When thinking of support, it feels natural for it to come from the family first. Sadly, however, support sometimes lacks not because those who should offer it are bad or inconsiderate people, but simply because they lack knowledge about our issues or are just unaware.
My thirteen-year-old daughter has had her first period recently, and just like any person her age would be, she felt scared but willing to figure things out.
However, while she was trying to accept that first step towards adulthood, she faced another obstacle, my husband’s and my two sons’ ignorance.
It turned out that they saw the used pad in the trash bin and were “shocked,” so my husband asked my daughter to hide the pads. What’s more, they all started avoiding her when she was on her period like she was contagious, creating a rather awkward situation in the house.
The last straw came last night when my husband asked from her to stay at her room during those days of the month because her brothers were “uncomfortable” around her.
She didn’t argue, she just lowered her head and went to her room as though she had done something terrible.
I couldn’t put up with their words and their behavior any longer knowing they were hurting my daughter, so I stood up for her and confronted them. Honestly, I didn’t argue either, I just did my best to explain what my daughter was going through.
I explained to our sons that their sister’s experience wasn’t something to fear, but a normal part of growing up. I told them discomfort is often a signal to learn, not avoid. We talked about respect and empathy, and my husband listened in silence.

I then asked my daughter to join us, and we had an open conversation. Her brothers even started asking polite questions, and explained that they indeed felt awkward and didn’t know how to react.
At the end, they even asked her if they could do anything for her during those days to help her with the discomfort.
My daughter was relieved.
My husband also apologized and bought her her favorite ice-cream. He explained that while growing up, they never spoke openly about those things, so he didn’t know how to handle it.
It was a step toward shaping a family that chooses compassion over discomfort, and openness over avoidance.
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Bored Daddy
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