Man requests his father check his fiancée’s hymen before marriage to ensure her ‘purity’

Taking to Reddit, a woman, 25, shared a story that left many speechless.

She started by explaining that she and her fiance have been engaged for eight months and that their relationship resembled a fairy-tale from the moment they started dating.

He has always been very nice to her, showing his love and affection and showering her with attention.

She continued by saying that both he and her are virgins and that he wanted to save it for marriage. OP wasn’t fussed over the request and agreed.

They planned for a relatively small wedding, and things seemed perfect. But then, out of the blue, her fiance came forward with the most absurd request; that her father checks her hymen the night before the wedding to make sure she was still “pure.”

In the past, he mentioned something about this tradition his family held onto, but she laughed it off as it seriously sounded like a massive joke. Well, it turned out it wasn’t and her husband-to-be was dead serious.

She said there was no chance that she sat in a room with her lags wide open while his father checked on her virginity and his brothers and uncle watched, but he insisted, saying it was extremely important to him and that she had nothing to hide. Further, he said his mom did that when she was marrying his dad.

His words felt like a sharp knife. OP was shocked and started crying. She considered calling off the wedding at that precise moment, but gave herself some time to realize what had just happened.

She spent the following day at her friend’s place. Her fiance was the most charming and most loving person she has ever met and she didn’t want to lose him, but at the same time, she didn’t want to proceed with his family’s “tradition.”

After a day, the two met and she told him she won’t be letting his father checking her “purity.” The fiance got extremely mad and started accusing her of lying, saying that she was denying the “test” because she probably wasn’t even a virgin.

He lost his temper, and she was left in complete shock because she had never seen him act like that before. It was though she was speaking to someone she didn’t know.

It was a difficult decision to make, but she eventually called the wedding off.

At the time being, she’s staying with her friend, still in disbelief of everything that had taken place during the last couple of days.

She asked from fellow Redditors to tell her if she’s done the right thing.

Most of the netizens wrote she was NTA.

What are your thoughts on this? Do you think this woman made the true call when she separated from her fiance?

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‘America’s Got Talent’ cheerleader Emily Gold, 17, dies by suicide weeks after appearing on show

Emily Gold, a 17-year-old dancer and cheerleader from Los Osos High School died weeks after her team reached the quarterfinals on America’s Got Talent.

The teenager and her dance troupe impressed the judges and earned a standing ovation from Simon Cowell during their quarterfinal performance.

Mia BustamanteGold was found dead under a bridge on the 210 Highway in Rancho Cucamonga on Friday, September 13. The San Bernardino Coroner’s Office suspects suicide, and authorities confirmed she had been struck by a vehicle. A GoFundMe page has been created to support her family, raising over $75,000 so far.

California Highway Patrol Public Information Officer Rodrigo Jimenez told People that “officers from the California Highway Patrol Rancho Cucamonga area responded to a pedestrian down in lanes.”

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When they arrived at the scene, they found a 17-year-old female “who was struck by at least one other vehicle in the carpool lane on eastbound 210.”

The teenager, later identified as Gold, was pronounced dead at the scene.

The news of her tragic passing was confirmed by Gold’s heartbroken family.

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Her father, Steven, posted a heartfelt message on Instagram. “With sadness beyond measure we must tell you all that we lost our beautiful Emily on September 13th, our hearts have a hole the size of the universe right now,” he wrote.

“The outpouring of love and support we are receiving shows us how many lives that angel touched and lifted, and it is what will help us through the most difficult time of our lives.”

Friends and family paid tribute to Gold.

“The times we spent together won’t ever be enough,” Gold’s brother Alex wrote. “You were my whole childhood and the memories we made together and all the places we’ve been and seen together will always stay with me. You really broke my heart Em.

“I’ll always stay up for you and live life for you.”

Mia Bustamante, one of Gold’s closest friends, also paid her tributes and honored her friend whom she described as “such a light in my life.”

“My beautiful Goldie, words cannot describe how much I love you. Thinking of being without you breaks my heart. You will be so so missed beyond words,” Mia wrote on Instagram.

“You have a way of making everyday so much brighter and brought smiles to everyone’s faces. You are such a light in my life and will be forever. You brought me the most beautiful form of love I could ask for.

“My best friend, my forever dance sister. I love you infinitely my Emmy.”

We are so very sorry for the loss of such a young life. May she rest in peace.

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My stepmom wore white to my dad’s funeral along with her four adult children – The room went silent when the lawyer pulled out a letter

During a time of grief, when a man lost his loving father, his step-mom and her four adult children appeared at the funeral wearing white from head to toe.

The moment they entered the room, all eyes were on them. It was an unusual choice of attire for such a somber occasion. They were dressed as though they were attending a summer party, not the funeral of the man who gave them everything.

The man who shared the story said he approached his step-mom and asked her what she was thinking. She, however, being sassy as she has always been, waved dismissively and said that she and her children were just following along with her now late husband’s final wish.

Listening to her, the man was surprised. Why would his father want someone wearing white on his funeral?

He was a witty man. Was he having something on his mind before he passed away? Or, his step-mom Vivian was trying to prove she was now in charge of the business and all the assets. Who knew. But the man was overcome with grief and couldn’t pay much thought to Vivian and her behavior.

Before the service began, Vivian and her kids took the seats at the front row. Instead of looking sad, they all had tiny smiles on their faces.

At that moment, Joe, the best friend of the deceased, started reading a letter. Needless to say, the words he uttered shocked everyone.

“Throughout my illness, my ex-wife Martha was by my side, whereas Vivian and her kids only showed up when they needed something,” the letter read. Further, Joe revealed:”My financial advisor uncovered that Vivian and her children were stealing money from me.” The room filled with shocked whispers as Vivian’s face went pale. “I asked them to wear white so everyone could see them for who they truly are.”

Vivian and her children stormed out of the place, and their exit was a relief for the rest of the people who were there to honor the man’s father.

During the rest of the service, the attendees shared their personal stories about the late man’s life. And his son commented, “Dad always knew how to pick his moments.”

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Guy texts photo of girlfriend to his mom, fails to notice ‘tiny’ detail on bed

Maison Vallance of Tennessee wanted to comply to his mom’s wish of sending her a photo of his girlfriend, Madison, wearing the blouse she bought her.

Madison was as happy to pose and Maison sent his mom the photo. But he found it so cute that he decided to share it on his social media too, not realizing there was a detail in the background that he would wanted not to expose to his followers.

“I took this picture to let my Momma know I found the shirt she got me, but Meghan is too pretty not to post it,” he wrote.

He was delighted with the photo he had taken until one of his female friends brought up the “detail” that made Maison regret not looking at the photo more carefully before sharing it with everyone online.

If you examine the photo more closely you’ll notice crimson ropes slung across the headboard behind Meghan’s head.

Well, the thought of his mother seeing those ropes in the background terrified Maison.

Once he realized his honest “mistake,” Maison decided to get the best out of the situation and joked about it by posting a fun tweet that brought a lot of laughter at his followers.

The good thing is that Maison’s family was quite humorous about the photo and the ropes that are very likely utilized for activities akin to those in 50 Shades of Grey.

These two truly make a lovely couple, don’t you agree?

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Why you wake up several times a night and have a hard time falling asleep: 5 key causes

The good night sleep is crucial for proper body function. According to the School of Public Health, “sleep is essential to every process in the body, affecting our physical and mental functioning the next day, our ability to fight disease and develop immunity, and our metabolism and chronic disease risk. Sleep is truly interdisciplinary because it touches every aspect of health.”

Sleep deprivation, however, occurs more often than we think. A number of people experience problems falling asleep, a condition known as a sleep disorder or insomnia.

So what interrupts our sleep?

For one, it is definitely the stress that comes with our daily life.

We spend around 33% of our life sleeping and we should do all in our power not to throw our sleep out of its cycle.

The sleep is triggered by the hormone melatonin, the main sleep hormone which is produced by the body internally. Now since the body produces melatonin internally it is important to support the body in doing this, naturally.

What we should have in mind, is that melatonin is usually produced at around 9 p.m. because the brain gives the body signals that it is night and time for a good night sleep.

Sometimes, we disturb this process by getting exposed to bright lights during the night, such as spending time on our phones right before sleep.

Receiving these lights, we trick the brain into thinking that it is still daytime. By turning down the lights, and avoiding bright white (or blue, or green) lights at night we remind our body that it’s time to wind down.

Taking melatonin supplements gives the brain information that our body has already produced the hormone, and as a result, it won’t produce more.

In a long term, this becomes an issue because as much supplements we take, the less the body will produce it and would eventually find it hard to produce enough melatonin for us to have a quality sleep. In other words, overusing melatonin supplements can make us dependent on them.

Instead of turning to supplements when experiencing issues with our sleeping, we should use natural ingredients like herbs, flowers or other calming aids such as magnesium. This, however, doesn’t mean that we should avoid the supplements at all cause. On the contrary, they can be useful if used with caution.

For example, melatonin supplements can come in handy while travelling and changing time zones.

Certain foods have in them naturally occurring melatonin and their consumption can enhance our sleeping. Among them are pistachios, tart cherries, fatty fish, rice, goji berries, oats and mushrooms.

Waking up several times throughout the night to use the bathroom is yet another reason for sleep disturbance.

In order to completely prevent this, or at least reduce it, limit the liquids intake before going to bed.

Caffeine and alcohol intake, especially in large amounts, can affect sleep.

Having coffee after 2 pm should be avoided because the caffeine stays in our system long and keeps us awake. Alcohol on the other hand is believed to make people fall asleep faster, but it hugely impacts your REM sleep, which leads to multiple wake-ups during the night.

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In the classroom, Little Johnny farts

We all know that the jokes involving Little Johnny always end up with an unexpected twist, and that’s one of the reasons we love them so much.

This time, Little Johnny found himself in trouble because he did something embarrassing during lesson time, but he didn’t mind it. What’s most, he’s teacher’s punishment made him laugh.

Read the joke below.

During lesson time, Little Johnny released a loud fart. His teacher got angry and told him to leave the classroom, which he did.

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Seeing him sitting outside and laughing uncontrollably, the principal approached him and asked him what was going on.

Struggling to control his laughter, Johnny explained, “I farted in class, and the teacher threw me out.”

The principal got confused and asked, “Then why are you laughing?”

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“Because those idiots are stuck in the class smelling my fart while I’m out here enjoying the fresh air!” Little Johnny answered.

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The rich neighbor’s son broke my window — They wouldn’t pay up, but karma came back to them in an unforeseen way

As she was placing the last dish on the dining table and asked her sweet 6-year-old daughter to join in, a woman named Angela, a single mom of Penny and two fur babies, a dog and a cat, heard a loud noise of her living room window shattering into a million pieces. The glass shattered all over the place and on the food she put so much effort in preparing.

Penny trembled with fear and kept asking what happened. The baseball nearly hit her in the head. It flew less than an inch away.

Angela took her daughter in her arms, trying to comfort her, but she knew she needed to confront the culprit behind the act.

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During the last couple of months, their first door neighbor’s son discovered baseball and the entire neighborhood turned into a practice pitch ever since with balls flying all over the place. The 15-year-old had previously hit the elderly neighbor who needed to be taken to the emergency room. Mrs. Harrison was yet another of the boy’s “victims.” While plucking weed, one of the balls hit her so hard that she needed minutes to figure out where that harsh blow came from.

In fact, most of the neighbors were forced to place wooden planks on their windows in order to prevent them to get broken by the boy whose father was filthy rich and let his son do whatever he pleased.

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Because of his power and influence, none of the neighbors have addressed him about the problems his son was causing.

They were petrified of him.

But Angela had it enough. She knew just how important it was for young children and teenagers to be involved with sports, but this boy acted as though he owned the entire neighborhood, so she decided to act.

Rushing towards the boy’s place, she noticed his father polishing his extremely expensive car.

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With the ball in her hand, which was all covered in blueberry pie where it landed, she told her neighbor about what had happened and that his son broke her window and nearly hit her daughter in the head.

Looking at her as though he was looking at a peasant, he said she shouldn’t be that certain it was his son who did the damage because she didn’t have any proof.

He refused to apologize and to pay for the window repair, telling her to go away because he had a birthday party to organize. What’s most, he threatened to call the police on her for trespassing. As Angela turned around ready to head home, he turned on the sprinkles and made her all wet.

Sadly, there was nothing she could do. That man was horrendous. All he cared about was himself.

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That evening guests started to arrive at his place. His birthday party seemed to be spot on, with a band, disco balls, and all sort of food brought by two different catering companies.

As Angela looked through what was left from her window, she noticed an unusual sight.

A group of young men wearing jerseys and having footballs in their hands got in front of the pretentious neighbor’s home, made a line and started shooting the balls towards the house. As windows shattered, the guests could be heard screaming in shock.

The young men then left, leaving the neighbor furious. He started screaming and running towards them, but they were young and quite faster than him.

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The next morning, he appeared at Angela’s doorstep. He started knocking on her door forcefully, demanding her to get outside.

“What’s wrong,” she asked with a calm voice. “Don’t pretend like you don’t knot. It was you who ruined by party,” he started accusing her.

“But do you have proof it was me?” Angela said, using his exact words.

He left furious.

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A couple of hours later, Mrs. Harrison stopped by Angela’s place and asked her if she had the chance to enjoy the sight of their neighbor’s party being ruined. Angela was shocked. “Mrs. Harrison, was that you who planned all that?”

The elderly lady said that her grandson’s football team owed her a favor, and chuckled.

Well, it looks like karma needs a little push sometimes.

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21-year-old star college gymnast shot to death in her off-campus residence – Her 23-year-old boyfriend arrested

21-year-old Kara Welsh, a Wisconsin-Whitewater gymnast who won an individual title on the vault in 2023, was found dead following a fatal shooting that took place at her off-campus home, about a block away from the university campus.

When they arrived at the scene, the police found the suspect, whom they believe Welsh knew and who was later identified by her friends as her boyfriend, as per the New York Post.

“Also present in the apartment was a 23-year-old male who was known to the deceased female,” the statement released by the police said.

“Through investigation, it was determined that leading up to the shooting, an altercation had occurred between the two.”

The investigation is ongoing, and as per another statement by the officials, the 23-year-old man was arrested and charged with first-degree intentional homicide, endangering safety by the use of a dangerous weapon and disorderly conduct while armed. His bail was set at $1 million, with the judge describing him as a “significant flight risk.”

 
 
 
 
 
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Welsh was a prominent member of the college’s gymnastics team and called the “Phenom on the Vault.”

Her friends are still in disbelief and are left utterly heartbroken.

“Absolutely heartbreaking to receive a phone call like this one. Kara, you deserved the world and more,” Welsh’s friend Brooks, who in her earlier years trained with Welsh at the Aspire Gymnastics Academy, said. “Wish I could just see you one more time. Wish I could laugh with you just one more time. Wish I could hug you one more time.”

The Aspire Gymnastics Academy paid tribute to the young star with a touching post and photos of Welsh.

“As Kara grew, so did Aspire. She was a constant in a sport that is filled with ups and downs. She was full of life and full of personality,” the training center shared. “Kara had a way of communicating through facial expressions that was second to none. Aspire lost a piece of its heart today. Kara, we love you.”

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In a statement, Corey King, chancellor at UWW, called Welsh “a standout member of the Warhawk gymnastics team,” adding that “news of Kara’s death is heartbreaking for our close-knit university community.”

A friend of Welsh wrote, “I hate that evil touched this sweet girl’s life. The Welsh girls showed us how to be gym sisters but so much more. Kara was all heart. The loss is unfathomable.”

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A GoFundMe has been set up to help the grieving family.

“Kara had a unique ability to bring joy to any person she crossed paths with, always putting a smile on people’s faces with her sense of humor, unwavering support and sweet disposition,” it read.

“Kara, 21 years old, was excited to be in her rising senior year as a gymnast at UW-Whitewater which was abruptly cut short on August 30th, by a heartless act of violence.”

We are so very sorry for the loss of Kara Welsh, may she rest in peace.

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