Jana Hocking, a sex and dating columnist for the Mail Online, shared a rather intriguing experience after visiting an orgasm retreat.
Unlike most retreats, which offer sessions to promote personal growth, healing, relaxation, or transformation, the one Hocking paid a visit offered something…well, different.
Speaking on the Just Between Us podcast, Jana explained that she attended the Back to Body Sex Retreat in Joshua Tree National Park as part of her columnist assignment, adding that the place is dedicated to women honing in on their own sexual satisfaction.
Jana said the stay cost $15,000 for the entire experience, which made the hosts of the podcast go ‘wow,’ but she added that they are also weekend offers for less than $1,000.
“I thought it would be full of extroverts who were outlandish and wanted to perform in front of each other, but it really wasn’t,” Jana said when she called the podcast.
“They were either getting divorced and realized they hadn’t had a proper orgasm and wanted to right wrongs, while other women were dealing with trauma and needed to learn how to enjoy sex again, which was quite heartbreaking.”
She revealed that the camp was designed to help women learn how to prioritize their own sexual needs. The retreat began with everyone explaining their reasons for attending, though that was the most low-key moment of the entire experience.
The retreat, hosted by the founder Pamela Madsen and her team, moved into tantric meditation.
“We had to hold our vulvas and rock back and forth, either naked or in our underwear, and speak to our vulva and tell it what we wanted, who we wanted to be and what our goals were,” Jana said.
“My goal was to take back ownership of my sexuality because I realized I was performing — I can do a Meg Ryan orgasm like the best of them — but am I having a real orgasm? Am I putting my needs first?”
One session involved Madsen receiving half an hour of foreplay from a male assistant, culminating in orgasm in front of the attendees.
“It just went on so long I got bored,” Jana said, and added that during another tutorial, a urologist offered a hands-on demonstration of female anatomy, using Madsen as the model.
“We all stood around as the urologist kind of pointed at her private parts,” she said. “This is your labia, this is your clit.”
Jana admitted she was the only one who didn’t orgasm at the retreat, but feels more confident and equipped to reach climax in her own time.
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