbreaking update on children who vanished with father four years ago and were spotted by hunters

It was 2021 when Tom Phillips and his children Jayda, 12, Maverick, 10, and Ember, nine, vanished from their family home in New Zealand. Allegedly, before they got missing, they got into an argument with the mother.

The last time the children were seen was October 3 last year, while the search for them is ongoing.

Cat, the mother of the children, opened up about the entire situation after some teenage boys reportedly spotted her children trekking through the bush along with their father and took a video of them.

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At the time, Cat said that she was thankful for the video the boys had taken, noting that it felt like “Christmas came early.”

She, however, accused her husband of using their children as “pawns” in his game of trying to teach her a lesson.

Tom’s family also spoke about his actions and made a direct appeal to him.

“Everyday I wake up and hope that today will be the day that you all come home,” his mother, Julia, said, as reported by the BBC. “Tom – I feel really sad that you thought you had to do this. Not considering how much we love you and can support you. It hurts every time I see photos of the children and of you and see some of your stuff that is still here.”

She added: “Jayda, Maverick, Ember – I love you so much and really miss being part of your lives.”

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“There’s a lot of love and there’s a lot of support, and we’re ready to help you walk through what you need to walk through,” his sister, Rozzi Phillips, told New Zealand news site Stuff in an exclusive interview.

“I I miss you, and I miss being part of your life, and I really want to see you and the kids and be part of your lives again,” she added.

According to Rozzi, it is very possible that Tom, whom she described as a capable builder, built a “hut” for him and the children in the bush.

It was reported that Tom and the children vanished after he lost legal custody of them and have since been camping in the North Island’s western Waikato region.

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The teens who claim spotted the family in Marokopa said Tom had a gun and long beard, while the children had masks on and carried their own packs. They also said they briefly spoke to one of the kids, asking if anyone knew they were there, to which the child allegedly replied: “Only you,” according to New Zealand’s 1News.

Authorities have since issued a warrant for Tom’s arrest in relation to a bank robbery in Te Kuiti, where police believe he acted with an accomplice. Local officers have cautioned the public not to approach him, saying he is likely armed and may be receiving assistance from others to avoid capture.

Last year, a NZ$80,000 reward for information on the family’s whereabouts was posted.

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Taking morning baths after 70: potential liver risks you should be aware of

Taking a bath daily what most people consider a healthy practice. Of course, there are also those who shower more than once per day, but also those who tend to skip a day or two.

However, while taking a bath feels like a simple daily task can have some health consequences on the elderly.

When people reach a certain age, usually 70 and above, their bodily functions tend to slow down. It is also the age when the body becomes more vulnerable to changes in temperature and circulation, so taking baths first thing in the morning can put stress on the liver and increase the risk of liver-related conditions. While the act of showering isn’t harmful on its own, the timing can be.

Here are some liver-related risks seniors should know about if they often bathe in the morning.

1. Reduced Blood Flow to the Liver

As we age, blood circulation naturally slows, so taking a hot bath early in the morning causes blood vessels to expand quickly, sending more blood to the skin. This can temporarily reduce blood flow to internal organs, including the liver. Elderly people with liver conditions like fatty liver, hepatitis, or early cirrhosis may experience increased liver strain and slower detoxification.

2. Higher Risk of Fatty Liver Worsening

Hot morning baths can also cause sudden changes in the blood pressure. At people over the age of 70 who suffer from metabolic conditions such as diabetes type 2, morning baths can add stress on the body which worsens fatty liver disease. If left untreated, fatty liver leads to inflammation, fibrosis, and reduced liver function.

3. Hepatitis Reactivation Triggers

Some elderly individuals carry inactive hepatitis B or C and a sudden hot or cold morning bath can put pressure on the immune system. Although uncommon, this may trigger viral activity and lead to liver inflammation.

4. Strain on a Cirrhotic Liver

People over 70 who already suffer from cirrhosis may cause further damage on their liver by taking a hot bath early in the morning. Those suffering from cirrhosis already face blood clotting, low albumin levels, and reduced detoxification, and the habit of showering in the morning may cause their circulatory system to worsen, causing swelling and fatigue. It can also increase the risk of complications like hepatic encephalopathy.

5. Increased Risk of Gallbladder and Bile Flow Problems

Since the liver and the gallbladder work together to produce and regulate bile, hot or cold morning baths can disrupt this rhythm, potentially making gallstones or bile duct problems worse.

6. Dehydration and Toxin Accumulation

Most seniors wake up dehydrated and entering a hot bath immediately can exacerbate fluid loss. Adequate hydration is crucial for the liver to detoxify efficiently, and the combined effects of dehydration and circulatory stress may impair this process.

If you are 70 or above wait at least an hour after waking up to take a bath. Further, bath with lukewarm water, make sure you stay hydrated, and limit bath time to 10-15 minutes at maximum.

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More people are dying from heart failure, doctors warn: give up these 4 habits now

The World Health Organization (WHO), the World Heart Federation, and the American Heart Association estimate that heart failure (HF) is a global pandemic affecting at least 26 million people worldwide, and its prevalence is rapidly increasing, according to a study published in Science Direct.

Heart failure doesn’t mean the heart is no longer working but that it isn’t pumping as it should, and the body relies on it to pump oxygenated, nutrient-rich blood to its cells. When the heart loses strength and can’t deliver enough blood, it leads to fatigue, shortness of breath, and sometimes a chronic cough. Over time, even routine activities such as walking, climbing stairs, and carrying bags become increasingly difficult.

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While heart failure, HF, is a lifelong condition, you may have HF remission with treatment and healthy lifestyle changes. 

In fact, doctors warn of four habits that can be linked to heart failure, advising to break them for the sake of a healthy heart and overall well-being.

1. Excessive Salt Intake

A study published by AHA/ASA Journal, “Dietary sodium restriction is arguably the most frequent self-care behavior recommended to patients with heart failure (HF), and is endorsed by all HF guidelines.”

Excessive sodium intake is associated with fluid retention, which can lead to increased blood pressure. Over time, high blood pressure weakens the heart and increases the strain on it, eventually leading to heart failure.

“In 2005, the American College of Cardiology and the American Heart Association HF guidelines recommended 3000 to 4000 mg daily sodium intake, and, for patients with volume overload, restriction to 2000 mg/d. This recommendation was subsequently updated to moderate sodium restriction. The Heart Failure Society of America recommends 2000 to 3000 mg daily sodium intake and <2000 mg for patients with moderate to severe HF symptoms.”

How to avoid this habit: Limit processed and salty foods like canned soups and packaged snacks. Instead, opt for home cooked meals with fresh ingredients, adding flavor with herbs and spices instead of salt. Also, check food labels for hidden sodium.

2. Sedentary Lifestyle

Sitting too much has become part of modern life, but it puts the heart at risk.

Most of us spend great part of the day sitting at desks, on the couch, or in cars, probably not being aware that this for of lifestyle increases the risk of heart disease and heart failure. On the other hand, regular exercise boosts circulation, keeps weight in check, and helps lower blood pressure.

How to avoid this habit: Try to get at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise or 75 minutes of intensive activity each week. Break up long sitting periods by standing, stretching, and walking. Low-impact options like walking, cycling, swimming, or dancing are great for your heart and easy on the joints.

3. Smoking and Excessive Alcohol Consumption

Alcohol and smoking may worsen the condition of heart failure, so it is crucial that people with heart failure reduce their alcohol intake and quit smoking.

Smoking affects blood vessels, increases blood pressure, and reduces the amount of oxygen delivered to the heart. In the same manner, excessive alcohol consumption weakens the heart muscle and increases the risk of heart failure. The sad reality is that many people fail to realize the long-term damage these habits do to the heart and the overall health.

How to avoid this habit: If you are a smoker, try to quit. And of course, if you find this difficult, which is likely you do, then seek support. The same goes for the alcohol. Reduce the intake to moderate levels (one drink per day for women, two for men), and if you have trouble cutting back on alcohol, consider seeking professional help or support groups.

4. Chronic Stress and Poor Sleep

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Chronic stress and poor sleep can take a serious toll on your heart health. Ongoing stress raises cortisol levels, which can increase blood pressure and strain the heart. At the same time, not getting enough sleep prevents the body from repairing cells and disrupts metabolism, raising the risk of obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, and ultimately heart failure.

How to avoid this habit: Practice stress-management habits like deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness on a daily basis. Try to get 7 to 9 hours of sleep during the night and keep your bedtime routine calm, screen-free, and comfortable.

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Bear attack survivor wrote chilling final note to loved ones after picking up pieces of his own flesh

Jeremy Evans ventured into the woods in Alberta, Canada, hunting for a ram, but what he stumbled upon was way bigger and far more dangerous.

It was on August 24, 2017, when Evans went to the woods. There, he hid behind trees, camouflaged, when he spotted a Bighorn Ram through his binoculars. However, beside what he believed would be his catch that day, he suddenly noticed something huge and brown running towards him and it didn’t take long before he realized a grizzly bear was less than 10 feet away from where he was standing.

“I knew exactly what it was, I had this just feeling of… I knew I was in trouble,” he told Noiser. “With grizzly bears, most of the time, the cubs are running around, and the mom is following. So, I knew that Mom was close, and I knew that trouble would be coming.”

Being an experienced hunter, he reached for the bear spray in his backpack, but before he even get it, the momma bear appeared right in front of him.

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“And as I went to turn and look, their mama […] was about four feet away,” he explained, per Noiser. “Her right front paw was stretched straight out. I could see the claws. I could see the whites of her eyes, and the left side of her mouth was slightly open, and she was on a full charge…”

Jeremy threw the bike at the bear, hoping to save himself some time as he ran towards a tree that he climbed, but the bear wrapped her claws around his leg as he dangled from a branch.

In the next moment, he was brutally attacked.

“My left eye was hanging out of the socket. It was facing down. In order to really see, I either had to lift up my eye or lean my head way back,” he told the Daily Mail.

“I remember feeling my face and nothing felt the same. My jaw was hanging down on the left side and all my teeth were exposed.”

After the attack, the bear left the scene, and Jeremy started picking peaces of his own flash from the ground — That’s how severely injured he was.

“I remember fiddling around the mountainside and I found a large chunk of flesh. I could feel the bristles and hair, and it was the part of my right side of my scalp.”

At that moment, Jeremy was convinced he would die from the injuries so he decided to take his own life right there and then. He pulled a trigger, but the gun failed to fire. “That kind of scared me a little bit,” he explained. “So that’s when I decided that I was going to try to make it out.”

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He then pulled out his phone and wrote final messages to his wife. “Whoever finds this please let my wife know I tried to make it,” one message shared with UNILAD read. “But there is [no] chance, that bear really [f***ed] me up.”

Another text read: “I am pretty sure this is the end. I am very tired and I feel like I am going to pass out. If I do I won’t wake up.”

Miraculously, Jeremy managed to get inside his car and drive 22 km before reaching help. He was then taken to the hospital where he spent five weeks and underwent five major surgeries and 15 minor procedures. Today, there are still part of his body he has limited function of, but the fact he managed to survive is truly incredible.

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Coach goes viral online for this one act during kids’ basketball game

Getting inside the classroom every day and trying to cope with all those students who have different personalities and learn using different strategies isn’t that easy. However, watching a shy student raising their hand and speaking in front of the whole class, or seeing a struggling student getting an ‘A’ makes you realize that it’s all worth it. It requires only special people to be teachers, because not everyone can rise to the task of shaping young minds into compassionate and responsible people who’d become a valuable part of the community. 

The ideal teachers always go the extra mile just to make sure their students are doing their best to achieve the most they can. This help usually expands outside of the classroom too. And even if this effort may not be recognized by the parents, the school’s principal, or the community, that doesn’t really mater, because teachers know how great of an impact they make. 

One coach from Valdosta, Georgia was giving his students a lesson in basketball when one of them, a girl named Kristin Paulk, approached and asked him whether he could do her a favor.

He said yes even before he knew what the girl would ask. The girl then said: “Can you tie my hair in a ponytail?” The teacher didn’t think twice before he knelt down and started doing her hair. Meanwhile, a fellow colleague named Kandice Anderson noticed the quite unusual sight and decided to put it on tape. She later posted the video on her Facebook page, writing:

“When your job goes beyond teaching… #CoachO #Love”

Kandice only wanted to show her friends what it really takes to be a teacher, and never did she think the video would be seen more than 3 million times. The phys ed teacher had no idea his kind act vent viral and he became famous. People found this way too adorable, and he was featured on Good Morning America. 

“It was shocking to me that it got that much attention because we all do it.”

The coach has three children on his own so he happens to know how to make a ponytail. He jokes how his expertise in hair styling stops there and if sweet Kristin wanted a more complex hairstyle she should have probably asked someone else to do it for her. 

Kristin’s mother was also a guest at Good Morning America where she shared how she felt like after watching the video. She says she is more than happy knowing her girl has a teacher who cares so much. 

We hope there are more teachers like this coach out there, who would do anything for their students’ well being. 

This video is the sweetest thing you’ll see all day. 

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Jennifer Lopez wears nothing but diamonds on stage, fans are divided

Jennifer Lopez is more than a singer and actress; she’s a style icon and a trendsetter. Don’t believe me? Just take a look at her latest fashion stunt at the American Music Awards 2025 which she hosted this year. In fact, her appearance as a host marked ten years since she first landed that role.

Lopez opted for eight different outfits that she changed during the night, and although she was stunning in each and every one of them, one particular wardrobe choice made fans stunned… and well, also divided.

Lopez’ first time on the AMAs stage was back in 1991 when she performed as a backup dancer for New Kids on the Block at just 21 years old. “The awards show has been such a big part of my music journey and history,” she shared. “We’re going to celebrate the year in music.”

Though she admitted hosting isn’t usually her thing—”Believe it or not, I’m quite shy,” she said—Lopez nailed it with effortless confidence and flair. “I’m a performer, so if I have a script or a song, I can do that, and I love doing that. But hosting is a different thing, a different skill set,” she added.

At the AMA, Lopez turned heads in a dazzling, diamond-studded outfit from Bronx and Banco’s Fall 2023 collection.

The look featured bold cutouts and a sheer fringe skirt, perfectly highlighting her curves and famous abs. She described her style for the evening as “glam, cool, chic, elegant, and sexy”—everything fans associate with her iconic fashion sense. Social media buzzed with reactions: many praised her fearless and stunning fashion at 55, calling her legendary, while a few thought the outfit was a bit over the top for a hosting role.

Whether fans loved or questioned her bold choices, one thing is clear: Jennifer Lopez knows how to make a statement—and she’s not slowing down anytime soon.

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