My husband died on our wedding day – little did I know he’d fooled everyone

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Monica Pop
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At 28, I felt like I had the world at my feet. I had a great career, wonderful friends, and a close-knit family. The best thing of all, I was weeks away from saying “I do” to the Damian, the man I adored.

From the moment I met him, he made my life complete, and despite the fact that his family was not fond of me, we decided to marry.

He went through a lot when he told his parents he was dating me. For reasons unknown, they didn’t see me as a good fit for their son and tried to ruin our relationship.

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On the day of our wedding, Damian collapsed at the church, and he never woke up. What was supposed to be the best day of my life turned into a nightmare and a heartbreak I though I could never recover from.

On the day of Damian’s funeral, his family accused me of taking their son from them.

They blamed me for his passing, and it was more than I could bear.

Some days later, I tried to escape my pain, called a taxi, and decided to wander around the city until I could figure out what to do next.

But the moment I entered the taxi, I heard a familiar voice. “Fasten your seatbelt.” It was Damian. He was right there in front of me, very much alive.

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At that moment, I thought I was going mad. “But… you died,” I said, shocked and barely able to speak.

He pulled the car and explained everything. His family, who was very rich and powerful, got involved in some shady business and wanted to drag him with them. That was one of the reasons they disliked me, because with me by his side, they couldn’t manipulate Damian into doing the “dirty” businesses they got themselves into.

So, in order to protect us, he did the unimaginable. He fakes his own death.

It turned out that on the wedding day, he took a special drug that slowed his heart, allowing him to stage the collapse, the hospital visit, and even the funeral. The coffin was empty—I had mourned a man who hadn’t actually died.

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I was mad, angry, crying. Although I knew that he did what he did for the sake of our happiness, I couldn’t get over the fact that I endured pain thinking he was dead.

He begged me to forgive him, asking me to start over somewhere away from the city where we lived.

I wasn’t sure if I could forgive him. I needed time to process everything.

After a couple of months, I called him. I was still mad, but I couldn’t picture my life without him.

Today, we live quietly by the sea, away from anyone who knows our past.

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The gap between a woman’s legs can reveal that she is…

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Monica Pop
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The rise of the social media redefined beauty norms and what it means to be attractive has become more filtered and less attainable.

The bunch of beauty trends that social media users, especially influencers, try to impose on society has surely affected millions of people, making them more self-conscious and less self-confident.

Back in 2012, the thigh gap trend exploded on social media, and while many thought it would be just a passing obsession, it proved to be here to stay.

I guess now that you’re reading this, you probably recall the times you Googled the term, wanting to know how to achieve this ‘perfect’ look. If you have, you’re not alone. In fact, the trend has spread so much that a single search will bombard you with over 40 million results and countless YouTube videos and tutorials.

So, what’s a thigh gap? It refers to the space between your thighs when standing upright with your feet together.

This is something not everyone has, and if you believe those who do achieved it by following strict diets and never left the gym, you are wrong.

Truth is that thigh gap has to do with your bone structure, hip width, and how your thighs are shaped. That said, this look isn’t really something you can achieve if your body type and bone structure don’t allow that.

The biggest issue with this trend is that it has pushed unrealistic beauty standards, pushing women toward unhealthy eating habits, negative body image, and even body dysmorphia.

While many sites and influencers try to present this is an aesthetic standard, claiming those who have that thigh gap are not only attractive but also fit and healthy, that is entirely not true.

Some women are born with a natural thigh gap, and some aren’t, and that’s perfectly normal.

Thigh gap is largely determined by genetics. Eating right and exercising won’t guarantee one, and fixating on it can affect your mental and physical health. What’s more, many believe that all skinny women have thigh gap, which again, is not the case.

When you scroll on your phone and stumble upon photos of women who promote this trend, have in mind that what they post on social media is not always a true reflection of reality. Most of these photos are altered in some way. Whether it’s the angle, the lighting, the pose, or editing—and don’t always show how someone looks in real life.

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What is important to note is that no matter the trends, you should always embrace your own beauty instead of pursuing unrealistic standards that can take a toll on your mental health or your physical appearance.

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10-year-old baseball star dies suddenly after championship game

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Monica Pop
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The community of Linglestown, Pennsylvania, was struck by tragedy when 10-year-old Bryson Funk, a shining baseball star, passed away just a day after standing on the pitcher’s mound and delivering his final pitch in a game that won his Dauphin team the championship.

Bryson pitched the final three innings of the game for the Linglestown Colts, ending the game with a strikeout that brought his team the championship title on June 11.

Sadly, the day after, he collapsed and was rushed to the hospital where he was pronounced dead.

According to his family, Bryson had been diagnosed with myocarditis — an inflammation of the heart — which led to his suffering cardiac arrest.

His family, friends, and teammates have been left heartbroken.

Bryson’s best friend, Elias Vilfort, 9, recalled in an interview with CBS 21, “He would literally do a backflip to make a play or slide in the muddy dirt, acting like it was nothing. That’s the kind of player he was.

“He was very funny. He was always in the game… I’m still shocked that this happened.”

Elias’ mother, Amanda Vilfort, posted a heartwarming photo of the two friends with the caption, “Elias suddenly lost his best friend yesterday. We are heartbroken and devastated…I pray for comfort for all who are grieving the loss of Bryson. He will be missed beyond belief.”

Bryson’s grieving father Todd commented on the photo of his late son and his friend, writing, “I’ve lost my only son, my throwing buddy. If Elias ever wants to come down, he’s always welcome to come down throw the baseball around and talk about Bryson.”

“It would help us all [heal],” he added in a separate message.

The Linglestown Baseball Association paid tribute to Bryson on Facebook, remembering him an exceptional player, a loyal teammate, and a true friend.

“Bryson wasn’t just an incredible athlete – he was a teammate, a friend, and a joy to coach. His hustle and his heart will be remembered by everyone who had the privilege of knowing him,” the tribute read.

A friend of the family, Nicki Brantner, set up a GoFundMe to help the grieving family.

“Bryson passed away [June 12]. Something no one could have ever imagined happening to such a vibrant, active guy. He had an amazing championship win [June 11]. Pitching the last three innings and struck out the last batter for the win! Bryson was quite the athlete,” Brantner shared on the fundraiser that by June 23 donations had surpassed $47,500, putting them just short of the $50,000 goal. “His parents are now facing what no parent should ever endure.”

According to CBS 21, Bryson was born with coarctation of the aorta and a deformed bicuspid aortic valve, but his family said doctors don’t believe it had anything to do with his death.

According to the Mayo Clinic, myocarditis is mostly caused by viral infections, though exposure to medications, environmental toxins, or autoimmune disease may also contribute.

Symptoms frequently include chest discomfort, dyspnea, fatigue, and arrhythmias. In some patients, the condition is subclinical, complicating timely diagnosis. Although supportive care and pharmacologic treatment lead to recovery in many cases, fulminant myocarditis can deteriorate rapidly under hemodynamic stress.

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The police showed up at my newly rented house and insisted on inspecting the basement—what they discovered was something I never expected

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Monica Pop
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Seth and I had been trying for a child for way too long, and while I believed that not being able to conceive was something that would brought is closer together, Seth thought otherwise.

“I don’t know how much longer I can handle this…” he said while we were seated opposite each other at the kitchen table.

“What do you mean?” I asked, feeling my heart drop realizing where the conversation was going.

“You know I want children, and time is not on our side, Willa,” Seth said, almost sounding too cold for what he was saying.

“What do you want from me?” I asked. “To walk away? Leave this marriage? Quit fighting for your love?”

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Seth didn’t answer, but his silence said more than words.

Before long, I found myself signing divorce papers, leaving my entire life behind, and moving to an old house in Willow Creek.

The granddaughter of the late man the house belonged to was very welcoming. She didn’t ask much questions but helped me feel like home. She would sometimes bring muffins or homemade bread, but there was a quiet acknowledgment between us that we both cherished our personal space.

Days in the old but cozy house, I started hearing sounds coming from the basement, but somehow I was a bit afraid to check it out, fearing there could be an animal that would scare me.

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Once, I asked Lauren, the granddaughter of late Mr. Nolan, about the basement, but she said her grandfather had always been very secretive about the place and didn’t let anyone go there. Somehow, no one in the family ever questioned why.

He was an old man in his 70s, living all by himself, so they just assumed he had his personal belongings stored there.

I thought about the basement every now and then, but never dared to get inside, at least not all by myself.

But then, one day, I discovered Mr. Nolan’s big secret.

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While I was having my morning coffee, someone knocked on my door. “It has to be one of my neighbors,” I thought to myself. All of my neighbors have been in good spirits, very supporting and friendly.

But I guessed wrong. Instead, two police officers stood at my porch.

“How can I help you?” I asked, a bit confused by their presence.

“Madam, we need to check your basement. This has nothing to do with you, but with the previous owner,” they said. “Have you been to the basement since renting this place?” they asked.

I said I hadn’t because I was afraid to go there myself.

When they went to the basement and started looking around, they found two children.

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Seeing the, my heart stopped. “What were those kids doing there?” I asked myself, too afraid to say anything out loud.

“So, there you are!” one of the officers said as he approached the kids. “This basement has been your secret place, hasn’t it?”

The boys, who were between six and eight years old, started crying. “Please don’t take us back to the orphanage,” they pleaded.

The orphanage they escaped from was a couple of streets down my home. And it turned out this wasn’t the first time they managed to escape. Once, they were missing for a whole week before they returned and refused to tell where they were.

The officer turned to the older boy and said, “We know that Mr. Nolan was letting you stay here. He was bringing you food and toys. But that ends now, you’ll go back to the orphanage and you never leave it again – not without permission.”

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As the boys were dragged out of the basement, one of them rushed towards me and hugged me tightly. “Please, save us, don’t let them take us. Let us live in your basement.”

I didn’t say anything because I was overwhelmed by the entire experience.

A few days passed by, and I couldn’t stop thinking of the boys. So, I decided to visit them one day.

As I was going towards the orphanage, my heart paced.

Once there, I asked about Max and Tommy. The woman working there told me they were both abandoned by their biological parents and were living there ever since.

I wanted to see them, and they brought them to the office.

“Hi, boys,” I said gently. “How are you doing?”

“Are you here to take us home to your basement? Will you let us live there?” they kept asking.

Their eyes were filled with hope and sadness.

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I wanted children for so long. “Could I adopt these two? Would I be a good mother?” A million questions popped up in my mind as the boys pleaded me to take them with me.

“I can’t promise anything, but I am willing to try,” I said.

It didn’t take long before I started the adoption process, which was a long and tiring one, and cost more than I ever anticipated. But at the end of the day, it was worth it.

I finally became a mother of two beautiful boys. They became my world, and it felt good to be theirs.

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Little girl in princess dress saved unconscious biker she found in ditch

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Kelly White
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Being as tiny as she was, the sight of the little girl dressed in a princess dress with her arms wrapped around a biker she found lying unconscious in a ditch off Highway 84 stunned the medics and the passing drivers who took their time to pull over and see what was going on.

When some of them approached the little girl, they could hear her sing “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star” to calm him. Her tiny hands were pressed against the wound in his chest. It looked like she had done it on purpose in order to stop the bleeding.

“Don’t take him!” she yelled when the paramedics arrived. “He’s not ready! His friends aren’t here yet!”

The medics believed she was in shock or maybe scared, but the girl kept saying the injured biker was waiting for his “brothers” and that she was there to keep him safe until they arrived.

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At that very moment, the sound of motorcycles approaching caught the attention of everyone gathered around the man.

“See? I told you. He showed me in my dream last night.”

The lead rider jumped off his bike and rushed towards the crowd. He then spotted the girl and froze. “Emma? But you’re dead,” he said.

Emma was the injured man’s, Marcus “Tank” Williams, late daughter. She’d died of leukemia three years earlier.

“I’m Madison. But Emma visits me in my dreams. She said I had to keep her daddy safe.”

The bikers rushed to form a chain to lift Tank out. Bulldog, one of his brothers, donated blood on the spot, exactly the type Madison had named. Doctors later said if she hadn’t kept pressure where she did, Tank wouldn’t have survived.

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Months passed by since Madison found Tank, and now that he recovered from the injuries he sustained from the crash, she led him to an old oak tree in his yard. “Emma wants me to show you something,” she said.

Tank was confused. He kept wondering if this five-year-old girl really saw his late daughter in her dreams. Something deep down was telling him that Madison was indeed able to pass on his late daughter’s messages to him, so when she pointed at a spot near the old tree, Tank started digging.

It wasn’t long before he spotted an old rusty box buried in the ground. Inside was a letter Emma wrote before she passed away.

In it, she wrote that even though she won’t be there, the angels promised her that a girl named Madison would save him one day, when he would need it the most.

Tank couldn’t contain his tears. Through Madison, he could feel the presence of his sweet daughter. “Emma says she likes your new red bike. She always wanted you to get one.”

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The story of Tank’s miraculous survival spread like a wildfire among the bikers from every corner of the country. Those who have heard it said it could be just a coincidence. Some believed it was something someone made up. But those who were there knew the truth.

Today, Madison is older, but she and her family are still very close with Tank. He became a family.

This story, no matter if you decide to believe it’s true or just an imagination, serves as a reminder that miracles do happen, and angels do exist. Maybe not in the form of divine creatures with wings, but as ordinary humans who appear at the right moment, in the right place, to change someone’s life forever.

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If your private parts smell fishy, it’s something you should be aware of

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Monica Pop
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A lot of women have experienced bad odor coming from their private parts, but that’s not always a reason to worry. In fact, that fishy smell that makes many women rather uncomfortable sometimes happens for no particular reason.

Often, putting on clean underwear after bathing or showering is enough to bring your natural scent back to normal.

However, if the odor doesn’t go away despite good hygiene, or shows up with other unusual symptoms, it may be worth consulting your gynecologist.

If the fishy smell is accompanied with itching, pain, or other unexpected symptoms, it may signal an underlying issue such as bacterial vaginosis.

In fact, this bacteria is the most common reason for a fishy vaginal odor.

Bacterial vaginosis develops when the natural balance of vaginal bacteria shifts. Most common symptoms include thin gray or white discharge, a noticeable fishy odor (often stronger after intercourse), and itching or burning sensations. It needs to be treated with antibiotics.

Another reason that leads to fishy odor can be linked to poor hygiene, trapped sweat, and tight clothing.

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Trichomoniasis, a sexually transmitted infection (STI) caused by a parasite, can also be the cause of the unpleasant smell coming from your private parts. This is treatable with medications, not home remedies.

Leaving a tampon in too long can also cause a powerful rotten odor, sometimes misidentified as fishy.

While the smell usually goes away on its own, it may sometimes stay longer than what is considered normal. In that case, it’s best to have yourself checked for bacteria or other underlying conditions.

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Some ways to prevent the fishy smell from happening are maintain good hygiene, most preferably by gently cleaning the external genital area with warm water and mild soap instead of douching, wear cotton underwear, use protection to prevent infections, and avoid scented soaps, sprays, or feminine wipes among the rest.

You can also consider probiotics to maintain healthy vaginal flora if your doctor approves.

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What it says about your relationship when your partner sleeps with their back to you

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Monica Pop
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Research suggest that your sleeping habits reveal more about your relationship than you might think.

Having a good night sleep is essential in order to be able to get through the day, and although the way you sleep at night may not affect your quality of sleep, it does reveal deeper psychological and emotional dynamics.

Experts say that sharing a bed with a partner offers surprising benefit, and relationship psychologists agree that sleeping near a loved one can enhance emotional connection, reduce stress, regulate body temperature, and even help combat insomnia.

But what does it mean if your partner is sleeping back to you? Maybe it’s a sign of distance?

Before jumping into conclusions let’s see what the experts have to say.

In many cases, sleeping back-to-back, or one of the partners turning their back while sleeping, is simply a matter of comfort. Some people need more space, cooler air, or a posture that helps them relax and sleep better.

As sleep specialist Dr. Rebecca Robbins explains, everyone has an ideal sleeping position, and turning away doesn’t always indicate emotional distance. However, if this change happens suddenly, it could be a sign of stress or a shift in emotional closeness.

This sleep position can reflect how couples navigate everyday challenges, but it doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is struggling. In fact, a number of couples who sleep back to back has had a long and fulfilling relationship.

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According to another expert, relationship psychologist Corinne Sweet, “this position suggests couples are connected and secure in themselves,” adding that “it shows closeness and independence in the relationship.”

What’s more, the back-to-back sleeping position, also called “Liberty,” is a position most common among couples, with 28% adopting the pose, according to Huffington Post.

The bottom line is that when your partner sleeps with their back to you, or you sleep back-to-back, it’s not always a warning sign, but simply a way of finding the most comfortable way to rest.

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Foods that can ease swelling in hands and feet

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Monica Pop
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Swelling in the hands and feet is generally not concerning, unless it happens suddenly and is accompanied by other symptoms.

The reasons behind the swelling can be various — from poor circulation to fluid retention and poor posture or movement habits. It usually goes away on its own, but if it persists, it can be a signal of an underlying health issue such as heart, kidney, or liver failure.

In many cases, changes in diet and lifestyle can make all the difference in managing the swelling in feet and hands.

Some foods naturally support healthy circulation and fluid balance while fighting inflammation. Adding these to your diet may ease swelling in your hands and feet.

1. Bananas

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Bananas are a rich source of several essential nutrients, including potassium, vitamin C, and fiber.

When potassium levels are low, the body tends to hold on to sodium, which leads to fluid buildup and swelling in the hands and feet. Including potassium-rich foods in your diet—such as bananas, avocados, and oranges—helps get rid of the excess sodium, which in turn improves circulation and restores proper fluid balance. Believe it or not, a simple habit like having a banana a day can go a long way in keeping swelling under control.

2. Cucumbers

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Cucumbers contain 90% water, which makes them the perfect vegetable that provides hydration to your body.

At the same time, cucumbers are rich in silica and antioxidants that support healthy connective tissues.

Since swelling can often be triggered by dehydration, adding cucumbers in your diet, whether raw, in salads, smoothies or in your water, can help you stay hydrated, reducing puffiness in your hands and feet.

3. Watermelon

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Watermelon isn’t just sweet and refreshing but also one of the best foods for fighting swelling. Just like cucumbers, watermelon helps keep you hydrated, but it also serves as diuretic, helping the body get rid of the excess fluid.

At the same time, watermelon helps with inflammation due to being rich in vitamins A and C and lycopene.

On hot days, or after standing on your feet long hours, treat yourself with a cold watermelon, your body and soul will thank you.

4. Leafy Greens

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Leafy greens such as spinach, kale, and Swiss chard are packed with magnesium and potassium, two minerals that work together to keep fluid levels steady.

As discussed above, potassium helps the body release excess sodium, while magnesium relaxes blood vessels and supports healthy circulation.

5. Berries

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Imagine something small but powerful that boosts your health and you get berries of all kinds: blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, you name it.

These fruits are adored beyond their deliciousness, thanks to their anti-inflammatory properties. Also, the sweet berries are rich in antioxidants, especially anthocyanins, which protect blood vessels and improve circulation.

Starting your day with a handful of fresh berries is the way to go.

6. Pineapple

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Fresh pineapple chunks or freshly squeezed pineapple juice sound like the perfect snack. Add this fruit’s natural enzyme, bromelain, to the list of benefits, and you have an ideal fruit for fighting inflammation and improving blood flow.

Athletes often eat pineapple after injuries to help reduce swelling. Juicy and healthy, so what more could you ask for?

7. Celery

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Celery can naturally reduce water retention thanks to its diuretic effects, while its fiber promotes healthy digestion and decreases bloating.

While some research claim that its diuretic effects are mild, other suggest they are in fact very strong, so the conclusion would be that it depends on how you consume it.

While celery juice has less fiber than the raw vegetable, it can be richer in water and butylphthalide, making it a strong natural diuretic.

You can enjoy it as juice or munch on the sticks as a snack, the choice is yours to make.

8. Ginger and Turmeric

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Ginger and turmeric are known as spices that have powerful anti-inflammatory properties. With that said, they enhance circulation, reduce stiffness, and help manage swelling.

Adding fresh ginger to tea or using turmeric in soups and curries is a simple way to take advantage of their natural health-boosting effects.

9. Nuts and Seeds

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Unlike the fruits mentioned above, nuts and seeds aren’t rich in water and they don’t act as natural diuretics, yet the levels of magnesium they contain, especially almonds and cashews, helps fight swelling, including in hands and feet.

When it comes to nuts, however, you should avoid having the salted options since salt is what causes the swelling the most.

While the foods discussed in this article can be a helpful addition to a diet aimed at reducing swollen hands and feet, they should not be relied upon as the sole solution. If the swelling is persistent, seek medical help.

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