My husband cooked the turkey this year

This Thanksgiving was a bit different, not only because my husband cooked the turkey for a change – which I obviously thought was a bad idea in the first place – but also because it left a bitter feeling that I still cannot get rid of even though a few days have passed.

It’s not that I am a magician in the kitchen, but the Thanksgiving turkey has always been my pride and joy. I even get compliments for the way I prepare it from my mother-in-law, Patricia, who can be quite judgmental at times.

This year, however, my husband insisted on taking care of the turkey, claiming he had a secret recipe we’ll all love.

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I was doubtful, but knowing that he is the type of person who wants to show off, I decided to trust him.

When his mother he would be breaking the tradition of me cooking the turkey, Jake said he had everything under control and that we should trust him.

On Thanksgiving Eve, the entire family gathered at our place and we were all eager to try Jake’s turkey. When he took it out of the oven, it smells nicely and looked perfectly cooked – until it wasn’t.

The moment I tasted it, I yelled, “Jack, what’s this?” His mom, who was sitting next to me, had already spit hers in a napkin.

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The taste was awful. It was as though someone had dipped the entire turkey in a melted chocolate.

Confused and embarrassed, Jake said, “But…but I though you’d like it. It’s unique, it’s different.”

When he explained that his secret recipe included brown sugar, maple syrup, and marshmallow fluff, I knew that my husband cooking the turkey was the worse idea ever.

He started apologizing, and although we were a bit mad, we eventually laughed about the entire experience.

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After dinner was over, I took a piece of pumpkin pie with some whipped cream on, trying to cheer Jake up. He was still very disappointed over the fiasco with the turkey, and I didn’t want him to feel bad, especially because I knew how much it meant to him to prepare something nice for his family.

But everything changed when I noticed a crumbled piece of paper in the trash. I got curious and looked closer when I noticed a familiar name written on it. Sarah! It was Jake’s ex-wife.

My heart skipped a bit. Could he really think asking her for advice on how to cook a turkey was a good idea?

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I got really mad and I confronted him right there and then. “Jake, was it Sarah, your ex, that you turned to for a recipe?”

He looked at me in confusion, aware he made a mistake. “Just so you know, she sabotaged you and made you a fool,” I said.

“Honey, I am so sorry, I just wanted everything to be perfect, and you know, Sarah used to work for a catering service, so I thought…”

I stopped him before he finished his sentence because I didn’t want to listen to his lame excuses.

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The following morning, I spoke to Jake’s mom and told her everything. As she took a sip from her glass of wine, she said that her son could be foolish at times. She tried to convince me that Jake adored me and wanted to impress me with the turkey and that’s why he turned to the only other woman he knew well.

I knew Sarah cheated on him and broke his heart, so the thought of him asking her for advice was something I couldn’t get over.

Despite everything, I’m still with Jake, but I can’t shake the feeling that something shifted this Thanksgiving.

Who knew that when my husband cooked the turkey, my image of my ideal marriage would crumble?

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Legendary actor found in his California home

Bill Cobbs, a legendary actor known for taking seemingly small but pivotal roles in about 200 film and television shows, has died aged 90.

According to his agent, Chuck I. Jones, Cobbs, who played Whitney Houston’s manager Bill Devaney in the 1992 film The Bodyguard, passed away on Tuesday in his California home, surrounded by his family and friends.

The Cleveland-native’s career began in the mid-1970s with the Broadway productions Black Picture Show and The First Breeze of Summer.

Before starting an acting career, Cobbs served eight years in the US air force as a radar technician. After that, he was a car seller, but he eventually decided to leave Cleveland for New York and try himself in the film industry.

Throughout the ’70s and into the ‘80s, this legendary actor landed roles in Good Times, The Equalizer, One Life to Live and Sesame Street.

In 1993, he appeared in the sci-fi thriller Demolition Man. Three years later, Cobbs played alongside Tom Hanks, Liv Tyler and Steve Zahn in That Thing You Do!

The list of films and television credits under his belt is a rather long one, including films such as Air Bud, The Sopranos, Six Feet Under, Night at the Museum, Sunshine State, Oz the Great and Powerful and The Drew Carey Show, among the rest.

In 2020, Cobbs appeared on the TVOKids children’s series Dino Dana, which won him a Daytime Emmy for outstanding limited performance in a daytime program. 

The final project in which he appeared was the 2023 TV mini-series Incandescent Love.

Cobbs’ sudden passing was also confirmed by his brother, Thomas Cobbs. “Bill passed away peacefully at his home in California. A beloved partner, big brother, uncle, surrogate parent, godfather and friend, Bill recently and happily celebrated his 90th birthday surrounded by cherished loved ones. As a family we are comforted knowing Bill has found peace and eternal rest with his Heavenly Father. We ask for your prayers and encouragement during this time,” he wrote on the social media.

A number of fans shared their condolences. “Thank you Mr. Bill Cobbs for following your dreams and sharing your gifts,” someone wrote. “It’s crazy how many movies Bill Cobbs was in! His voice was great. I will miss him very much,” another person added.

We are so very sorry for the loss of a legendary actor as Bill Cobbs. May he rest in peace.

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Officer takes the floor with students and shows off moves

Bidding farewell can be a bittersweet moment and an officer who worked as a school resource officer at Don Lugo High School in California, Officer Ryan Tillman, said goodbye to the students in style.

When he was promoted to Chino Police Corporal, Officer Tillman decided to do something special for the students, making sure they won’t forget him any time soon.

Working alongside the school’s principal and a dance team, he offered an incredible surprise performance that wowed everyone. After all, dancing liberates the soul, and this man who brings a ray of sunshine even during the darkest of days, seems to know that best.

During the school assembly, when everyone gathered at the gymnasium, Officer Tillman joined the dance students as Lil Mama’s Lip Gloss started playing. Needless to say, the students erupted in cheers, asking for more, so Tillman did exactly that, showed more of his dancing abilities as the song switched to MC Hammer’s U Can’t Touch This.

Officer Tillman offered an unforgettable moment when he pulled off some fancy dance moves from the 90s.

The best thing of all? He danced in his police uniform.

His time as a school resource officer was a fun one, so he wanted to show his gratitude to the students and the school staff, as well as to “shine a positive light” on police officers.

“I wanted to make a big exit, so I thought, what better way than to dance?” Officer Tillman told NBC Los Angeles.

Another school resource officer commented, commending Tillman’s courage, “I’m also an SRO, but I could NEVER get up in front of staff and students to dance. Kudos to you for doing it. Many people don’t realize the balance SROs must strike with young people at their schools.”

Officer Tillman isn’t only appreciated by the school students but also by the entire community.

He founded Breaking Barriers United, an organization aimed at “bridging the gap between law enforcement and the communities they serve.”

Millions of people have seen the video of Officer Tillman’s energetic performance.

“Every city needs a cop like you! Great job!” one person commented, and we can’t agree more.

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Classmates mock poor boy for living in a trailer

Sam was constantly mocked by his classmates, and it was more than his young heart of 12 years could handle. The days at the school were a constant struggle to defend himself from his bullies, including Jared, who called him names and insulted him because he was poor.

The truth was that Sam and his mom struggled to make ends meet ever since his dad passed away. They lived in a tiny rented trailer and Sam sold lemonade to help with the finances.

Even though they didn’t have much, Sam’s mom would always tell him to be grateful for what he has.

Sam, however, dreamed of getting rich and living in a huge house. It was Jared’s words, “People like you will always be stuck living in trailers,” that haunted young Sam.

One day, during a storm, the car of Sam’s landlord, Tobey, stopped working. Sam, who knew a lot about cars, offered to fix it for him. Tobey was hesitant, but let Sam try. To his surprise, Sam fixed it, and it was then that Tobey offered to help him find a job at the mechanic’s, where he could gain more practice and earn more money than by selling lemonade.

From that day on, Sam and Tobey became good friends. Tobey would stop by at Sam’s trailer more often, not only when he was collecting the rent. Over time, Tobey and Sam’s mom got close and started a relationship.

Sam was happy for his mom because he knew Tobey was a good man. On top of that, he was the most successful real estate agent in town.

Eventually, Sam and his mom moved in with Tobey, who lived in a penthouse.

Sam, however, never mentioned that to any of his classmates who kept making fun of him.

One day, as Sam headed home, Jared and the rest of the classmates decided to follow after him and mock him about the trailer. However, when they saw him entering the huge penthouse, they were shocked.

Soon, however, they realized Sam’s mom was dating the wealthy businessman and were stunned that he didn’t say a word.

Over time, they stopped mocking him, but Sam was still affected by all the bullying he had experienced and couldn’t wait to finish high school and never see his classmates again.

Years passed by, and Sam took over his stepdad’s business. He was now an important figure of real estate and made a lot of money. But somehow, he needed a closure, because he still thought of his school days and the bullies who made his days a living hell.

In order to be able to make peace with his past, he organized the high-school reunion and saw his classmates after 10 long years.

Jared was the first who apologized for the way he treated him. After all those years, Jared ended up living in Sam’s old neighborhood, in one of the trailers.

Despite the way he treated him when they were young, Sam felt sorry for Jared.

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Christina Phillips: The ‘My 600-Lb Life’ star who lost 536 lbs

Christina Phillips, the woman whose weigh-loss journey amazed millions, has transformed her life beyond what many could imagine.

When she was at her heaviest, Phillips were unable to perform even the most basic tasks, such as getting out of bed, dressing herself, and moving around her home.

Eventually, in 2014, she appeared on the show My 600-lb Life, one of the most inspirational weight-loss shows. It first aired back in 2012 and viewers can still watch the life stories of obese people who are doing all in their power to turn to a healthier way of living and gain control over their life again.

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The doctor who helps these individuals turn their life upside down in a positive way is famous Iranian-American surgeon Dr. Younan Nowzaradan, known as Dr. Now. Many say he’s attitude towards his patients can be harsh at times, but all he wants is to be the voice of their reason and the wake-up call many of them have been waiting for so long.

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Weighing 708 pounds, Phillips relied on others for nearly everything, with her daily calorie intake being 7,000 a day.

She was driven by emotional challenges and the supportive actions of her husband and mother.

Phillips had a hard time breaking free from her dependence.

While on the show, she even experienced setback and gained 17 pounds back, bringing her to 656 pounds.

Speaking of the condition of his patients, including Christina Phillips, Dr. Now said, “Not realizing how much of their struggle is psychological and not just physical can be the biggest obstacle for change.”

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Phillips’ treatment plan included gastric bypass surgery that she undergone in 2013. The surgery was the first step towards this young woman’s life change, and the rest of the plan included a strict diet she had to stick to.

She was willing to adapt to the new lifestyle which meant controlling her food intake and the choice of food and nutrition, controlling her portions, and staying accountable for her choices.

“I stay on track by staying away from simple carbs, such as soda, sugar, chips, and processed foods,” she shared with Women’s Health.

Her new daily regimen included carefully prepared meal plans, and a daily regimen of at least 10,000 steps. She also did regular workouts at the gym.

Christina Phillips dropped from 708 pounds to 171 pounds and found her freedom.

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“Before, I couldn’t walk eight feet without feeling like I was going to die. Now, I could do just about anything I put my mind to,” Philips shared with People. “The simple things in life are enjoyable to me,” she added.

Her incredible life journey brought her liberation. “I am so blessed to have a second chance at life,” she said.

As part of her change, Phillips eventually moved out of home. She understood that her husband and family, whom she depended for so long, were the ones who contributed to her struggles.

She divorced her husband and moved on.

Christina Philips found new love with Shane, a friend who had supported her long before her transformation. “Shane and I have been friends for eight years,” she shared.

Her physical transformation ended with a surgery to get rid of the excess skin.

Christina Phillips – Source: Youtube/@TLC

“I’ve been working really hard lately to be okay with who I am,” she said, and reflected on how the surgery helped her see herself as others did.

 
 
 
 
 
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In August 2020, Phillips shared with her friends on the social media that she and Shane were expecting a baby. The little one was born on February 3, 2021. 

 
 
 
 
 
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Christina Phillips’ transformation has inspired many. She is the perfect proof that strong will and dedication can lead to incredible things.

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Raising my twin grandsons alone after their mom’s passing

Raising my twin grandsons was everything I lived for after my daughter’s tragic passing. Jack and Liam became my entire world, and although I found it hard at times to match their energy I did my best to provide them with a fulfilling life.

The days became chaotic, and the nights were long at times, especially when I had to “fight” the monsters under their bed. Their little fights over the toys and that old blue spoon became an everyday habit, but looking my grandsons thrive was worth every sacrifice.

At 62, I have always imagined my days as peaceful afternoons at the porch and maybe tending to my little garden, but Emily’s passing changed my reality. Now it was all about Jack and Liam and their happiness and well-being.

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Emily wasn’t just my daughter, she was my best friend. The days without her presence were heavy and painful. No one even ever spoke of her in my presence any more, because hearing her name made me shatter over and over again.

After a year of raising my twin grandsons, a knocked on the door changed everything.

First, I thought it could be my next-door neighbor, but she never stopped by unannounced. Honestly, I even hesitated whether to answer the door, but something inside told me to check who it was.

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When I opened the door, I saw an unfamiliar face. It was a woman I had never seen before. Having her hair in a messy bun and her eyes red, probably of crying, she asked me if I was Mrs. Harper.

“Yes, I’m Mrs. Harper,” I answered, “and who are you.”

The woman, confused, said, “I’m Rachel. I want to talk to you about Emily.”

She asked to get inside, and although my instinct told me to shut the door, I somehow heard myself saying, “Please come inside.”

The boys were too busy with their cartoon to notice the guest, but Rachel did see them on the couch and asked if those were Emily’s children.

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Rachel held a piece of paper in her hands. She kept it really tight and I could sense it was of great importance to her. As she handed it to me she said, “Give me the boys, you don’t know the truth about them.”

I froze, baffled by the audacity of her demand. “What are you talking about young lady, those are my late daughter’s children.”

“I have been raising my twin grandsons all by myself, and now you ask what!?”

But Rachel didn’t give me any explanation, she just told me to read that letter.

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My name was written on it and I recognized Emily’s handwriting. In it, she revealed the biggest secret.

The twins weren’t her ex-husband’s. When he learned the truth, he left her, not wanting to raise other people’s children. In fact, Emily had her babies with Rachel, through an IVF. The two were in love but Emily was too afraid to tell me that, thinking I would judge her.

Emily begged me to let Rachel be part of her sons’ lives.

I was too overwhelmed with what I had just read. “How could this be?” I kept asking myself.

Hurt, I asked Rachel to leave my home.

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The night was a long one. I couldn’t sleep at all. All I could think of was the pain and the suffering my daughter had gone true while she was trying to defend her love for Rachel.

If that was what Emily wanted, I was ready to let Rachel be part of Jack and Liam’s lives.

The following day, I called Rachel and invited her over. I introduced her to my grandsons, saying she was their mom’s old friend.

Eventually, Rachel became part of our household and the kids started calling her “mommy Rachel.”

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Rachel and I didn’t always get along and things sometimes get heated at times, but I knew that her presence was good for my grandsons.

The truth was that both she and I were left to pick up the pieces of my daughter’s life choices.

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Husband’s surprise guests at Thanksgiving – My perfect revenge

Husband’s surprise guests at Thanksgiving caught me off guard. With my mashed-potatoes barely mashed and the turkey still in the oven, I tried to take a sip from the coffee that stood on the counter too long to be near warm as I like it. But, my daughter’s eagerness to paint on the walls stopped me from doing anything else than saving the walls one more time. “Emma, honey, we don’t paint on walls,” I said with a smile, trying to preserve the Thanksgiving spirit.

In the other corner of the room, my son Jake was grabbing cookies and crumbling them on the rug. “Oh, Jack, please put the cookies down,” I yelled, but he already put some in his mouth, with the crumbles getting all over his face.

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I love Thanksgiving, but even the thought of not having everything done perfectly dreads me. Between making sure my kids don’t make a complete mess out of my living room, and setting the table in the spirit of the tradition, I barely have a moment to catch my breath. Yet, the end result always feels like a special accomplishment.

At one moment, while I was still in the middle of my never ending preparations, my husband Dan opened the door and yelled almost too enthusiastically, “We’re here!”

“We?” I said to myself. “Who are we?”

With the bowl of salad in my hands and my apron still on, I saw my husband’s surprise guests standing at the door.

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“Zoe, I invited a couple of my co-workers. They had nowhere else to be, and isn’t the holiday all about sharing precious moments together?” Dan said with a smile on his face; that same smile he always put on when he believed he made a good decision that always turned out bad.

At that moment, I felt like throwing the salad right into his face, but I knew better than that.

The guests, some of whom were hesitant whether to enter the house or not, had bottles of wines and cookies as presents.

“How many people are here exactly, Dan?” I asked. “Oh, just fifteen,” he answered, as though it was nothing.

Trying my best to control my anger, I welcomed everyone in and the said in a high voice, “Welcome, everyone. Since this was a little unexpected, I would appreciate some help in the kitchen to make it all come together.”

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Dan looked at me in confusion. He believed he and his co-workers would have fun while I was doing everything, but he was wrong.

“Dan, honey,” I said, “please take the kids upstairs while we get ready for the dinner.” He didn’t say a word, just took Emma and Jack by their hands and took them to their room, occasionally turning around to meet my eyes.

My husband’s surprise guests were assigned some tasks around the kitchen, and it seems they didn’t mind helping around.

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Once everything was done and the table perfectly set, we all had a nice dinner.

“Thank you all for coming on such short notice,” I said as I raised a glass. “This wouldn’t have been possible without your help — literally. I hope you enjoyed seeing what Thanksgiving prep looks like in this house. Isn’t teamwork amazing?”

They laughed, and Dan’s boss said jokingly, “Well, Dan, we didn’t know your wife would make us work on our day off.” Dan felt a bit embarrassed, but he knew exactly why I did what I did.

Once dinner was over, I invited everyone to help with the dishes, with Dan doing most of the work.

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Finally, when my husband’s surprise guests left, satisfied with the beautiful evening, I sat on the couch, trying to take some break.

Dan saw me and approached carefully, as though he was afraid I would get mad at him, which I honestly was.

“Zoe, I had no idea now much work you put in the Thanksgiving preparations,” he said apologetically, “I shouldn’t have invited that many people without consulting you first.”

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“No, you shouldn’t have,” I said.

This Thanksgiving was a rollercoaster, but at the end, it was all about gratitude.

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20 Early Warning Signs of Cancer You Should Never Ignore

Your body has an incredible way of signaling when something might be wrong, including early warning signs of cancer. Listening closely to these signals can help in spotting diseases early, allowing for timely medical intervention. If you notice any of these early warning signs of cancer, it’s important to consult a doctor to determine if further testing is necessary.

Indirect Symptoms

Cancer doesn’t always show its hand directly. Often, the body manifests signs that aren’t obviously linked to the primary tumor or affected area. Recognizing these subtle symptoms can make a significant difference in early detection.

Wheezing or Shortness of Breath

Lung cancer patients often recall this as one of their earliest symptoms, though they didn’t initially associate it with cancer.

Frequent Fevers or Infections

A sign of leukemia, this occurs when abnormal white blood cells hinder your body’s ability to fight infections.

Difficulty Swallowing

Commonly linked to throat cancer, but it may also indicate lung cancer in some cases.

Weakness and Fatigue

Fatigue is such a common symptom of cancer that it’s best evaluated in combination with other early warning signs of cancer.

Feeling Full and Unable to Eat

This could be an early indicator of ovarian cancer, particularly when paired with a persistent loss of appetite.

Visible Bodily Changes

Cancer can also bring about physical changes that are more noticeable. These changes often depend on the type and stage of the disease, but they can provide crucial clues for early detection.

Rectal Bleeding or Blood in Stool

This is a common warning sign of colorectal cancer and should prompt immediate medical attention.

Lumps in the Neck, Underarms, or Groin Area

Swollen lymph nodes might indicate changes in the lymphatic system, potentially signaling cancer.

Excessive Bruising or Bleeding That Doesn’t Stop

Abnormalities in platelet or red blood cell function, often linked to leukemia, can lead to unexplained bleeding or bruising.

Bloating or Abdominal Weight Gain

Many ovarian cancer patients report sudden, persistent bloating as a primary early symptom.

Unexplained Weight Loss

This can be an early sign of colon or digestive cancers and may also occur when cancer spreads to the liver.

Red, Sore, or Swollen Breasts

Inflammatory breast cancer can cause these changes, while a nipple appearing flattened or inverted may also signal trouble.

Pain Symptoms

Persistent pain in specific areas of the body could also be a sign of cancer. Understanding these pain-related symptoms can help identify the need for further medical evaluation.

Unusually Heavy or Painful Periods, or Bleeding Between Periods

This is a common symptom of endometrial or uterine cancer.

Chronic Cough or Chest Pain

Cancers such as leukemia and lung cancer often cause symptoms that resemble bronchitis or a persistent bad cough.

Pelvic or Abdominal Pain

Pain and cramping in the pelvic area are frequently linked with ovarian cancer. Leukemia can also enlarge the spleen, causing abdominal pain.

Pain in the Back or Lower Right Side

This is often an early warning sign of cancer in the liver. Breast cancer might also cause back pain when tumors press against the chest or spread to the spine.

Upset Stomach or Persistent Stomach Pain

Frequent stomach cramps or discomfort can indicate colorectal cancer.

How to Reduce Your Risk

If you notice any of these early warning signs of cancer, don’t panic—but do consult a doctor for proper guidance. Early detection can save lives. Additionally, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, normalizing vitamin D levels, and reducing environmental toxin exposure are crucial steps in cancer prevention.

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