What it actually means if one of your fingers turns white in the cold

The freezing weather comes with certain precautions, such as wearing extra layers, and keeping your hands and head warm.

Well, this is more important for some people than others, and the reason why may stun you.

Have you ever experienced, or noticed someone else dealing with white fingers when the temperatures are low? If yes, this is the reason why.

In fact, if a person’s fingers, or a single finger or toe, turn white in the cold, they are probably suffering from a condition known as Raynaud’s phenomenon or Raynaud’s syndrome.

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This condition is a result from the narrowing of the blood vessels that supply blood to the skin narrow, restricting the blood flow. This causes the affected area to change color to white. However, as the blood returns, the color changes into blue and then red.

Not only having your fingers go white looks rather odd, it can also cause an unpleasant sensation of numbness and pain.

What is interesting about this condition is that is it more common in women than in men.

The symptoms can last from a couple of minutes to several hours.

Further, a person can stop experiencing this over time before they go without symptoms for some time.

The fingers and the toes are not the only parts of the body that can be affected by Raynaud’s syndrome. The nose, the ears, the lips, and even the nipples can turn white due to this condition.

However, Raynaud’s syndrome isn’t only triggered by the cold, but also by stress and anxiety, as well as by working with vibrating tools for a longer period of time.

In many cases, preventing the fingers from going white due to this narrowing of the blood vessels is possible by wearing gloves, and trying to avoid stressful situations.

Quitting smoking can also help with the symptoms.

Severe complications such as ulcers, scarring and even tissue death (gangrene) are rare.

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My wife and I visited an orphanage to adopt and found a girl who was the spitting image of our daughter

That girl at the orphanage resembled my daughter so much that it felt surreal. The same hair, the same smile and eyes, and what was most shocking of all, the same crescent-shaped birthmark on her wrist.

My marriage to Caroline, my first wife, didn’t last long. The truth was that we belonged to two different worlds and never really got along, so shortly after she gave birth to our daughter, Olivia, we split and never saw each other again.

She wasn’t interested in being part of Olivia’s life, and that was fine, because I was more than ready to take up both roles.

I juggled between taking care of my girl and having a full time job, but then I met Claire.

She and Olivia clicked right away, and her becoming part of our lives felt like a missing piece of the puzzle had finally fallen into place.

A year into our marriage, we decided to adopt. Claire wanted a bigger family, and since adoption was our only option, we decided to embrace it and welcome a child in need of a loving home.

We started the procedure, which involved filling out forms and attending interviews, but eventually, it was all worth it because life surprised us in the most incredible way.

When Claire and I arrived at the orphanage, we were welcomed by Mrs. Alvarez. She was a kind woman always ready to help.

As we talked to the children who were engaged in a number of activities, such as drawing, building bricks, and reading, I started talking to a young boy. But just as I was about to offer help with the coloring, a felt a tap on my shoulder.

“Are you a new dad?” a little girl asked me.

Looking at her, I froze. She was a spitting image of my daughter. It was as though I was looking at Olivia and someone was playing a prank on me.

But she then handed me her hand and introduced herself as Angel.

As I shook her tiny hand, I noticed the birthmark on her wrist. It was exactly like the one Olivia had.

“What is going on?” I asked myself.

Claire noticed something wasn’t right and approached me. I just pointed out at Angel and said we needed to speak to the manager of the orphanage.

Sadly, they couldn’t tell us much, besides that Angel was left in front of the orphanages when she was merely a day old.

When I asked about the date Angel arrived at the orphanage, they gave a date that was too familiar to be a coincidence.

Claire and I left the orphanage, and I knew I needed to confront my ex-wife.

I hadn’t had any contact with her for five years, but this was too important to ignore. I was sure she had all the answers to the questions that had been messing with my mind.

When I asked Caroline who Angel was, she was left speechless. “I… I…” she said.

“Just say it Caroline,” I demanded as my anger grew bigger.

She then started crying and said that Angel was our child. Five years ago, she gave birth to twins, and she felt it would be for the best if I take one of the girls while she had the other. But she knew she couldn’t keep Angel at that point, so she gave her at the orphanage, hoping she could get her back once she stood on her feet. Sadly, that didn’t happen.

Luckily, I found my girl, and Claire was more than happy we adopt her.

When Angel and Olivia met, it was a moment to remember. While Angel kept smiling, Olivia was shocked, saying it felt like she was looking at herself in the mirror.

Our family was now complete. Who would have thought that our wish to adopt a child would take me to my biological daughter. Life is truly unpredictable.

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Ex-wife’s response to her ex-husband winning $273m lottery post-divorce sparks debate

Mere months after their divorce was finalized, the ex-husband of Eileen Murray won a $273 million Mega Millions lottery jackpot.

And how she felt about that!? Well, she said she wouldn’t take him back or ask for any of his money. However, she shared her frustration at continuing to make alimony payments to him, because as she stated in an interview, “To him, [the alimony] is pocket change at this point.”

Eileen added: “Think about the amount of money that he has just won. What I’m paying him is a pittance.”

During their marriage of 15 years, Eileen’s husband, Mike Weirsky, was having a hard time holding down a job, making Eileen the family’s breadwinner.

Following their separation, as per the law, she was ordered by the court to pay her ex-husband a spousal support because he was the dependent partner in the relationship, and sadly, she’s still paying him the money despite his jaw-dropping lottery win.

It was a court decision based on the dynamics of their marriage.

“I’m not going after anything. I have morals. I know what I’ve worked for and it’s everything that I have,” Eileen said and added that she didn’t believe her ex would reach out to her and offer some cash, although she hoped “he’d do the right thing.”

Asked what she meant with that, Eileen said, “Think about it. How long did I work? How long did I support him? I had to give him a lot of money in the divorce.

“You tell me what’s the moral thing to do.”

Eileen’s story sparked controversy.

There have been those who believe she deserves a portion of the lottery money her ex-husband won, while others say that “Mike won twice!”

“It would be a nice idea to gift her a little $$ money to make her life a little easier,” someone wrote.

“She did support him throughout the marriage,” another person added.

A third agreed: “I’d still give her a few mil for supporting him all those years and move on.”

Eileen believes that her ex would give money to members of his family and will likely donate some to animals charities.

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Jill Biden reveals she sent private note to Melania Trump after she broke major First Lady tradition

Following the presidential elections in November, that Donald Trump won, President Biden’s wife, Jill Biden, extended an invitation to Melania Trump for a customary White House tradition, but allegedly, the invite was declined.

Speaking to the Washington Post, Jill Biden revealed that Melania “broke” the long-standing tradition of the incoming and outgoing First Ladies having tea during the presidential transition.

Jill then followed up with Melania Trump by sending a note through her husband when the two met at the reopening of the Notre Dame in December last year.

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“I congratulated her and I offered help,” Biden said in an interview with the Washington Post. “What would be the point of nastiness?”

The two First Ladies eventually met at former President Jimmy Carter’s state funeral on 9 January, with Jill confirming Melania thanked her “during pleasantries.”

In December 2024, Melania Trump appeared on “Fox & Friends” and said that this time, the transition to the White House would be smoother.

“The first time was challenging, we didn’t have much of the information,” she said. “The information was withheld from us by the previous administration,” Melania continued. “But this time I have everything… it’s a very different transition this time, second time around.”

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Host Brian Kilmeade asked Melania if she’d considered posing for magazine covers once she becomes First Lady again. “You’re in the White House, and you’re not on the cover of any of these magazines. Do you think that will change? And would you say yes to them — the Vogues, the Peoples, whatever?”

Melania, who used to be a model, answered, “Look, I’ve been there on the covers — on the cover of Vogue, on the covers of many magazines before. We have so many other important things to do than to be on the cover of any magazine.”

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She added, “I think that life would not change for anybody if I’m on the cover.”

Some viewed this as a subtle remark aimed at Jill Biden, who was featured on the cover of Vogue Magazine in August.

President Biden and Jill Biden will attend Donald Trumps inauguration on January 20.

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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner’s child revealed a new name

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner’s 15-year-old child Seraphina Rose revealed a new name during the memorial service of Garner’s father, William Jack Garner, who passed away aged 85 in April, 2024.

While speaking at the service, which broadcast in real-time on the Facebook page of the West Virginia church, Affleck and Garner’s middle child said, “Hello, my name is Fin Affleck,” before reading Chapter 16, Verse 8 from the Book of Proverbs: “Better is a little with righteousness, than a large income with injustice.”

Fin wore a suit, white shirt, black tie, and a short haircut.

In February of last year, Fin was spotted by the paparazzi, carrying a backpack with the name “Fin” embroidered.

As expected, the gender reveal attracted the attention of the public and comments came pouring in.

“Ben Affleck’s young daughter just changed her name and is now identifying as trans. Jennifer Lopez’s daughter also recently came out as nonbinary,” Libs of TikTok’s Chaya Raichik said on X. “2 IN 1 FAMILY! WHAT ARE THE CHANCES?!”

“Having an LGBTQ kid is trendy in Hollywood. It’s like having the latest designer bag,” she added.

When Affleck married Jennifer Lopez, their children, Fin and Emme, who uses gender-neutral pronouns, became close and were seen pictured together on numerous occasions. 

Lopez used the pronouns “them” and “they” when referring to her daughter, whom she shares with singer Mark Anthony, during a surprise duet at the Los Angeles Dodgers Foundation Blue Diamond Gala in June 2022.

Fin is just one of several children of celebrities who are changing their identities. 

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87-year-old man comes back from the hospital and finds his house emptied

Chris Harvey was an ordinary 87-year-old man who has lived all by himself in a nice house for most of his life. His daughter lived a couple of states away, and his grandson never visited him, so when he was taken to hospital one day, he was forced to call his daughter and ask for help.

“Dad, I can’t take even a day off. But I’l make sure Peter comes and checks on you, ok?” his daughter, Angelina assured him.

Peter, his grandson, also lived far. What’s most, he never paid Peter a visit, nor he ever called, so Chris didn’t expect him to show up this time either.

However, Angelina somehow convinced him to take a flight to Texas, and he finally agreed, although unwillingly.

Chris’ condition didn’t turn out to be serious. However, he stayed at the hospital for a couple of days until doctors ran all sorts of tests.

When he finally returned home, he was shocked to see some of his belongings, including his couch, some paintings, and the chairs, on the front lawn. The door of the house was opened, although he remembered the paramedics had shut it completely.

He entered, and that’s when he saw Peter and his wife Hannah.

“Oh, what a surprise,” Chris said. “But what’s with my belongings?” he asked.

Peter gave him a hug and said, “Well, grandpa, we wanted to renovate the place, thinking we would finish it until you are back, but you came earlier than we anticipated.”

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He then told his grandpa that they got rid of some of the stuff and they had the rest at the nearby storage.

“That’s fantastic,” Chris exclaimed. “Now let me get to the pharmacy and get some medicine while you two paint these walls. I’ll be right back.”

However, he returned right away in order to ask his grandson and his daughter what they wanted for lunch, and that’s when he overheard their conversation.

“Peter, your grandpa is very much alive. You said he was dying and we are getting this house. What are we going to do now, you idiot?” Hannah yelled. “I’ve dipped into my savings for this! Do you think I would have spent a dime on this house if I knew your grandfather wouldn’t die?”

Peter tried to shush her, but Hannah was so angry at him that she wouldn’t stop yelling.

“I know this messed up our plans,” Peter said. “But this home will eventually be ours. How much long do you think he’ll live. He’s too old already.”

“No, Peter, we are living today and that’s final,” Hannah said.

“But what about the house. It’s empty and nothing is finished. We can’t leave it like this.”

“WE CAN, AND WE WILL! I don’t give a damn about that old man!”

Peter agreed. “Okay, we are living!”

Chris went to the front door and pretended he was getting inside the house just then.

“Peter, Hannah, what would you like me to get for lunch?” he asked. “By the way, I have something important to discuss with you two.”

Some time later, Chris told Peter and his wife that he decided to move into a nursing home permanently so that they can have the house.

Not surprisingly, they were delighted. What’s most, they continued with the renovations, and once everything was done, they invited some of their friends from back home over to celebrate.

That day was marry. Everyone was having fun, drinking and laughing, when Chris raised his glass and proposed a toast.

“This one’s for Peter and Hannah, who spent all of their money on renovating this house that I tend to enjoy the rest of my life!” Chris said.

Peter and Hannah were shocked at his words.

“What?” Peter asked. “What do you mean YOU will enjoy it?”

That’s when Chris told them that he overheard their conversation. “Sorry for not dying and for ruining your plans,” he said, “now get out of my house before I call the police.”

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While Peter and Hannah’s friends left right away, the two started apologizing and explaining that they didn’t mean what they said, but Chris didn’t want to listen.

The following day, he called his daughter and told her what he had done and why he did it. She wasn’t glad, but she knew her son deserved what he got.

Chris lived 11 more years, and following his passing, as stated in his will, his house was sold and the money was donated to a charity that helped old and fragile people.

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I found love after my wife’s passing – Then my daughter said, ‘Dad, new mom is different when you’re gone’

Following my wife’s passing, it was just me and my daughter, Tessa. She was still very young to understand that her mom won’t return ever again. And then, a year later, someone new entered my life. And I though everything was perfect again, until my daughter mentioned the attic in my wife’s home.

Laura seemed to love my daughter. It felt like they have known each other since forever. The first they they met at the park, they played with the leaves, and Tessa came to me and said, “Dad, your friend Laura is really nice.” Her words put my heart at ease.

It wasn’t long before Laura and I tied the knot and we moved to her Victorian home that she had inherited from her grandparents.

The place was very spacious. As Tessa moved from one room to another, she kept saying that she loved it there.

Life felt complete again, until Tessa started feeling uneasy around my new wife.

A couple of months into my marriage to Laura, I needed to take a business trip out of town. I knew Tessa would be just fine, although I have never left her with anyone else more than a day.

Finally, when I returned home after a week, Tessa ran towards me, hugged me tightly, placed her head on my shoulder, and said, “Dad, new mom is different when you’re gone.”

As she said that, tears started rolling down her face.

“What do you mean she’s different, honey?” I asked, confused.

“She was spending time at the attic, and she wouldn’t let me go there. She keeps it locked and strange noises come from above.”

“Oh, is that so?” I asked, trying to comfort her. “Don’t worry, I’ll talk to her and ask her about it, but I’m sure there is a reason you can’t go there, Tessa.”

She looked me in the eyes and said, “And she’s strict. She won’t let me play with my toys if they are on the floor, and makes me clean the room all by myself.”

I was a bit shocked. Tessa was just six years old, still just a child. On top of that, Laura never showed that strict side of hers until then.

As Tessa and I talked, Laura came out of the attic.

“Honey, you’re home,” she said with a huge smile on her face.

“Laura, how was Tessa while I was gone?” I asked her, not wanting to confront her about my daughter’s words right away.

“Well, she was great. She whined at times, but she’s a good girl,” Laura said.

“You know, she told me you were a bit strict to her. She also mentioned the attic and the noises coming from there.”

However, Laura assured me that some rules of keeping her room clean and keeping track of where she puts her toys wouldn’t harm Tessa. And about the attic, she claimed it was a dusty place full of unnecessary things. There could be rats there as well, so she didn’t want Tessa to hurt herself in the mess.

I decided to trust her, although I didn’t forget about it altogether.

Days passed by, and Tessa started complaining about the noises coming from the attic. And then, one night, as I get to the kitchen to get some water, I noticed light coming from the attic.

“What is Laura doing there at this time of the night?” I thought to myself.

The next day, I decided to get inside. I simply needed to know what was going on. And the sight left me speechless.

The attic was a bright and inviting space, far from the scene of terror Laura described it to be. What’s most, it resembled like a nursery. The walls were bright, and there was an unfinished mural of playful animals on the wall. Toddler clothes, stuffed animals, and baby furniture was all over the place.

As I was looking around in complete awe, Laura entered the attic. “Andrew, what are you doing here?” she asked.

“Laura, I need an explanation,” I said. “The attic isn’t dusty, nor a storage, it’s obviously a nursery.”

It was then that Laura started crying. “Andrew, I wanted to turn it into a safe space for Tessa. I was getting rid of the baby stuff little by little, turning it into a room for a girl Tessa’s age.”

She then told me that the room was decorated as it was for the daughter Laura lost at birth. “You lost a daughter?” I asked, shocked at the revelation.

Laura explained that it was her own fears that made her be strict with Tessa, not knowing that she was scaring her.

“I was scared and worried you’d think I was trying to make Tessa replace the baby I lost if I told you about the attic. I also feared Tessa might reject me if I tried something so personal. While you were away, I worked on it quietly, hoping to surprise you with something wonderful,” Laura said.

She assured me she loved Tessa and cared deeply about her, she just didn’t know how to be a mother.

I said she should start by showing Tessa the attic.

When Tessa saw it, she was stunned and loved it very much.

The relationship between my wife and my daughter blossomed. Tessa never felt scared around Laura again.

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A document I found revealed my husband and MIL made a significant deal while I was battling a life-threatening disease

Amid my fight with a life-threatening disease, I overheard my husband and my MIL talking about a deal they made.

That day, I returned home from the hospital earlier than usual, and as I was about to enter the living room, I heard my MIL saying, “Make sure Maria doesn’t suspect anything.”

Her words made my heart skip a beat. What were they having in mind? What was that I wasn’t suppose to know?

However, I decided not to ask any questions. I just entered the room and went straight to the kitchen to make myself soup. It wasn’t that I was hungry, because the cancer took my appetite away, I just needed to avoid my husband and his mother, who was pretending to be solving sudoku in order to avoid eye contact.

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That night, I woke up and went to the kitchen to have a glass of water, when I noticed torn pieces of paper in the garbage.

I could see the words “contract,” “lease” and an address.

I felt shattered. Was this an address to a home my husband was planning to move into if I lose my battle with cancer? Was he already planning his future without me in it?

All I knew was that I needed answers, and I was about to look for them first thing in the morning.

When the morning finally arrived, I grabbed my car keys, and headed to the address written on the paper that I held tightly in my hand.

As I arrived, my chest felt tight.

I parked and saw a building in front of me. But it wasn’t an apartment complex. Instead, it was a building with commercial properties. Workers were putting the finishing touches on a sign above the door that read: “OPENING SOON: BAKERY. MARIA’S DREAM.”

“What!?” I thought to myself and peered inside.

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The place was freshly painted, with a brand new counter, and shelves in the pale blue color I have always imagined my bakery should be.

The espresso machine was exactly the same as the one I had shown my husband months ago.

It felt like someone has taken my childhood dreams and put them inside that place, bringing them to life.

My heart pounded and I felt guilty of ever suspecting my husband.

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When I went home, I hugged him as tightly as I could, reminding him of how much I loved him.

“Maria, is everything okay,” he asked, and that’s when I told him I knew his secret.

“Jeff, I saw the place, the bakery,” I said.

“But… but how?” Jeff asked, confused. That’s when I told him about the torn pieces of paper I found in the trash.

“It was supposed to be a surprise,” Jeff said, smiling. “It was my mom’s idea. She used her retirement money, and I chipped in whenever I could.”

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I couldn’t believe my MIL would do such a wonderful thing for me, it meant she and my husband believed I would heal. I was overjoyed.

A couple of months later, we had the grand opening.

Plenty of people came to see the new bakery that was filled with the smell of my grandparents’ old recipes of cinnamon rolls, apple pies, and cookies.

What’s most, a friend of Jeff’s shared the story of my cancer battle and the surprise my husband and my MIL did for me, with the local newspaper, and it attracted even more customers.

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On the big day, I heard my son, who was helping in the kitchen say, “Mom, we have a problem, there are no more blueberry muffins.”

I smiled and said, “That’s a good problem to have.”

Weeks later, I learned I was cancer-free. Life felt great again, and it was all thanks to my family.

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