Body of Fort Myers woman, 21-year-old Arielle Valdes, discovered after a 5-day search

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The search for a missing Florida woman came to a tragic end when a body was found along the Caloosahatchee River on Monday, authorities reported.

The 21-year-old woman, Arielle Valdes from North Fort Myers, had been missing since Wednesday when she vanished during a jog in her neighborhood, leading to a community-wide effort that involved searches by land, air, and water. Marine vessels, aviation units, multiple drones, K9s, the Forensics Division with an ANDE rapid DNA device, and the Major Crimes Unit were all involved in the search.

The Lee County Sheriff’s Office said there was no initial suggestion of foul play. “Our hearts remain with Arielle’s family and loved ones as they navigate the coming days during this time of grief,” the Sheriff’s office stated, adding that the Major Crimes Unit will remain in coordination with the District 21 Medical Examiner’s Office throughout the ongoing investigation.

“It’s with a heavy heart that we share the loss of our dear Arielle, whose vibrant personality and gentle soul brought so much light into the lives of those who knew her,” the grieving family of Valdes posted on Finding Arielle Valdes Facebook page.

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“To her family and friends, words can’t express the depth of our sorrow, and we send our heartfelt sympathies during this unimaginable time. Arielle’s presence was a gift, and her memory will forever be cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know her.”

They also thanked everyone involved in the search for their “love and dedication.”

“Whether you searched on foot for hours, drove across the county, brought out your boats, flew drones, reached out to businesses for footage, or donated to help her family, you have been our strength,” the family said on Facebook.

Valdes’ sister, Isabella Hergert, paid tribute to her sister saying she was “too good for this world.” Herget’s message further read, “I love you and I will see you again in every lifetime. You are a piece of my soul that I will always look for.”

As per NBC2, Valdes was training for a marathon and ran long distances, but she also battled depression.

We are so very sorry for this tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the grieving family.

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Woman ends marriage upon discovering husband calls her ‘SWMBO’ in texts to friends

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A marriage should be built on mutual understanding, appreciation, and love for one another. However, there are cases where one of the partners acts as though they don’t care enough for that union to last. This can easily lead to constant fights and even separation.

A woman took to MamaMia to share how her marriage of five years came to an end after she accidentally read one of her husband’s texts to his friends in which he referred to her with a nickname that “felt like she’d been slapped in the face.”

At the time, their son was 2 years old, and her husband was out most of the time without ever telling her who he was seeing or where he was going simply because he believed “he didn’t have to.”

She tried hard to justify his decisions because he was the breadwinner for the family and she was happy to give him downtime, asking money from her parents to support his business.

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Her husband was like that since the beginning, and although she believed things would change after their son was born, that wasn’t the case.

“He continued his long Friday lunches, that always turned into Friday night drinks, because they were networking opportunities. He had always played Thursday night sport – he didn’t ever even miss one week,” she wrote in her letter to the outlet.

Moreover, he wasn’t willing to say if he had any intention of getting involved in her and her son’s life.

One Friday morning, the woman’s husband was in the shower and his phone ‘kept pinging’ so she decided to check it in case it was urgent.

What she stumbled upon was a text message to his friends that read, “Don’t think I can make it tonight. SWMBO will say no.”

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She was confused as she had no idea what that meant, although she was certain it alluded to her.

When she asked her husband about it, he answered in the most casual manner. “It means ‘She Who Must Be Obeyed,” he said.

The woman felt awful. She felt like he treated her as his mother while he was the teenager who tried to sneak out of the house in order to have fun with his friends.

“After five years of marriage, this is what I’d become to him. The only thing I ever asked of him – some accountability regarding his whereabouts, was apparently too demanding. And he’d spoken about me like that to his friends,” she wrote.

Feeling “mortified” by the nickname he gave her, and realizing that no one in the chat questioned the abbreviation—implying he’d used it before—the woman knew there was “no coming back from that.” This union didn’t feel like a marriage nor what a family should look like.

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“I was never, ever, going to kiss, let alone sleep with, a man who called me that after 10 years together – even after becoming the mother of his son,” she wrote, adding that she knew at that point that both her and her son deserved better than that. Not being valued where she was supposed to be loved wasn’t the life she ever imagined so she made the decision to take her baby and leave her husband.

Her story gathered plenty of attention and people’s opinions regarding her decision were divided.

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5-year-old girl empties her piggy bank – The reason behind it leaves her grandmother in tears

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Monica Pop
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Children can be so innocent and pure-hearted at times, that we adults feel like we should look up to them and follow their examples. 

Sunshine Oelfk is only five years old, but she seems to know more about love, friendship, and compassion than most grownups. Her sweet story melted the hearts of many, and she became a hero in the place where she resides. 

Namely, Sunshine has a piggy bank where she keeps all her money. Recently, she decided to break it and take all she had. When her grandma Jackie Oelfke asked why she needed the money, Sunshine’s answer trigger tears rolling down her eyes. 

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Speaking with TODAY, Jackie got emotional and spoke of her granddaughter’s response: “She said she was taking it to school for milk. I explained that I had already paid for her milk for the month, then she looked at me and said, ‘My friend’s mom doesn’t have milk money, and I do.'”

Jackie stepped in as well and helped Sunshine in her mission to help her classmate. She and the little girl took the money to the teacher and later shared on Facebook just how generous Sunshine’s nature was. People were blown away by the girl’s action and in no time, many started sending donations. 

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Rita Hausher, one of Sunshine’s kindergarten teachers told TODAY Parents how her heart would always break when she had to turn down kids when they asked for milk.

“I have always felt sad when I have had to tell a student, ‘no,’ when they ask if they can have milk. Thanks to Sunshine’s act of kindness for one student, it has grown so much that it now includes everyone, which makes my heart happy.”

Believe it or not, Sunshine’s good cause triggered people from all over the country to donate $19,000. That means she and her friends can now have all the milk they want. 

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Take a look at this sweet girl’s story in the video below. She certainly knows that if we want to change what bothers us, we have to take one step at a time and make it our mission to make this world a better place. 

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Doctor discusses the dangers of kissing someone who passed away and the health risks it can create

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When we lose someone close, we feel overwhelmed. Sadness and grief settle in our heart and the thought of never seeing that person again can be unbearable.

However, despite these feelings and the urge to kiss the person whom we lost, a doctor from Moldova, Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, shares the risks associated with kissing someone deceased. His video, in which he discusses this highly sensitive topic, has caused a widespread discussion and debate on social media.

According to him, around nine hours after someone dies, the body starts to decompose, a natural process during which bacteria from the decomposing tissues start to surface.

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These bacteria can pose health risks to individuals who come into contact with the body, particularly through kissing.

He says he’s perfectly aware that this practice is seen as a final farewell and sort of respect towards the deceased person, but he believes people should be aware of the risk they put themselves into by unknowingly expose themselves to harmful pathogens.

As expected, people’s opinions were divided.

“I kissed my father and would do it again, no matter the risk! He is my father!” one person commented. Others, however, appreciated his advice and wrote they would reconsider their decision of kissing someone who has died as a final goodbye no matter the emotional connection they had with the deceased.

Dr. Ivanovik emphasized the issue of one’s sense of smell being affected if kissing someone who passed away.

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The body’s decomposition can produce an unpleasant odor that might remain in one’s memory longer than expected. Some people report a significant change in their sense of smell and taste after such an act, adding another layer of complexity to the already emotional farewell experience.

“Honestly, I don’t think anyone can resist not kissing their parent on the hand or forehead one last time. I kissed my father’s hand for the last time,” a follower commented.

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Celebrating the timeless charm of vintage treasures

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Monica Pop
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Arts and crafts offer plenty of benefits that go beyond the creation of physical objects. It is a way of expressing our creativity, imagination, and self-expression. At the same time, they are a great mean of relieving stress and anxiety and improving our overall well-being.

At the same time, arts and crafts serve the purpose of educational tools.

Nowadays, there are plenty of materials and techniques people use in order to create something from scratch. Whether it is knitting, painting, sculpting, woodworking, or working with ready made materials, the opportunities to express yourself creatively are endless.

In the past, these options were rather limited but people still found ways of creating beautiful and functional items using what they had.

Among the rest, they used dolly pegs, charming figures that carry an irresistible allure that seems to withstand the test of time.

Even in modern times, these wooden figures hold a special place in many people’s homes.

Dolly pegs are way more than laundry tools. In fact, they serve as a canvas for creativity and DIY projects. Their versatility allows them to be transformed into personally customized items with little effort.

With just some paint, fabric, and creativity, dolly pegs can be transformed into distinctive ornaments, fridge magnets, or delightful desk accessories. This crafting process provides a cost-effective way to explore art, sparks creativity, and offers a gratifying means of artistic expression.

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They can also be used as fun clips for papers, photos, or artwork, or as organizers for cables, cords, or other small items.

Letting children play with them and decorate them the way they want can lead to a fun time and a nice activity that would allow them to spend some quality time away from the screen.

All in all, these seemingly ordinary clothespins can be awesome craft supplies.

Have you ever decorated any yourself?

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Healthy and delicious pickled beets

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Kelly White
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Pickled food is a delicacy many people enjoy because of the crunchy texture, the balanced sweet-and-sour taste, and the health benefits it offers.

This type of food helps with digestion and is low in calories.

What’s most, pickling is an important part of a number of cultures and can complement a wide range of dishes, from sandwiches and salads to meats and cheeses.

Now, if the first thing that comes to your mind when speaking of pickled food are the pickles, you’re missing out on the variety of other foods that can be pickled, such as eggs, onions, carrots, and beets.

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If you are a fan, here is an easy-to-make recipe for pickled beets.

  • 3-4 medium-sized beets
  • 1 cup apple cider vinegar
  • 1 cup water
  • 1/4 cup honey or maple syrup (for a sweeter pickle) or 2 tablespoons if you prefer less sweetness
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon mustard seeds (optional)
  • 1/2 teaspoon peppercorns (optional)
  • 2-3 cloves of garlic, peeled and smashed (optional)
  • Fresh dill or other herbs (optional)
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Instructions:

Wash and trim the dish before boiling them for 30 to 40 minutes, or until they get tender. Allow them to cool and then cut them into rounds or wedges. In a small saucepan, mix together the apple cider vinegar, water, honey (or maple syrup), and salt. If desired, add mustard seeds, peppercorns, and garlic. Heat the mixture until it reaches a boil, stirring to ensure the honey is completely dissolved. Then, take it off the heat.

Put the beets into a jar and pour the hot brine over them, making sure they are fully submerged. Then add herbs and let the jar cool on room temperature. Seal it with a lid and put it in the fridge.

Whether you’ll use them in sandwiches, as a side dish, or as a snack, pickled beets can truly enhance your culinary experience.

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Only individuals with eagle-eyed vision can spot the 7 animals hidden in the picture

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We can all agree that brainteasers are fun. For one, they challenge our mind and make us focus on a thing in order to solve the mystery behind it, they are intriguing, engaging, as well as rewarding once solved.

They enhance cognitive abilities such as recognizing patterns, logical thinking, and reasoning, which makes them both enjoyable and instructive.

If you want to put your observation skills to the test, this brainteaser is the right one for you.

It shows a photo of climber, but there are also seven animals hidden somewhere on the picture, and spotting them all might be harder than you think.

This challenge isn’t based on speed, so take your time to do a thorough analysis of the photo. But you can certainly challenge friends and family to find the most animals in the least time.

This visual test, and any other of the same type, engages your brain without overloading it.

Like a workout, the more you take tests like this, the better the results. Flipping the image can help in spotting them more easily.

Here’s where the 7 animals are hidden, circled in red.

How many did you spot by yourself?

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A group of men gather in the mountains to sing ‘You Raise Me Up’—their performance will give you chills

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Monica Pop
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“Sometimes, music is the only medicine the heart and soul need.” I remember the times when music helped me heal and I still find comfort in the tune and the lyrics of my favorite piece of music.

For many, this mood-changing song is “You Raise Me Up” and if you belong to this group, we have some great news for you.

BYU Vocal Point performed a mesmerizing rendition of this track and people say it’s the best they’ve heard so far. 

You will love it even more if you are a fan of acappella performances that let you enjoy the pureness of the singer’s voice. 

The Vocal Point ensemble has been part of the music scene for almost 30 years. It was founded by the students at Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah. It consists of nine changing members who have released numerous albums, had many concerts, and earned awards throughout the years. 

Speaking of what they do best, the group says, “With inventive arrangements, humor, and remarkable vocal percussion, Vocal Point continually invigorates audiences and generates fans.” Currently, more than 520K people follow them on their YouTube channel. 

Their rendition of Josh Groban’s song along with the video which depicts a mesmerizing scenery has been seen more than 10 million times. 

Listening to them sing takes me to a whole new world, and it makes me re-play the video over and over again. I am certain it will trigger the same emotions at other people as well.

It starts with Jantzen Dalley excelling the opening line before two other members of the group join in. 

Some of the comments people left are, “Halfway through the first sentence, I was tearing up instantly :$ This is so beautiful! ❤”

The vocals of all the nine singers blend in a flawless harmony, and having one member beatboxing only adds to the overall experience. 

Though this ever lasting song was originally composed by the Irish-Norwegian duo Rolf Lovland of Secret Garden and Brendan Graham, and performed by Brian Kennedy, it’s Groban’s 2003 rendition that put it under the limelight again. 

Performed by more than 125 artists so far, “You Raise Me Up” is one of the songs with most covers done. 

As the song progresses, more singers join in. At this point, the performance resembles a choir of angels that give us goosebumps.

This song, along with the video, do raise us up. 

“I love this song so much!! We can all be the person to lift someone else up. Go out today and try to raise someone else up!😄”

Make sure you check this cover out! It’s worth every second of your time. 

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