I got Chinese food I didn’t order and the note on the receipt set off a strange chain of events

Being a single mom of two, after my husband found someone else and vanished from our lives just like that, felt like a real struggle. Keeping up with my job, everything around the house, and my kids’ needs, I sometimes felt I was failing both as a human and as a mom. I was praying to God to give me the strength to endure it all, and then, something unlikely happened. I got Chinese food I didn’t order and the message on the back of the receipt set of a strange chain of events.

After my husband left, my world turned upside down. It wasn’t that I missed him, but I certainly missed the support, both financial and with my kids. All of a sudden it was just me and my children against the world, and things were hard.

Honestly, I struggled to provide food for them and pay all the bills while finding the time to be around them as much as they needed me to.

One night, however, someone was at the door. When I opened it, I saw a delivery guy who was carrying some food. “Mrs. Carter?” he asked.

“Yes, I’m Mrs. Carter, but I didn’t order anything,” I said.

The guy looked at me and said, “No worries, there was a mix up I guess, you can still have the food since it’s already paid for.”

I didn’t hesitate, but took the food. It was Chinese food, the one I hadn’t had in a very long time.

My kids were quick to sit at the table, waiting to have their share.

As we ate, I noticed there was a message on the back of the receipt that read: “Life has a way of surprising us in wonderful ways. Keep your heart open, and kindness will always find its way back to you.”

It felt strange, but I was glad about the mix up with the order.

In the morning, I noticed that my lawn was mowed. “What’s this?” I thought to myself. I was getting ready to mow it for days, but I couldn’t find the strength or the time, and now someone did it for me. But who could it be?

A couple of days later, as I headed to my car, I noticed a not placed on the windshield that read, “I noticed your car might need a little work. If you ever want to stop by, I’ll take a look—no charge. Just passing on the kindness.”

I knew this couldn’t have been accidental. Someone was behind these good deeds, but I had no idea who it could be.

Over the course of the weeks that followed, I kept receiving kindness from perfect strangers.

And then, one day at the park, I met the delivery guy. I approached him and asked him if he remembered me. He nodded.

“Well, maybe you know something about the good deeds I’ve been receiving, since it all started with the Chinese food you brought to me by mistake.”

The young man smiled. He said, “You see, I knew you were a single mom, so I wanted to help. My mom is a single mom too and I know it’s hard.”

“But what about the rest of the kind deeds?” I asked.

The man told me that my story “spread around.” In fact, it was him who wrote about me in the local Facebook group without revealing my identity. The neighbors decided to step in without me even knowing.

I looked at that young man and gave him a hug. I thanked him for everything he and the rest of the neighbors have done for me without making me feel like I owned them anything. Honestly, I have never felt like I belonged somewhere like I had around all those people from my tiny community.

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Remembering Kirstie Alley – Cause of death and legacy

Actress Kirstie Alley passed away in 2022 after battling cancer. She was diagnosed with the disease shortly before her passing, according to her children who shared the devastating news on the social media.

Alley was a two times Emmy winner.

She was born on January 12, 1951, in Wichita, Kansas where she attended high-school and graduated from university.

However, Kansas wasn’t the place where she wanted to be and she only realized that after she got involved with drugs.

Speaking of those times, the late actress revealed to Parade, “The truth of how I escaped Kansas is being high. I was drugged out of my mind … I got in the car, and I left to go to California.”

“If I hadn’t been drugged out, I would never have been able to realize my dream. It sounds so stupid but to extricate myself from Wichita, Kansas really took some doing.”

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“With reality shows and things like that on TV now, people probably feel a little more hopeful that they could make something of themselves. But at that time, 30 years ago, it was just like, ‘How could I possibly dare to think that I could go be a star? How could I possibly think that?’ That’s more of a Midwest thing, you’re sort of humbled, and if you’re not humbled people will humble you, like, “Well, who the hell do you think you are to move to California and be a star? I mean, come on, Kirstie,” she added.

As she continued doing drugs, a tragedy in which her mother lost her life because of a drunk driver was an eye opener for Kirstie Alley that she needed to change her life.

It was then that she underwent rehabilitation and joined the controversial church of Scientology.

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It was in 1982 that Alley landed her first roles, but her big breakthrough came with the role of Rebecca Howe in the sitcom Cheers for which she earned a Golden Globe and an Emmy Award.

Kirstie Alley went on to stare in other big productions such as David’s Mother, which brought her another Emmy, Veronica’s Closet, Look Who’s Talking movies and Drop Dead Gorgeous, among the rest.

She was also part of Dancing with the Stars and starred in Fat Actress.

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The truth is that Alley struggled with her weight which she gained after she was diagnosed with Lyme disease.

Her weight loss journey, which wasn’t an easy one, served as inspiration to many.

“If I made cookies, I wouldn’t eat two cookies. I would eat 12 cookies! And I really went off the rails … I started drinking 12 grape sodas a day. I was consuming massive amounts of sugar!” she explained.

But she did manage to lose a significant amount of weight thanks to the weight-loss program Jenny Craig. When she became part of the dancing competition, many claimed Alley starved herself, which, according to the actress, wasn’t the case.

Alley was married twice. She and her second husband, actor Parker Stevenson, adopted two children together, son William and daughter Lillie. The couple divorced in 1997.

It was Alley’s children who announced the actress’ passing in 2022.

They shared that their mother died of cancer “she was diagnosed with just recently.”

“To all our friends, far and wide around the world…We are sad to inform you that our incredible, fierce and loving mother has passed away after a battle with cancer, only recently discovered. She was surrounded by her closest family and fought with great strength, leaving us with a certainty of her never-ending joy of living and whatever adventures lie ahead,” the statement read.

“As iconic as she was on screen, she was an even more amazing mother and grandmother.We are grateful to the incredible team of doctors and nurses at the Moffitt Cancer Center for their care. Our mother’s zest and passion for life, her children, grandchildren and her many animals, not to mention her eternal joy of creating, were unparalleled and leave us inspired to live life to the fullest just as she did. We thank you for your love and prayers and ask that you respect our privacy at this difficult time. With love always, True and Lillie Parker.”

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In the last years of her life, Kirstie Alley didn’t leave her home in Clearwater, Florida.

“She’s done with LA.,” a source told OK Magazine. “She’s happily disappeared into a quiet life in Clearwater, where she can also be more open about her beliefs.”

Another person close to the late actress added, “Kirstie hasn’t worked in over a year, and she’s fine with that,” an insider previously said. “She has no plans on returning to Hollywood.”

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Her ex-husband, Parker Stevenson, posted a touching tribute to Alley on Instagram.

“Dear Kirstie, I am so grateful for our years together and for the two incredibly beautiful children and now grandchildren that we have,” he wrote alongside a photo of Alley. “You will be missed. With love, Parker.”

Further, many of her colleagues and friends paid their tribute. Among the first who posted a touching message of condolences was actor John Travolta. “I love you, Kirstie,” he wrote on Instagram. “I know we will see each other again.” 

Rest in peace, Kirstie Alley.

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Subtle symptoms of ovarian cancer that shouldn’t be ignored

Ovarian cancer affects 7,500 women each year in UK only, making it the 6th most common cancer in women.

This cancer affects the ovaries and is more common in women over the age of 50. Sadly, it is often diagnosed late, but if caught early, it is more treatable.

Even women who had had their ovaries removed are not immune to this cancer as it can also affect the fallopian tubes, or the lining inside the tummy (peritoneum).

Although the exact cause of ovarian cancer is unknown, there are certain factors that can increase or reduce the risks.

As per the Cancer Research UK, some of those factors are age – most affected women of this form of cancer are those aged 75 to 79 – inherited faulty genes, previous diagnosis of cancer at younger age (especially breast cancer), using hormone replacement therapy (HRT), smoking, and certain medical conditions such as endometriosis or diabetes.

The symptoms of ovarian cancer can be vague. The most common ones include:

Abdominal bloating: Feeling bloated during menstrual period or after consuming certain foods is rather normal. However, if the bloated tummy persists it can be a symptom of ovarian cancer. Around 72% of individuals with ovarian cancer experienced bloating.

Pelvic or stomach pain: A research by the National Library of Medicine reports that 39% of women with this type of cancer experienced pelvic or stomach pain. Some described it as an intense pressure, while others compare it to menstrual pain.

Bowel pattern changes: Diarrhea and constipation have been experienced by around 20% of women with ovarian cancer prior to their diagnosis, a research reveals.

Urinary changes: The need for frequent urination is listed as yet another ovarian cancer symptom. Besides this, some individuals reporting feeling a burning sensation during urination, or feeling their bladder being full after urinating.

Changes to your cycle: A 2020 research shows that 13% of women diagnosed with this type of cancer experienced vaginal bleeding prior to their diagnosis.

Weight loss: Another symptom of cancer is weight loss even when the individual isn’t trying to lose any.

Other conditions can show similar symptoms so it is always of crucial importance to consult with your doctor if you notice any changes in your body that may indicate any sickness.

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Heartbroken father breaks silence over his daughter’s passing after her mom shot her and her three sisters

A devastated father spoke of his heartbreak over losing his 7-year-old daughter after her mom shot and killed his other daughter and her two daughters from a new relationship in what the police determined to be a murder-suicide.

Olivia Blackmer, 7, passed away after undergoing a brain surgery and spending five days at the hospital following the shooting that took place in the family home in Wyoming.

Olivia’s three sisters, Brailey, 9, Brooke, nearly 3, and Jordan, 2, died at the scene while she fought for her life, but sadly, didn’t make it.

In a crowdfunder post, Olivia’s family wrote that she “fought so, so hard up til the last minute.”

“Olivia is with her sisters now,” the family wrote.

“Her body and her brain had been through too much, medication helped but we reached a point where medical options were exhausted and her body only continued to get worse.”

On the day of the tragedy, the girls’ mother, Tranyelle Harshman, 32, called the police and alerted them of the shooting in the family home, according to the Big Horn County Sheriff’s Office.

In a release, the force said that Harshman told them what happened to her daughters and said she was going to do the same to her, revealing the location of the each of the girls within the house.

Once at the scene, Harshman was still responsive, but died a day later, February 11, at a hospital.

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According to her husband, Cliff, Harshman wasn’t “a monster,” but she suffered from mental health issues, including PTSD and postpartum depression. Conditions she was receiving treatment for.

Olivia and Brailey’s father, Quinn Blackmer, expressed his sorrow over the devastating loss of his two daughters whose mom shot.

“The amount of devastation we feel and are going through is so much,” he wrote, saying he finds ‘peace’ in “knowing that my babies don’t have to be apart from each other and they can also be with their other sisters.”

He thanked those who contributed to the GoFundMe page and added: “From the bottom of our hearts we want to thank every single person that has donated and prayed and fasted for us and our family and our beautiful Olivia.

“Your kindness and generosity has been so much and we just ask that you continue to pray and keep us all in your thoughts.”

We are so very sorry for this devastating loss.

Our thoughts and prayers go to the grieving families.

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Heartbreaking plea from Gabby Petito to her boyfriend in a letter before her death has been revealed

The case of Gabby Petito, a young woman who was reported missing after taking a cross-country trip with her boyfriend, Brian Laundrie, in the summer of 2021, attracted the attention of the entire country.

Brian returned home without Gabby and soon after became a sole person of interest in her death. He was on the run for some time before he killed himself.

Gabby’s body was found shortly after in Grand Teton National Park in Wyoming.

It was determined that she died of strangulation.

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Months after her tragic passing, FBI released a letter Gabby Petito sent to her killer boyfriend, showing just how much she loved him. In it, she begged him to stop “calling me names because we’re a team and I’m here with you.”

Further, the letter read, “Yes, I can be a child sometimes I know, but it’s ‘cause you give me this energy and I just love you too much. Like so much it hurts.

“So you in pain is killing me. I’m not trying to be negative, but I’m frustrated there’s not more I can do.”

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FBI also released pictures of personal possessions of Gaby and Brian, as well as other federal documents related to the case.

The family of Gabby Petito sued the police for $50 million in a lawsuit that is still ongoing.

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Prior to her missing, a footage of Gabby was taken by the police when the van she and Brian were traveling with was stopped. The footage was later released to the public but it painted Gabby Petito as the aggressor of the two.

Another footage, taken by another police officer, which was an hour long, shows Gabby admitting she had been grabbed and hit by her boyfriend. Former attorney Happy Morgan has accused the department of a “cover-up” for failing to release this second footage. It was only shown to the public after he lodged a complaint.

The officers, despite being told by Gabby that she had been hit by Brian, failed to arrest him.

Following Gabby’s death, her family accused Brian’s parents, Roberta and Christopher Laundrie, of covering up for their son.

This came after a letter Roberta wrote to her son, in which she wrote she would even help him dispose of a body should he need help, came to light.

“I just want you to remember I will always Love you, and I know you will always Love me. You are my boy. Nothing can make me stop loving you. Nothing will or could ever divide us: no matter what we do, or where we go or what we say — we will always Love each other,” Roberta wrote to her son.

“If you’re in jail, I will bake a cake with a file in it. If you need to dispose of a body, I will bring show up with a shovel and garbage bags.

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It further read: “If you fly to the moon, I will be watching the skies for your re-entry. If you say you hate my guts, I’ll get new guts.

“Remember that love is a verb, not a noun. It’s not a thing, it’s not words, it is actions. Watch people’s actions to know if they love you — not their words.”

Roberta claimed she wrote the letter long before Brian killed Gabby and it was in no way related to the young woman’s death.

The letter, which was found among his belongings in his backpack, had the words “burn after reading” on it.

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Restaurant manager turned away an elderly woman, he was shocked to see her with the owner the next day

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The heavy rain that started out of the blue left Linda, an elderly woman, soaking wet. In an attempt to find a shelter until the rain stopped, she got to the nearest café, a place known as one of the most exclusive in town. But just as she was about to enter, the manager, Simon, stopped her.

“Ma’am, I’m currently hosting over a hundred people inside. Let’s not waste our time here. I’m going to have to ask you to leave,” he told her.

Linda assured him she would order something, but he insisted that she leave the place.

With her clothes wet and her otherwise well-kept hair damp and all over her face, Linda left.

The following day, when Simon got to work, he noticed his boss sitting with someone who looked familiar. It was Linda, the woman Simon didn’t let in the previous day.

He approached the table and that’s when his boss said. “Simon, these are good friends of mine. They are buying the café.”

Simon was shocked.

The boss then said, “Simon is our manager. He’s kind, sensitive, and empathetic.”

Hearing this, Linda smiled and said, “I’m sure he is,” although she knew he wasn’t any of it when he kicked her out in the rain.

Once she purchased the place, Linda told Simon that if he wanted to remain part of the café, he needed to work as a waiter instead of a manager.

He wasn’t glad, but he knew that he deserved it for the way he treated Linda the day he first met her.

Some weeks passed by, and one day, an elderly lady entered the café. She ordered a cup of coffee and a small sandwich. However, when she was about to pay, she said she had forgotten her wallet at home.

Simon, who was her server that day, took the bill and said, “No worries. I’ll cover it.”

The woman asked him why he would do that, to what Simon replied, “Well, people should help each other out. Some time ago, the new owner of this restaurant gave me a second chance because she is a kind person. I want to be more like her.”

The woman smiled and said, “Young man, I’m sure you’ll get to be a manager again.”

Simon got confused. “How could she possibly know that I was a manager before.”

But then, Linda appeared in front of him. “Simon, this woman is my friend. Her visit was a little test to see if you’ve learned your lesson, and I’m glad you did. You are getting your managerial position back. Effective immediately.”

Simon was glad. He learned to never judge anyone based on their appearance.

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I was given six months to live after receptionists ‘denied’ me access to a doctor twice

When a woman’s persistent cough wouldn’t go away for over three months, she finally gathered the courage to visit a doctor, but sadly, she was denied access by the receptionist who advised her to visit the pharmacy instead.

Sibylle Schwarz, a mom of two from Germany who resides in the city of Leyland, Lancashire, UK, believed her coughing was a result of allergies. However, as the annoying cough was still present after over three months, she started suspecting that something more serious could be going on.

Sadly, Schwarz only learned that she had cancer after she had been turned away by the GP several times.

When she finally received her diagnosis, she was told she only had six months to a year to live.

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The first time she tried to book an appointment with the doctor, the receptionist refused to do it and told her to grab some pills from the pharmacy instead, despite Schwartz’s explanation that she had a hard time swallowing food.

A month later, she returned to the doctor’s again.

“I went back to the GP in June and there was a different receptionist. But she also said to go to the pharmacy. I told her I really, really needed to see a doctor and she booked me in for an appointment. The GP talked to me a little bit and then agreed to send me to have an endoscopy, just to be sure,” she explained.

“She put me down on a waiting list and I got a call from that department two months later because I wasn’t listed as urgent.”

During the four months she was waiting for an appointment, Schwartz lost 25 kilos.

When she told the doctor she couldn’t swallow food, they didn’t believe her and only put her down for an endoscopy because of the weight she had lost.

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Unfortunately, the results showed she had oesophageal cancer that was already in an advanced stage.

According to her, the doctor was sorry for being presumptuous and told her she only had months to live.

Schwartz received treatment right away. Besides the chemo, doctors were also able to remove a mass from her throat.

Today, two years after the devastating diagnosis of cancer and the dull prognosis that she only had six months to live, Schwartz is adjusting to life and says she feels fine.

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She started eating again, although only small portions, and isn’t using a feeding tube any longer. She is trying to raise awareness about oesophageal cancer, urging people to “push a bit more.”

“You always have to be the bad patient and you always have to push. I was never that person. I always waited my turn. Of course, you have to be polite, but you have to push and advocate for yourself. And if I would have known that, then that might have led to me being diagnosed faster.

“I am very grateful to my surgeon. Even though she was pessimistic and not convinced that she could help, she did listen to me at the end and more importantly her skills and determination saved my life. I will never stop thanking her for that.”

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20 early symptoms of lung cancer that shouldn’t be overlooked

Cancer is the second leading cause of death in the world, just behind heart disease.

In women, breast cancer is the most common, while men are primarily affected by prostate cancer. However, lung cancer ranks second on the list of cancers that affect both men and women.

When it comes to lung cancer, or any cancer in general, catching it early is of crucial importance in the fight against it.

However, the symptoms of lung cancer are different in men and women.

When it comes to women, the most common type of lung cancer they are affected by is adenocarcinoma. What is typical of this type is that it is hard to be detected early because it spreads on the outer parts of the lungs. In most cases, it spreads quickly throughout the entire body.

Symptoms that may indicate adenocarcinoma are:

  • Fatigue
  • Back and shoulder pain
  • Shortness of breath when exercising

In case the cancer progresses, the symptoms may include:

  • Persistent cough
  • Pain in chest, shoulders, and back
  • Increased mucus and a change in color
  • Shortness of breath
  • Hoarse voice
  • Harsh sound when breathing (medically referred to as stridor)
  • Coughing up mucus or phlegm tinged with blood
  • Coughing up blood

This type of lung cancer can likely affect lymph nodes, bones, brain, liver, and adrenal glands.

In men, the type of lung cancer that is most common is known as squamous cell carcinoma, or non-small cell lung cancer which develops in the central part of the lungs, near the main airway (bronchus).

Most common symptoms of squamous cell carcinomas are:

  • Chronic cough
  • Wheezing
  • Repeatedly experiencing lung infections such as pneumonia and bronchitis

Since most men relate these changes with their lifestyle, such as excessive smoking, they can be easily overlooked.

If you experience any of this symptoms and believe they may be related to cancer, seek medical help.

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