During the custody battle, my son played something on his phone – and everyone went silent

During a family court case about a custody battle, eight-year-old Zaden Carter changed the course of his and his mother’s lives with a single audio recording.

Sarah Martinez-Carter, a respected professional in pediatric healthcare research, never thought her life would take a devastating turn when she married the wrong person. Her ex-husband, Damian Carter, a medical facility executive known for his philanthropic work, wasn’t the man he presented himself in front of the world. On the contrary, he was aggressive and abusive, and made Sarah and Zaden’s lives a living hell.

Following their divorce, Sarah was granted primary custody, but her concerns of her son’s well-being grew more and more with each father-son visit.

That day at the court, Damian declared that his son wanted to live with him, and Sarah knew that wasn’t true. She was the only one who was aware of the withdrawal, the nightmares, and the vague fears her son experienced when he was around his father, but it was something she couldn’t prove in court easily, not with the influence and the connections Damien had all around the city.

“Mr. Carter, you’re asking for a change in custody. You’ve told this court your son has expressed a desire to live with you. Is that correct?” Damian nodded confidently. “Yes, Your Honor. Zaden told me he’s not comfortable in his current living situation. He wants to live with me full-time.”

Sarah’s stomach turned to ice. She kept looking at Zaden, whose tiny hands were folded tightly in his lap.

“Zaden,” said gently, “is that true, son? Do you want to live with your father?”

At that moment, everything stopped. “Please, don’t make him choose in front of this monster,” Sarah thought to herself, although she felt the urge to scream.

Zaden stood up, and Sarah was afraid of the words that were about to come out of his mouth. However, it felt like Zaden didn’t feel scared from his father. Bravely, he approached the judge and asked him if he could play the audio recording he took the previous night.

Damien’s lawyer objected immediately, but the judge let Zaden have his say.

The recording, played aloud in court, revealed Damian’s manipulation. He forced Zaden to say he wanted to live with him, threatened that bad things would happen if he didn’t comply, and falsely claimed that Sarah was harming her son. The courtroom fell silent as the recording painted a clear picture of psychological abuse.

Unsplash

Judge Morrison, known for his child-focused approach, granted Sarah a full custody of Zaden and ordered Damien to complete anger management, parenting classes, and a psychological evaluation before the court would revisit his visitation rights.

This outcome not only changed Sarah and Zaden’s lives, but also became a landmark example of how technology can empower children in legal proceedings.

Please SHARE this story with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

They laughed at her — then the billionaire’s wife spoke up and the elite panicked

What started as a high-society event intended to raise funds for education and innovation was in fact an experiment that shocked many.

I stood at the sink with sleeves rolled up and my fingers wrinkled. The kitchen was loud and the constant sound of clanging pans and people shouting instructions felt like too much to handle. On the floor above, in the fancy ballroom filled with chandeliers, wealthy guests sipped wine and enjoyed expensive food. What they were completely unaware of was that the woman washing dishes downstairs was the one who planned the guest list, approved the donations, and owned the house.

My name is Tessa Cross. I’ve been married to Nathan Cross for two years.

My husband, a tech billionaire and founder of one of the most successful companies in the country has always been admired by many. What’s more, his name alone opens doors. And that night, our home was hosting the annual Cross Foundation Gala.

Everyone arrived dressed to impress, but what they left behind was their manners.

That night, when I was supposed to be there welcoming the guests, I wasn’t Mrs. Cross. I was just “staff.”

Instead of wearing a designer’s gown as everyone else who was invited to the event, I pretended to be a member of the serving staff. With my hair in a simple bun, no makeup, and dressed in a worker’s uniform, I wanted to learn what was really hiding behind the polished smiles. How did this people act when there was no one “watching?” Well, I was about to find the answer to that question.

At first, it was just little things, like a side eye from a woman when I brushed past her to a finger snap from a well-dressed man in a velvet tux who didn’t want to wait for his glass of fine wine to be refilled. And then, the small things weren’t that small any longer. On the contrary, as the evening progressed, I started getting insults from the wealthy people who enjoyed my food in my own house. At one point, I was yelled at for standing still even though I was waiting for instructions.

Dana, the event planner, approached me and said I didn’t look presentable enough to be serving on the floor. I stead, she demanded I stay at the kitchen and wash the dishes.

And so, there I was—scrubbing crusted silverware in a kitchen I’d personally designed.

I didn’t say anything, I just observed, because this wasn’t about revenge or theatrics. It was about truth. About character. About seeing beyond the designer labels and perfect appearances to find the real truth.

But then, as I wiped my hands on a towel and prepared to clear another stack of plates, a familiar voice said, “Has anyone seen my wife?”

That’s when I decided to reveal myself. As I went upstairs, and headed straight to Nathan, all eyes were on me. Dana even tried to stop me, saying, “Where do yo think you are going?”

Nathan was confused. Seeing me in a damp apron, with stained sleeves and a massy hair, he said, “Tessa?”

Dana blinked in horror, and some of the guests, those who treated me as though they were better than me just because I was “staff,” shifted uncomfortably.

“I’ve been looking everywhere for you,” Nathan said. “What… what happened?”

I didn’t answer because I didn’t need to, since in that moment, everything became clear to everyone in the room. From that moment on, no party ever was the same.

Please SHARE this story with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

Tragic loss: Rachel Booth, beloved mother of three, found dead after disappearing near Northwich

Rachel Booth, a mother of three, was reported missing after she was last seen by her family in the early hours of Saturday morning in the Barnton area of Northwich. She then vanished without a trace and based on a CCTV footage, prior to her disappearance, she was at Sandiway Garage on the A556 at 3.50am, buying wine and milk following a 45-minute run.

One of the workers at the store who talked to the police said, “I spoke to my colleague who had served her on Saturday morning. She bought milk and wine and jogged from 45 minutes away.” he added, “But it didn’t seem weird, she didn’t seem disturbed or flustered.”

Unfortunately, after a day-long search by Cheshire Police, Rachel was found dead.

Her body was recovered from a lake in Oakmere on Monday.

Rachel was described by her family as a “guiding light.”

Rachel Booth/ GoFundMe

Friends and family set up a GoFundMe to help her husband and three sons during their time of grief. The fundraiser read, “Rachel tragically leaves behind her loving husband, Carl, and their three beloved sons. In this time of deep sorrow, we are reaching out to ask for your support in helping her family.

“Any funds will be placed into a trust fund for her three young boys. In addition, the family has expressed their wish to donate a portion of the proceeds to a charity close to their hearts — one that supports individuals and families affected by ADHD.

“Your generosity, no matter how big or small, will make a lasting difference and is deeply appreciated. Thank you for helping us give Rachel the beautiful farewell she deserves and for supporting her family during this heartbreaking time.”

Rachel Booth/ Facebook

The police believes there are not any suspicious circumstances regarding Rachel’s tragic death, and a file is being prepared for the coroner.

“Rachel’s family continue to be supported by specialist officers from Cheshire Police and they ask for their privacy to be respected at this difficult time,” Cheshire Police said.

Her family paid tribute to Rachel via a statement shared by the police. “Rachel, who was known to us as Helena, was a cherished member of our family.

“She was a guiding light whose strength, love and devotion touched us all.”

CCTV footage showing Rachel before she went missing/ AP

“Her kindness was constant and her presence a strength to everyone she knew, a loving mother, wife, daughter and sister who can never be replaced but always present in our hearts.

“Her absence leaves a space, but her smiles are a memory we will treasure for ever.”

Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

Why kidney failure is striking the young—And how to stop it

End-stage kidney failure (ESRF) or disease (ESRD), or simply kidney failure, is the fifth and final stage of chronic kidney disease (CKD) progression. At this point, you need dialysis or kidney transplant in order to survive.

Kidney failure occurs when the kidneys fail to function properly and are unable to effectively filter toxins, manage blood pressure, and regulate electrolyte levels. Until recently, kidney failure was related to old age, but sadly, the disease affects more and more young adults in recent years.

This disturbing trend calls for urgent education on lifestyle choices, early symptoms, and prevention.

Most recently, the case of a Vietnamese actress younger than 30 who was diagnosed with end-stage kidney failure sent shockwaves across the country, but her case is not unique. Many others have faced the same and nephrologists around the world are raising the alarm: kidney failure is getting younger. They also agree that the condition is largely preventable at the younger population because the risk factors leading to kidney failure are driven by lifestyle, most precisely by two destructive habits.

1. Unbalanced Diets Rich in Protein and Processed Foods

When trying to lose weight or build muscle, many adults turn to protein-rich supplements. The large amounts of “high-protein” place strain on your kidneys by raising urea and uric acid levels, overloading the kidneys and increasing the risk of kidney stones and damage.

Additionally, processed foods rich in sodium, sugar, and phosphates further affect the health of your kidneys.

A 2020 study published in the Clinical Journal of the American Society of Nephrology links high-sodium, low-potassium diets to kidney decline—even in healthy young adults.

2. Lack of Exercise and Sedentary Lifestyle

Another major risk is inactivity, which leads to obesity, high blood pressure, and diabetes — conditions contributing to kidney damage.

A 2023 study in Kidney International Reports linked sedentary lifestyle to rapid declines in estimated glomerular filtration rate (eGFR)—the key measure of kidney function.

It is estimated that young people spend 10-12 hours a day on their lap tops, scrolling on their phones, and binge-watching TV.

The kidneys are very resilient, meaning they can do their job even if they lose up to 90 percent of their function, according to Healthline.

Usually the symptoms in early stages of kidney failure are almost nonexistent, but when they do occur, they may include:

  • confusion
  • decreased urine output
  • fatigue
  • itching
  • muscle twitches and cramping
  • metallic taste in your mouth
  • nausea and vomiting
  • loss of appetite
  • seizures
  • swelling in your body
  • shortness of breath due to fluid buildup in your lungs
  • weakness

While kidney failure cannot always be prevented, there are things you can do to minimize the risks.

Except for a balanced diet and avoidance of processed foods, as well as minimizing a sedentary lifestyle as described before, other ways to protect your kidneys include: managing blood sugar levels, managing high blood pressure, maintaining a healthy weight, reducing salt intake, drinking enough water, limiting the consumption of alcohol, quitting smoking, and reducing stress among the rest.

Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

Top FBI official makes chilling claim about Epstein investigation

Disgraced billionaire Jeffrey Epstein committed suicide in his cell while awaiting trial in federal prison, and theories regarding his death have been circulating ever since, with the public, as well as Trump, demanding the justice department to release all grand jury testimony in the late financier’s case.

The FBI addressed the conspiracy theories, with Deputy Director Dan Bongino revealing to Fox News that the Intelligence Agency possesses surveillance footage of the night Epstein died which shows that he committed suicide. Bongino added that the FBI is reviewing “tens of thousands of videos” involving Epstein with children or involving child p**n, with “hundreds of victims” identified. Also, he shared that there was no “client list.”

“This systematic review revealed no incriminating ‘client list’. There was also no evidence found that Epstein blackmailed prominent individuals as part of his actions.

“We did not uncover evidence that could predicate an investigation against uncharged third parties.”

YouTube/ MSNBC

Bongino asked from the public to extend patience as they are handling vast evidence.

According to the Wall Street Journal, Bongino informed President Donald Trump in May that his name was in the Epstein files and claimed the files would be withheld by the administration because they contain pictures of child s**ual abuse.

During the 80s and the 90s, Trump was close friends with Epstein and British socialite Ghislaine Maxwell who is currently serving a 20-year prison sentence due to her involvement in Epstein’s crimes.

Getty Images

According to the Independent, Maxwell is appealing her conviction, with attorney Alan Dershowitz stating she “knows everything” about Epstein’s sex trafficking case and is prepared to testify before Congress in case she’s granted immunity.

“She knows everything. She is the Rosetta Stone,” Dershowitz said on Fox News Sunday, and added, “she knows everything, she arranged every single trip with everybody, she knows everything.”

“If she were just given use immunity, she could be compelled to testify,” he added. “I’m told that she actually would be willing to testify, and there’d be no reason for her to withhold any information.”

Trump faces no criminal charges and his name appearing in the files does not automatically imply involvement in Epstein’s child s*x trafficking activities.

REUTERS via NewYork Post

Given that Ghislaine Maxwell reportedly “didn’t hold back” during her questioning has led many to believe she’s angling for a presidential pardon. Trump commented on the matter, saying, “I’m allowed to do it, but it’s something I haven’t thought about.”

Amid the Epstein scandal, Dan Bongino revealed he has discovered matters that have “shocked me down to my core” during his time in office, The Mail reported.

“We cannot run a Republic like this. I’ll never be the same after learning what I’ve learned.

“We are going to conduct these righteous and proper investigations by the book and in accordance with the law. We are going to get the answers WE ALL DESERVE.”

Many believe the message is cryptic and expect Bongino to reveal more information in the days to come.

Bongino added that “as with any investigation, I cannot predict where it will land, but I can promise you an honest and dignified effort at truth. Not ‘my truth,’ or ‘your truth,’ but THE TRUTH.”

Further writing that “things are happening,” the FBI Deputy Director did not specify what he was talking about but he did made reference to recent findings about the weaponization and corruption of the government.

Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

New details emerge in shocking death of Anne Burrell

Celebrity chef and Food Network star Anne Burrell was found “unconscious and unresponsive” in her Brooklyn home on the morning of Tuesday, June 17. According to the New York City Police Department she was pronounced dead at the scene.

Her family issued a statement confirming her passing. “Anne was a beloved wife, sister, daughter, stepmother, and friend, her smile lit up every room she entered,” the statement read.

“Anne’s light radiated far beyond those she knew, touching millions across the world,” the family added. “Though she is no longer with us, her warmth, spirit, and boundless love remain eternal.”

Law enforcement officials have stated that they are currently looking into the death of famous chef Anne Burrell as a potential overdose.

They continue to emphasize that no foul play is suspected.

Sources close to the chef claim drugs were discovered close to her body after she purportedly suffered a heart arrest.

Shutterstock

People reports that the celebrity chef spent her Monday evening performing an improv show at The Second City New York. “Everyone said she was so great last night and so happy,” a source told the outlet. Another person confirmed Burrell’s upbeat mood and added that she “was in great spirits” during and after the show. “Typical fun, outgoing Anne, having a blast,” the insider shared with the outlet.

Her sudden passing the day after came as a huge shock to everyone who had attended her show the day prior and witnessed she seemed perfectly fine.

Five days before her passing, Burrell shared a post on Instagram, “I ran into @greenladyofbrooklyn in my neighborhood today!! I’m not going to lie- I have been keeping an eye out for her. I may or may not have followed her down the street for a minute. She is just lovely!!! #ilovewhatido #luckygirl 💚💚💚.”

Being part of the culinary industry for years, she helped hundreds of chefs in the making become better cooks and discover their culinary voice.

In an April interview with TastingTable, she spoke of the connection between cooks and food. “I truly in my heart feel that your food knows how you’re feeling when you cook it and it reacts accordingly,” she said.

Anne Burrell was a firm believer in mise en place.

She encouraged cooks to prep ingredients ahead and clean as you go in order to keep the kitchen running smoothly.

She made a name for herself hosting Secrets of a Restaurant ChefAll-Star Best Thing I Ever AteChef Wanted with Anne Burrell, and making memorable appearances on Iron Chef America.

Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images for City Harvest

Anne Burrell’s dedication went far from the kitchen. She served as an advisory board member for the Garden of Dreams Foundation, acted as a celebrity ambassador for the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, and actively supported City Harvest’s Food Council.

Burrell often said, “I feel so lucky to be able to share my true passion in life with others.”

She is survived by her husband Stuart Claxton, and his son, Javier, as well as her mother, Marlene, her sister, Jane, and her brother Ben.

Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

5 things doctors say you should never give your children to help prevent cancer

Cancer is a devastating disease that not only impacts the life of the person receiving the diagnosis, but also the lives of their loved ones. Battling cancer can be a long and painful journey, and sadly, not everyone who is affected by this disease ends up a winner.

The sad reality is that cancer also affects children of all ages, from newborns and toddlers to preschoolers and teenagers.

Luke Morin and Garrett Matthias were both 5 years old when they lost their young lives to cancer.

Luke only lived 17 days after he was diagnosed with Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma (DIPG)—one of the rarest and most aggressive childhood brain cancers with a zero percent survival rate. His family says that their son “was stollen from them,” and they are doing everything in their power to raise awareness and help raise money in hopes of finding a cure for DIPG.

Garrett battled a rare childhood cancer for ten long months before he passed away. He was aware of the disease and even wrote his own obituary, sharing his wish to be buried with a party, something his parents honored no matter how heartbroken they were. Instead of a sad funeral, something their son didn’t like, they hosted a celebration of life completed with a bounce house, snow cones and an Asgardians burial, like Thor’s mom from the movie.

Both Luke and Garrett were raised in loving families, adored by everyone who knew them. Their parents did all in their power to keep them happy and healthy, but despite providing only for the best for them, they both got cancer.

The truth is that their parents did nothing wrong. Simply, cancer is cruel, and it’s sometimes genetic, and while we can’t control whether we will be diagnosed or not, doctors say there are certain things we can do in order to minimize the risks, especially when it comes to our children.

There are five things doctors say parents should avoid giving their children.

1. Ultra-Processed Meats (Hot Dogs, Bacon, Sausages)

The World Health Organization has classified processed meats including ham, bacon, salami and frankfurts as a Group 1 carcinogen (known to cause cancer) which means that there’s strong evidence that processed meats cause cancer, the Cancer Council reports.

These products contain nitrates and nitrites, preservatives known to form carcinogenic compounds in the body, especially in the colon. Since children’s digestive system is still developing, they are more vulnerable.

Consider replacing them with fresh lean meats, grilled poultry, or plant-based alternatives.

2. Sugary Drinks (Sodas, Energy Drinks, Even Some Juices)

Soft drinks, energy drinks, and even juices are full of sugars and their consumption can easily lead to obesity and diabetes.

The same goes for the diet sodas, which are expected to be a healthier option but are actually disrupting our metabolism and increasing the hunger. Dr. London, who has almost 400,000 followers on his TikTok account, refers to soft drinks as to “liquid death.” Except for high amounts of sugar, these drinks contain artificial dyes and preservatives linked to cancer in animal studies.

A better options would be water with fresh fruit slices or smoothies made of whole fruits.

3. Plastic Containers and Bottles with BP

When offering drinks in plastic containers and bottles, there is a chance of Bisphenol A (BPA), a chemical often found in these products, to enter the food or drink we consume. Acting as an endocrine disruptor, BPA can mimic the hormone estrogen. This can increase the risk of cancers such as breast and prostate cancer.

Even when a plastic product is marked “BPA-free,” it contains BPS (Bisphenol S), which is as dangerous.

Use glass, stainless steel, or food-safe silicone containers instead and never microwave plastic.

4. Heavily Fried or Charred Foods

Heavily fried or charred foods can produce harmful chemicals like acrylamide and HCAs, which are linked to cancer risk.

Healthier cooking methods include steaming or baking.

5. Talc-Based Baby Powder or Products with Formaldehyde

Many baby powders that use talc have been linked to cancer risks due to possible asbestos contamination. Other baby care products such as wet wipes and shampoos also contain formaldehyde-releasing chemicals, which are considered cancerous.

When choosing what’s best for your child, opt for talc-free and formaldehyde-free products from brands that use natural ingredients.

These small but meaningful choices may reduce the risks of your child being affected with cancer later in life. While growing up, children are more sensitive to toxins and chemicals than adults, so why not do what’s best for them and their health.

Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace

BREAKING: 11 injured in mass stabbing at Michigan Walmart

Eleven people were injured during a stabbing spree at a Walmart in Traverse City, Michigan, Saturday afternoon. Had it not been for the quick reaction of bystanders and FBI personnel who were able to subdue the suspect, the number of people injured would have been higher, authorities reported.

The motive behind the attack remains unknown, according to Grand Traverse County Sheriff Michael Shea.

Following the incident, which left six of the injured people in a serious condition, the attacker, identified as 42-year-old Bradford Gille of Afton, Michigan, has been arrested. He is expected to be charged with one count of terrorism and 11 counts of assault with intent to murder. 

Jerome Hartl/UGC/Reuters

According to Shea, the suspect, who is being detained in country jail, had “prior assaultive incidents as well as controlled substance violations.”

“It appears that these were all random acts,” Shea added. “The victims were not predetermined.

“I cannot commend everyone that was involved enough. When you stop and look from the time of call to the time of actual custody, the individual was detained within one minute,” Shea said at the press conference. “That is remarkable. When you look at it in that mitigated Lord knows how many additional victims.”

Jan-Michael Stump/Traverse City Record-Eagle via AP

Gille committed the attack using a folding knife near a checkout counter at about 4:45 p.m.

“Me and my sister work there. The whole store started screaming and running. There was a guy with a knife—he stabbed six people. I saw someone stabbed in the eye,” Walmart employee Tasha Nash, the Independent reported.

Another witness, Tiffany DeFell, who lives about 25 miles from Traverse City, was at the parking lot when the attack took place. “It was really scary. Me and my sister were just freaking out,” she told The Associated Press. “This is something you see out of the movies. It’s not what you expect to see where you’re living.”

AP

Steven Carter, who was also at the parking lot at the time, loading his truck, said, “At first, it was disbelief. I thought maybe it was like a terror attack.

“And then it was fear, disbelief, shock. And that was, it was just amazing, and it all happened fast. Like he was totally subdued on the ground by the time police arrived.”

In a follow up statement, Walmart said they will be working close with law enforcement to help the investigation. “Violence like this is unacceptable. Our thoughts are with those who were injured and we’re thankful for the swift action of first responders,” the retailer’s spokesperson Joe Pennington said.

Please SHARE this article with your family and friends on Facebook.

Bored Daddy

Love and Peace