3 types of shirts you should never wear to a funeral

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Funerals are times of deep reflection. They are a chance to say goodbye, share memories, and stand beside grieving families, providing love and support.

While the focus is, of course, on honoring the person who has passed, even the clothes we wear become part of how we show care and respect. It may seem like a small detail, but what we choose to wear can quietly send a message of thoughtfulness, or, if chosen poorly, the opposite.

Although traditions vary from culture to culture, there are some widely accepted ideas of what’s considered appropriate.

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Wearing the wrong colors, patterns, or styles can unintentionally come across as careless or even disrespectful. Something as ordinary as a shirt, which we hardly think twice about in daily life, suddenly carries weight in such a setting.

At a funeral, we need to be mindful, not just in our words and actions, but also in how we present ourselves. With that in mind, here are three types of shirts you should avoid at a funeral, and the reasons why.

1. Brightly Colored or Flashy Shirts

A funeral should never be the place to make a fashion statement. Shirts in bright colors like red, neon green, or yellow can shift attention away from the purpose of the gathering. The same goes for anything too shiny or eye-catching, such as sequins or loud prints, which can feel out of step with the mood of the occasion.

People usually opt for darker, understated shades such as black, navy, charcoal, or other muted colors.

What is most important is that your presence at a funeral should feel supportive, not distracting.

2. Casual T-Shirts or Tank Tops

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While casual clothes are the norm in everyday life, when it comes to funerals, they can feel too relaxed.

Shirts with logos, graphics, or slogans can be distracting, and the same goes for tank tops and sleeveless shirts, which don’t really fit the respectful tone of the occasion.

A simple collared shirt, blouse, or button-down is a much better choice. Even when a family suggests a more “casual” dress code, it’s still best to keep your outfit neat, understated, and respectful.

3. Shirts With Bold Prints or Graphic Designs

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Another type of shirts to avoid at a funeral are those with bold prints, flashy patterns, or graphics. While Hawaiian shirts, animal prints, or slogan tees may be fine for casual outings, they are definitely a no-no choice for an occasion that is all about mourning.

Always make sure to choose simple, understated clothing in solid or muted tones. When unsure, opt for simplicity; the day is about honoring the person who has passed, not drawing attention to yourself.

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Expert reveals whether Sandra Bullock has undergone plastic surgery

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Actress Sandra Bullock has been a fan favorite for years. What’s more, she’s said to be one of those celebs who are down-to-earth, which makes her even more lovable.

Throughout her career, she has starred in numerous major productions and won the Academy Award for Best Actress for her role in The Blind Side.

In 2023, Bullock lost her partner of many years, Bryan Randall, who passed away after battling ALS for three years.

Bullock and Randall met when he was hired as a photographer for her son’s birthday in January 2015. They started dating a few months later and shortly after, when they were both already convinced they were meant for one another, they had their first Red Carpet debut together.

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Their first public appearance together was at the wedding of Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux.

The couple weren’t officially married, but they did exchange vows in a private ceremony in the Bahamas.

Recently, photos of Bullock sparked rumors about the actress undergoing plastic surgery, with many saying she’s barely recognizable.

“Plastic surgery around her eyes and cheeks. Made her barely unrecognizable, yikes!” one person wrote. “I said the same thing this past weekend. There was something about her eyes that I couldn’t put my finger on. After the movie I was Googling ‘What happened to Sandra Bullock’s face?’ Couldn’t find anything except people leaving comments to leave her alone, she’s beautiful. Jeez,” another added.

“It’s really good and wow Sandra Bullock is unrecognizable. Anyways I’m pretty good thx for asking. How about you? Anything new and exciting?” a third wrote.

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In the past, the actress denied going under the knife, but she did open up about undergoing the “Hollywood EGF Facial” treatment, also known as the “Penis Facial.” 

The esthetician who performed the procedure on Bullock, Georgia Louise, told People, “For the Hollywood EGF Facial treatment, Georgia Louise uses her TCA peels, micro-needling machine and an electrifying mask to calm the skin, followed by her ‘secret box’ of EGF serum (Epidermal Growth Factor). EGF is derived from the progenitor cells of the human fibroblast taken from Korean newborn baby foreskin – which helps to generate collagen and elastin.”

Louise added that the FDA-approved serum is made using skin obtained from circumcision.

“I always explain that EGF is derived from newborn baby foreskin, BUT cells were taken [from the foreskin] and from that, new cells are cloned from a laboratory.”

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In an appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Bullock confirmed that she had undergone the treatment.

She added: “It’s not like I’m lying there with little pieces all over my face. I call it the penis facial. And I think when you see how good it is to your face, you too will run to your local facialist and say, ‘give me the penis.’”

Back in 2018, Bullock spoke of the rumors about her having facial fillers after attending the Oscars and what sparked the rumors in the first place.

“This past Oscars I was sick and had allergies, but I was like, ‘I’m just going to go.’ It’s part of my job, and I’m happy to be there. Then the next day they were saying, ‘Oh, she has cheek fillers and implants,’” Bullock recalled.

“When I saw the photos and how swollen I was, I got it. But I was like, ‘Well, if I got injections, I only got them on the top,’ which was not very good.”

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 British cosmetic treatment company Longetivta wrote that there are no obvious signs Bullock had any Botox or any plastic surgeries.

“While dermal fillers can certainly help with volume loss due to ageing, again, facial swelling from allergies is common. But her cheeks aren’t all where she’s been accused of getting fillers. Some believe that Sandra also had lip fillers. That definitely does seem like it because the actress has a naturally thin upper lip, but it has looked a bit thicker in recent year,” Longevita wrote.

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Robert Redford was a father of 4: His words on the loss of his two sons were heart-wrenching

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Robert Redford, the Oscar-winning actor, director, and founder of the Sundance Film Festival, died peacefully on September 16, 2025, at 89.

Born in 1936 in Santa Monica, he became a Hollywood icon and champion of independent cinema. With his first wife, Lola Van Wagenen, he had four children, though they tragically lost their firstborn, Scott, as an infant. Redford leaves behind a legacy of acclaimed films, philanthropy, and cultural impact.

Sadly, Redford had also experienced the death of his other son, activist and filmmaker James ‘Jamie’ Redford, who passed away in 2020 aged 58.

Jamie and his father were the founders of The Redford Center, which “uses impact-driven film and media to accelerate environmental and climate justice, solutions and repair,” according to the website.

Over the course of his career, Jamie directed and produced a number of films, including The Big Picture: Rethinking Dyslexia, and the award winning documentaries Watershed, Toxic Hot Seat and Mann v. Ford.

Jamie died of bile-duct cancer in his liver. After having undergone two transplants in the past, he founded the James Redford Institute for Transplant Awareness, a non profit organization that helped raise awareness of the importance of organ and tissue donation.

His wife of 32 years, Kyle, paid tribute to her loving husband by posting on Tweeter.

She wrote, “Jamie died today. He lived a beautiful, impactful life & was loved by many. He will be deeply missed. As his wife of 32 yrs, I’m most grateful for the two spectacular children we raised together. I don’t know what we would’ve done w/o them over the past 2yrs.”

Cindi Berger, Robert Redford publicist issued a statement at the time which said the actor “is mourning with his family during this difficult time and asks for privacy.”

It continued, “The grief is immeasurable with the loss of a child. Jamie was a loving son, husband and father. His legacy lives on through his children, art, filmmaking and devoted passion to conservation and the environment.”

Jamie was having health issues since childhood. According to his IMDb page, he was diagnosed with Primary Sclerosing Cholangitis, a rare autoimmune disease affecting the liver.

Celebrities paid tribute to the incredible filmmaker. Mark Ruffalo wrote, “Damn. This year has cut deep. Another great, sweet, kindly person leaves us.” Kiefer Sutherland described Jamie as “a wonderful writer and a wonderful man”.

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The magic of lemon juice and activated charcoal: Natural DIY solutions for skin and teeth

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When it comes to your routine of keeping your skin and teeth healthy, nature often provides the most powerful solutions.

The truth is that plenty of natural ingredients often hold the key to simple, effective self-care.

Whether you’re looking to brighten your smile, rejuvenate your skin, or give your nails a boost, lemon juice and activated charcoal are the way to go.

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Below are six creative ways to include these simple but powerful ingredients in your routine:

1. Sparkling Smile

If you want your teeth to be white and free of cavity, mix a small amount of activated charcoal with a few drops of lemon juice. Use the paste to gently brush your teeth for a minute or two before rinsing.

Charcoal helps get rid of the surface stains on your teeth, while lemon juice’s gentle acidity brightens them.

Use this paste once a week and enjoy your sparkling smile.

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2. Skin Reset Mask

For purified and refreshed skin, mix a teaspoon of activated charcoal with a teaspoon of lemon juice. Spread a thin layer of the mask over your face, leave it for about 10 minutes, then rinse with warm water. For extra moisture, add a teaspoon of honey or aloe vera to the mixture.

Charcoal will help with the impurities, and the lemon will help tighten and tone your pores.

3. DIY Glow Scrub

Combine activated charcoal, lemon juice, and a natural exfoliant like sugar or oats to buff away dead skin cells. Massage gently in circular motions, rinse, and follow with a moisturizer. The result? Smooth and refreshed skin.

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4. Foot Detox Soak

Treat your feet to a mini spa session. Dissolve a tablespoon of charcoal and a tablespoon of lemon juice in warm water, then soak your feet for 15-20 minutes. Add a few drops of peppermint or tea tree oil for a cooling, purifying effect.

While the mixture of lemon juice and activated charcoal provides many benefits, make sure you avoid irritation or damage by overusing it.

If you use it more than once a week for your teeth, you can easily affect the teeth enamel. Also, if you have a delicate skin, have in mind that the lemon juice may irritate it, so make sure you do a patch test before applying it in full.

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Never use the mixture on open wounds or cuts since it can cause irritation and damage to your skin.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional medical or dental advice. Always do a patch test before applying any new mixture to your skin, and consult a dermatologist, dentist, or healthcare professional if you have any concerns or experience irritation. Use these remedies at your own risk.

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6-year-old boy has stroke after waking up – doctor warns parents to watch for 4 key signs

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When we think of strokes, we usually think of old people, but the sad reality is that they can strike children too.

What seemed like a normal morning for a family with a six-year-old turned critical in seconds after the child collapsed right after waking up. Before falling on the floor, his parents said he lost strength on one side of his body.

Luckily, he was taken to the hospital just in time to be provided with much-needed medical help.

This case shows that although it’s rather rare for children to suffer from stroke, it is not something unheard of. In fact, thousands of children across the globe experience strokes each year, but too often they go undetected because the symptoms don’t always match what people expect.

Sadly, many of those children are misdiagnosed or treated too late. Doctors now emphasize that knowing the warning signs can make the difference between life and death, outlining four key signs every parent should be aware of.

1. Sudden Weakness or Numbness on One Side

If a child suddenly loses strength or sensation in their arm, leg, or face, it could signal a stroke. Watch for difficulty moving a limb or an uneven smile. Even if it seems minor or like they slept awkwardly, treat it as an emergency and call for help immediately.

2. Difficulty Speaking or Understanding Speech

If your child suddenly slurs words, struggles to form sentences, or difficulties processing what you are saying to them, it may signal a stroke affecting the brain’s language centers. While speech changes can be easy to miss in young children whose language skills are still developing, any sudden difficulty communicating should be treated as serious.

3. Loss of Balance or Sudden Dizziness

Another indicator of stroke is when the child has trouble walking, moves unsteadily, or experiences sudden dizziness. So, if your child stumbles, can’t stand steadily, or complains that the room feels like it’s spinning, seek medical attention immediately.

Such symptoms often point to disruption in the brain regions responsible for movement and balance.

4. Seizures or Unusual Behavior

Seizures can sometimes be an early sign of stroke in children. If a child who has never had a seizure before suddenly experiences one, especially after waking, call a doctor.

Other signs may be abrupt behavioral changes such as confusion, extreme fatigue, or hallucinations.

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As doctors try to raise awareness of the symptoms that may indicate your child is experiencing a stoke, they also remind you that seeking immediate medical help is crucial because in moments like that every second counts.

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Oprah Winfrey opens up on biggest regret amid ‘Ozempic weight loss’

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Oprah Winfrey made history when she shattered barriers in television. A media mogul, author, and cultural force, she continues to inspire as one of the most influential women of all time.

Throughout the 25-year run of The Oprah Winfrey Show, thousands of guests shared their stories on a wide range of subjects.

But for Oprah Winfrey, one moment lingers as her greatest regret, involving weight and weight loss, a deeply personal struggle she has continued to face in recent years.

Following her farewell from television, Oprah has launched The Oprah Podcast and kept herself busy running her book club.

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Some two years ago, she revealed that she began using GLP-1, a type 2 diabetes medication that can also trigger weight loss which helped her lose 50 pounds.

“One of the things that I realized the very first time I took a GLP-1 was that all these years I thought that thin people, those people just had more willpower,” Oprah said in her podcast.

“They ate better foods, they were able to stick to it longer, they never had a potato chip.”

She continued: “And then I realized the very first time I took the GLP-1 that, ‘Oh, they’re not even thinking about it. They’re only eating when they’re hungry and they’re stopping when they’re full,” before sharing the reason behind her decision to reveal that she was taking a weight loss drug.

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“When I announced last January I was like an anomaly, an anomaly in that I was willing to say it,” Oprah concluded.

While she openly spoke of her struggles with weight loss, she also admitted that the topic of her weight has at one point become “a national sport,” telling People Magazine many were making fun of her appearance.

“I want to acknowledge that I have been a steadfast participant in this diet culture through my platforms, through the magazine, through the talk show for 25 years.”

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Further, she recalled a magazine cover dubbing her “Dumpy, Frumpy and Downright Lumpy.”

“I didn’t feel angry,” she told People. “I felt sad, I felt hurt, I swallowed the shame, I accepted that it was my fault.”

Now, she says she’s “done with shaming.”

“I’ve been a steadfast participant in this diet culture,” Oprah said. “Through my platforms, through the magazine, through the talk show for 25 years, through online — I’ve been a major contributor to it. I cannot tell you how many weight loss shows and makeovers I have done and they have been a staple since I’ve been working in television.”

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Back in 1988, Oprah shocked viewers when she wheeled a wagon of fat onto the stage of her show, representing the weight she had shed through a liquid diet and intense exercise. She confessed she had gone months practically starving herself and went on to explain her struggle, saying, it “sent a message that starving yourself with a liquid diet and set a standard for people watching that I, nor anybody else, could uphold. The very next day, I began to gain the weight back.”

Oprah added: “I own what I’ve done, and now I want to do better.”

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They skipped his birthday—but tried to empty his account that same night

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All Martin Rodriguez wanted for his birthday was to spend it together with his family. Nothing extravagant, no gifts, just the presence of the people that meant the world to him.

He texted his family a few days before, telling them the dinner starts at 6:00.

He spent days preparing the dishes his family loved most, his mom’s lemon chicken, his sister’s favorite rosemary potatoes, and his grandmother’s garlic bread. His 34th birthday celebration was meant to be a warm evening of laughter and togetherness.

But when the clock struck six, no one came. By seven, the candles had nearly burned out and his phone lit up with excuses. Apparently, the way to his house was too far for his sister. “Too far to drive,” she wrote casually, as though her brother wasn’t worth the effort of a 40 minute drive.

“Maybe next weekend, we are exhausted” his mother texted him.

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All the food just stayed there, untouched, and Martin was left with the painful truth, he meant less to them than he had believed.

For years, Martin had quietly supported his family through a savings account he called “The Martin Family Relief Foundation.”

He started it as an act of love, but that night, he realized that over time, it became a source of exploitation.

After thinking about it for some time while he sat there in the quiet room with no one he ever loved around, Martin decided to shut the account down.

“As of today, I am pausing all support. At midnight, the ATM is offline,” he sent a message to his family that he financed for years.

Not surprisingly, the fallout was immediate. His sister called him 12 times in a row, and he received messages of missed transfers made by his own mother.

They were angry at him, saying he wasn’t fair, with his mother even trying to guilt-trip him, writing that his father’s health was at stake with the stress he caused them by shutting the account down. “If something happens to him, it will be on you,” she wrote.

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But Martin had it enough, he finally realized that all he ever was to his family was just their personal ATM, nothing more.

After not replying to any of their calls and text that night, Martin sent his family a message first thing in the morning. “You’ve taken more than money. You’ve taken my time, my energy, and my peace. I gave without asking. You took without limits. As of today, I withdraw, too. The foundation is closed. I am no longer your financial plan. Happy belated birthday to me.”

That birthday marked a shift in Martin’s life. He stopped being the provider at his own expense and started reclaiming his peace. Now, months later, he speaks openly about the experience, reminding others that love without respect isn’t love at all.

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Before his death, Robert Redford shared what he really thought of Donald Trump

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Robert Redford was a legendary force in Hollywood whose career spanned generations. He was best known for classics such as Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, The Sting, All the President’s Men, and Out of Africa.

The Oscar-winning actor passed away aged 89, leaving fans mourning.

The news of his sudden death was shared by the chief executive of the publicity firm Rogers & Cowan PMK, Cindi Berger.

“Robert Redford passed away on September 16, 2025, at his home at Sundance in the mountains of Utah–the place he loved, surrounded by those he loved. He will be missed greatly,” Berger said in a statement. “The family requests privacy.”

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Among those who have sent their condolences was president Donald Trump.

“Robert Redford was great; he had a series of years where there was nobody better,” Trump said Tuesday while leaving the White House for his visit to the UK.

When a reporter informed the president that Redford had passed away in his sleep on Tuesday, Trump replied, “That’s a good way to go, I guess.”

Trump, however, didn’t address the late actor’s previous criticism of him.

In 2015, three years before Trump won the Presidential Election against Hillary Clinton, Redford appeared on Larry King Now, where he said of Trump, “Look he’s got such a big foot in his mouth, I’m not sure you’re going to get it out. But on the other hand, I’m glad he’s in there.”

Robert Redford continued: “I’m glad he’s in there because him being the way he is, and saying what he says the way he says it, I think shakes things up and I think that’s very needed. Because on the other side, it’s so bland, it’s so boring, it’s so empty.”

Trump took his time to respond to Redford’s comments.

“Wow! Such nice words from Robert Redford on my running for President. Thank you, Robert,” Trump said.

Later on, Redford made it clear that his comments didn’t mean he endorsed Trump. On the contrary, in a column for CNN, the Sundance Institute founder wrote that he was all-in for Biden in the November elections.

“Another four years of this would degrade our country beyond repair,” Redford warned.

Redford went on to say that under Trump, the United States had “lost its place as a world leader,” and that at home the president had “found every fault line in America and wrenched them wide open.” He argued that Biden would restore unity, empathy, experience, and intelligence to the White House, adding that the former vice president was “made for this moment,” Huff Post reported at the time.

“Biden leads with his heart. I don’t mean that in a soft and sentimental way,” Redford added. “I’m talking about a fierce compassion ― the kind that fuels him, that drives him to fight against racial and economic injustice, that won’t let him rest while people are struggling.”

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However, before Trump was impeached a second time, Redford wrote in The Washington Post that it should be up to voters—not impeachment—to remove him from the White House and the Oval Office.

“It is painfully clear we have a president who degrades everything he touches, a person who does not understand (or care?) that his duty is to defend our democracy,” Redford wrote.

In an NBC op-ed that year, Robert Redford called Donald Trump a threat to US democracy, saying, “We’re up against a crisis I never thought I’d see in my lifetime: a dictator-like attack by President Donald Trump on everything this country stands for.”

While he admitted it was fair to give Trump “a chance” at first, Redford argued that the president had undermined core democratic values like the rule of law and a free press, adding, “Instead of the United States of America, we are now defined as the Divided States of America.”

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