Missing 2-year-old Dane Paulsen found dead

The body of 2-year-old Dane Paulsen, who was reported missing, was located by the authorities on March 11, in Oregon’s Siletz River, around three miles away from his family’s property.

The search for little Dane was an extensive one, but sadly, he was found dead.

Dane was missing since March 1.

In a Facebook press release, Lincoln County Sheriff’s Office wrote, “Sadly, he was found deceased.” He added that investigators are processing the scene in coordination with the Lincoln County Medical Examiner’s Office.

Dane’s body was found at approximately 11:13 a.m. by volunteer diver Juan Heredia from Angels Recovery Dive Team who was guided by a local river expert. The location was previously searched by sheriff’s office divers.

“Our thoughts are with the family, who are facing an unbearable sorrow,” Sheriff Adam Shanks said. “Out of respect for the family’s privacy during this profoundly difficult time, we ask the public and media to respect their need for space and time to grieve,” it continued.

In the first 24 hours of filing the missing report, authorities, along with volunteers and a number of search groups and rescue teams, searched 382 acres and 283 miles. K9s, drones, divers, and watercrafts were also used in the search.

 
 
 
 
 
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Dane Paulsen was last seen alive on March 1, at approximately 4:25 p.m. local time in his family’s home’s yard north of Siletz, Oregon.

Around the time he vanished, a car driven by an adult man was spotted near the family’s home, but after tracking down the driver, authorities said he was no “person of interest.”

Further, the sheriff’s office stated that Dane’s case didn’t qualify for Amber Alert, but updates would be provided through the social media and FlashAlert.

We are so very sorry for the loss of Dane Paulsen.

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A paper plane from my grandson uncovered my DIL’s secret and got me banned from seeing him

Following my husband’s passing, my world turned upside down. Living on my own at 71 wasn’t an easy thing to get used to. Only the thought of me being there for my grandson gave me hope that life could be bearable again.

Sadly, out of the blue, I was cut from his life. My daughter-in-law insisted I shouldn’t be seeing my grandson, Timmy, any longer.

One day, I knocked on their door. When my DIL opened it, she screamed at me. “Margaret, you are no longer welcome here. Timmy doesn’t want you either. Just go away.”

My heart broke in to a million pieces. But just as I turned around and tried to leave, Timmy called my name. He was at the window of his room.

“Grandma, catch this,” he yelled as he threw a paper plane towards me.

I grabbed the paper plane and held to it as to something sacred. But then I opened it and froze. There was a message written on it with Timmy’s untidy handwriting.

“Grandma, please help me. I’m not safe. Don’t tell mom and dad.”

Those words made my blood chill. I wondered what was going on behind closed doors.

I couldn’t sleep that night, thinking of Timmy and of the things that bothered him.

Not knowing what to do, I decided to visit his home late into the night, entering through the gate easily because of the broken latch my late husband once tried to fix.

I called Timmy’s name, and suddenly, there he was. “Grandma, what are you doing here?” he asked.

“Timmy, you need to tell me what’s wrong.”

Timmy then told me that his parents fought a lot, and that there was a man who visited the house every day. They were yelling at each other and wouldn’t stop fighting. He just wanted out of there, and I felt completely hopeless.

The following day, I contacted Billy, a retired cop and a close friend of my late husband. I told him about the message on the paper plane, and he promised to try and learn if my son and DIL were in some sort of trouble.

Unfortunately, the news was awful. Billy used his connections at the police to learn that my son was part of drugs investigation, while my DIL was involved with some seriously dangerous people who were also charged with dealing drugs.

I couldn’t believe they would do such a thing. Not with their son in the house.

Billy suggested we contacted social services, and that’s exactly what I did.

They determined that Timmy was a witness of drug abuse, domestic violence, and other criminal activities, so he was taken out of the home.

I was granted temporary custody over him, and sadly, both my son and his wife ended up in prison.

Raising a child at my age wasn’t easy, but I had to do it, and I was more than willing to do so.

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What causes night cramps and how to fix the problem?

Muscle cramps are sudden spasms of the muscles that cause pain. And while they are not usually harmful, they cause an uncomfortable feeling due to the severe contraction of the muscles.

The cramps can last from a few seconds to ten minutes and can affect the calf muscle and the muscles on the feet or the tights (the latter doesn’t happen as often.)

The reasons why cramps happen can be various.

The most common, however, are as follows:

1. Dehydration

Sometimes, leg cramps that happen during the night are caused by the lack of hydration as this condition leads to an electrolyte imbalance.

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2. Mineral Deficiencies

Muscle cramps can also happen due to the shortage of certain minerals within the body, such as magnesium, potassium, and calcium.

3. Overexertion

Although exercises is good for the body, overexertion can sometimes overwork the muscles, leading to cramps.

4. Sedentary lifestyle

In order to function properly, muscles need to be stretched from time to time, which is something we often forget about when our job requires too much sitting throughout the day.

5. Improper sitting position

It’s easy for muscles to get strained in case of poor posture and prolonged sitting or standing.

6. Nerve Compression

Nerves in the legs may get compressed or pinched by conditions such as sciatica or herniated discs, which can result in cramps.

7. Pregnancy

The changes in hormone levels and the increased pressure on blood vessels can lead to muscle cramps at pregnant women.

8. Medications

The side effects of certain medications such as diuretics, statins, or antipsychotics can lead to muscle cramps.

9. Alcohol Consumption

The consumption of alcohol affects the body by causing muscle dehydration and mineral imbalances.

10. Certain Medical Conditions

Certain medical conditions such as diabetes, kidney disease, thyroid disorders, and peripheral artery disease can also lead to muscle cramps.

Some of the standard treatments than can help prevent and relieve the immediate discomfort as per Healthline are: massaging the legs, stretching, walking on your heels, applying heat (such as hot towel, hot bottles, or heating pad on the affected area), drink pickle juice, and take nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory (NSAID) drugs such as ibuprofen and naproxen.

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Canada’s next Prime Minister Mark Carney vows to win trade war as he immediately hits out at Donald Trump

Mark Carney, former governor of the Canadian central bank and Bank of England, won the race to become Canada’s new Prime Minister.

He will succeed Justin Trudeau at a time when the country is at a trade war with their long-time alley, the USA.

The trade war started following Trump’s decision to impose 25 percent import tariffs on Canada and Mexico as part of his agenda of making America great again.

Also, he brought 10 percent on goods from China and energy imported from Canada.

Many dub this decision hostile towards the neighboring countries.

At the same time, it would affect the US citizens in terms of experiencing increased cost of groceries and gas.

On the social media Truth Social, Trump wrote, “WILL THERE BE SOME PAIN? YES, MAYBE (AND MAYBE NOT!). BUT WE WILL MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN, AND IT WILL ALL BE WORTH THE PRICE THAT MUST BE PAID.”

Trump said the “only solution” for Canada to dodge the tariffs would be it to become the 51st state of America.

He accused Canada of failing to “halt the flood of poisonous drugs into the US.”

Canada and Mexico took a stand regarding the hiked tariffs, saying they would respond in the same manner to US goods being imported.

Mark Carney wasted no time to slam president Trump.

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In his speech, he said, “America is not Canada. And Canada never, ever, will be part of America in any way, shape or form.

“We didn’t ask for this fight, but Canadians are always ready when someone else drops the gloves. The Americans want our resources, our water, our land, our country.

“Think about it. If they succeed, they will destroy our way of life.”

Mark Carney added: “I know these are dark days. Dark days brought on by a country we can no longer trust.”

“We’re getting over the shock, but let us never forget the lessons: we have to look after ourselves and we have to look out for each other. We need to pull together in the tough days ahead.”

Carney won on the first ballot on Sunday evening, taking 85.9% of the vote within the Liberal Party to beat his nearest rival, former Finance Minister Chrystia Freeland.

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Runner ‘attacked’ opponent with baton during major race

A video of a runner being “attacked” with a baton during 4×200 meter relay at Liberty University in Virginia has gone viral, causing outrage against the “attacker,” Alaila Everett.

Following the comments under the video, Alaila finally decided to speak up of the incident and tell her side of the story.

The competitor who suffered the injuries, Kaelen Tucker, was running the second leg of the race when Alaila appeared to have hit her on the head, causing her to fall on the ground. Tucker sustained a concussion and a potential skull fracture.

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Speaking to to WAVYTV10, Alaila explained what really happened.

“Everybody has feelings, so you’re physically hurt but you are not thinking about my mental, right. They are going off of one angle. After a couple times of hitting her with my baton, I got stuck behind her back like this and it rolled up her back. I lost my balance, and when I pumped my arms again, she got hit. I know my intentions and I would never hit somebody on purpose.”

Ever since the video has gone viral, she received threats and was called names.

Her parents believe her side of the story. They claim their daughter would never hurt anyone on purpose.

 
 
 
 
 
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The family of the runner attacked with a baton are mad at the Everetts for not offering an apology after the incident.

“They were beside us at the event. They were watching the video at the event. But no one apologised or came to check on her. Even if it was a fluke or freak accident, you still would check on her,” they said.

Alaila on the other hand said she wanted to apologize but couldn’t reach Kaelen who blocked her on the social media.

The Tuckers have informed the sport’s governing body about the incident leading to an investigation to be launched.

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As a little girl, my mother taught me to use a code word if I was in danger and couldn’t speak up

When I was still just a child, my mother taught me to use a code word if I ever felt uncomfortable around someone or felt like I was in some sort of danger but couldn’t say it outright. When I had daughter on my own, I decided to do the same with her. I explained how that worked and we came up with our secret word together.

However, I had no idea she’d use it that soon.

Namely, my girl, Amy, splits time between me and her dad, my ex-husband Dave. In fact, she’s staying with me but visits him often.

Despite our differences and everything that had happened between us over the years, I know that Dave is a good dad who’d never harm our daughter. That’s is the reason I got extremely scared when Amy used the code word while staying at her dad’s one day.

Dave called me on the phone, saying, “Hey, Amy was eager to talk to you.”

When she got on the phone and I asked her about her day, Amy said, “It’s fun. I was at the park yesterday, and I drew some pictures this morning. I drew a dog, a tree, and… But I wish I could have a blue marker so I could draw blueberries.”

At that moment, my heart sank, “blueberries” was our secret word.

Was Amy in some sort of trouble?

“Don’t worry baby, I’m on my way, and don’t say anything to your dad.”

I got into my car right away and headed to Dave’s place. When he saw me at the door, he was surprised. “Claire, I wasn’t expecting you,” he said.

“Well, I hope you don’t mind picking up Amy a bit early this time,” I said.

It looked like he wanted to protest, but he decided it would be better if he didn’t make a big deal out of it, so he agreed.

I could notice Dave was distant. It was as though something bothered him, but I was quick to leave the house and learn what scared my daughter that much.

She gave her dad a goodbye kiss and entered the car. But the moment she shut the door, she started crying.

“What’s wrong, honey,” I asked her.

“Mom, dad wasn’t acting as usual. He was talking to someone on the phone and he was yelling so much. Then he slammed the door. I got scared, mom.”

“It’s okay, baby” I told her. “Daddy probably had a bad day, that’s it.”

That evening Dave called me on the phone asking about Amy. It was then that I told him why I picked her up. I explained that she had used our code word, that’s how scared she was of his yelling.

“A code word? What’s that?” Dave wanted to know. I explained everything to him and it was obvious he was very sorry for scarring our daughter.

“Things have been hard at work right now,” he said.

I was proud that Amy found our code word handy when she felt uncomfortable and used it.

At that moment, I felt a profound gratitude for that small piece of parenting advice my own mom had given me so many years ago. The code word started as “just in case” thing, but I realized it truly worked well in a real life situation.

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If you’ve never broken a bone, there’s a bizarre conspiracy theory

The rise of the social media led to plenty of trends, especially among the younger population. Recently, a so called “Never Broke a Bone” theory has flooded one of the most popular and most used social media app, TikTok.

This theory, that has gone viral, explains why some people never broke a bone in their life, and some of the reasons users provide are crazy.

The trend started in December 2024, when TikTok user @obviously_makenzie posted a selfie video captioned, “I just found out what it means if you never broken a bone and it makes so much sense I can’t stop crying.” In no time, the video received thousands of reactions and comments with a number of people resonating deeply with the concept.

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Another TikTok video explaining the actual meaning of the theory of never breaking a bone has also gone viral gathering five million views in just five days. 

In it, user @becomingmemo interprets the spiritual reason why some people have never broken a bone in their life. According to him, these people were born to face many mental burdens and emotions, as well as difficulties and traumas in the physical world, so their guardian angels protect their bones and bodies. 

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One TikTok user alluded to a Bible verse as the origin of the theory.

Namely, Psalm 34:19-20 says, “The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all; he protects all his bones, not one of them will be broken.” 

Another user wrote: “mfs when they realise that the ‘never broke a bone’ theory is actually so scary like something is behind you EVERY DAY,” suggesting that the idea of a spirit constantly protecting you is frightening.

It’s interesting that a bunch of these videos discussing the “Never broke a bone” theory are spreading on the social media like a wildfire.

Scientists on the other hand believe that not breaking a bone might be due to genetics, good luck, and good nutrition rather than supernatural forces.

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My sister abandoned her adopted daughter after having a bio son

My sister Erin became a mom of a baby boy, Noah, and the entire family traveled few states away where she lived to celebrate the much-anticipated arrival of their bundle of joy.

Excited to meet my nephew, I bought a bunch of baby stuff and a teddy bear for Lily, my beautiful goddaughter whom my sister adopted some two years prior.

However, when we arrived at Erin’s suburban home, I noticed that Lily’s plastic slide wasn’t in the yard. The little garden she and I planted that summer was also gone. Puzzled, I knocked on Erin’s door, and the moment I got inside together with our mom and dad, Erin appeared at the door, holding her son in her arms.

“Everyone, meet Noah!” she said excitedly, turning the baby towards us.

As I looked around the place, I noticed all of Lily’s toys were missing, including her drawings and the photos of her that were proudly placed all around the living room the last time I visited.

Finally, I asked, “Erin, where’s Lily!?” still smiling and holding her gift.

With all the indifference I’ve ever seen in a person, my sister said, “Oh, I gave her back!”

Being certain I misheard her, I asked for clarification. “What do you mean you gave her back?”

I could see our parents’ faces went stone cold as they too wondered what was actually going on.

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“Well, I always dreamed of becoming a mother, and now that I have Noah, why would I need a daughter?” Erin said, “Lily’s going to be just find, they’ll find another family for her.”

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.

“Erin, are you mad? That girl called you Mom for two years. She’s not a toy to return her, she was your daughter.”

My sister, obviously, didn’t think the decision to abandon her adopted daughter was a big deal.

“Relax, sis,” she said to me. “She wasn’t mine anyway. It’s not like I gave up my own child. Lily was just… temporary.”

Her words crushed my heard. How could my own sister be so cruel. What was she even thinking when she made such a crazy decision?

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At that moment, all the memories I had with Lily flashed in front of my eyes. She was my sweet little girl, my greatest comfort through my miscarriages, my goddaughter, and now my sister gave her away… just like that!

Apparently, Erin and her husband didn’t want to split their love between Lily and their biological son. The worst thing of all was that they believed that the decision to abandon her adopted daughter wasn’t a big deal. She even accused me for blowing the situation out of proportion.

As we argued, someone knocked on the door. To Erin’s surprise, it was karma coming to get her.

Two people from Child Protective Services asked to speak to Erin. Apparently, her neighbor, the one they always argued with, alerted the services of Erin’s decision to abandon her adopted daughter the moment she welcomed a biological child in her life.

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“We have some questions regarding your adoption process and your ability to provide a stable home for your son,” the woman, who introduced herself as Vanessa, said.

“We have grounds to believe that you rushed the adoption termination and skipped essential counseling before giving up custody of your daughter, Lily.”

Erin and her husband, David, claimed they followed legal procedures but Vanessa said they were alerted they returned the legally adopted child with no apparent transition plan, and that made them question their judgement as parents.

Erin broke into tears, but I didn’t feel sorry for her, not even a bit.

I simply couldn’t be around Erin a second longer, so I left.

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All I could think of was Lily. I wanted to know where she was and how she felt. But learning all that wasn’t easy. The information regarding her whereabouts were not public.

Thankfully, thanks to my lawyer, we managed to track Lily down. She was placed in a foster home. My heart broke. She changed a couple of foster homes before my sister adopted her, and now she was going through the same once again.

Luckily, I got the right to visitation, and it didn’t take long before I filed adoption papers myself. Lily was a huge part of my life, and unlike my sister, I couldn’t turn my back to her.

It took a lot of time, patience, and a bunch of paperwork, but Lily was finally where she belonged, by my side.

Once the adoption process was final, my husband, Aaron, hugged me and said, “We finally did it.”

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His support and his love for Lily meant the world to me.

Last week, Lily turned six. She had a beautiful birthday party.

She sometimes hoards food, afraid it would be taken away, and has nightmares, but over time, she will be a lot better. And yes, she was convinced for a long time that she did something wrong and that’s why my sister abandoned her.

Lily, my sister’s adopted daughter whom she didn’t like any longer became my world.

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