My son’s new wife excluded my grandson from the wedding

When my son, Matthew, met someone after losing his wife, I was glad he could finally continue with his life. My grandson, Alex, needed a mother figure growing up, and Matthew overcoming the grief and marrying again seemed like a fresh start for both of them.

Sadly, his future wife didn’t like my grandson and did all in her power to keep him out of the picture. Her actions spoke louder than words, but Matthew was blinded by affection to be able to see it.

When they started planning their wedding, Matthew’s future wife, Wendy, insisted it should be an “adults only” event, with no children in attendance, and that included Alex too. I insisted the boy needed to attend his own father’s wedding, but Wendy said she didn’t want any children around, even pretending to be sad because Alex couldn’t be there because of a rule she imposed herself.

However, on the day of the wedding, I brought my grandson anyway.

All I wanted was one photo of him with his father. But Wendy refused. “No,” she said. “Absolutely not. I don’t want him in these photos.”

“Just one,” I begged her. “Just him and Matthew.”

“He’s not my child!” she said. “I don’t want him in any photos. Please take him away!”

I couldn’t believe her words, “What do you mean not yours? Wendy, he’s Matthew’s son, and you’re his wife now.”

Wendy snapped and started yelling. “We agreed it would be just the two of us. I DON’T NEED THE BOY. GOT IT?” she said.

Prepared for such behavior, I hired a private photographer, not to capture the cake, the venue, or the flowers, but to discreetly photograph every moment Alex went near Wendy or his father. I knew he would catch enough shots of Wendy showing her true feelings whenever Alex was around her and Matthew.

At the reception, when it was time for the toast, I stood with my glass raised high. “To Matthew,” I said looking at my son, “and to his son who deserves not to be hidden from the story, but to be part of every chapter because a man doesn’t just marry a woman; he marries the future of his child.”

Everyone stared at me at that moment, Matthew probably wondering what I wanted to say with that. But his answer came a few weeks later when I got the photographs from the photographer I hired. They showed perfectly that Wendy didn’t just want to exclude Alex from the wedding, but that he resented him.

I knew I had broken my son’s world, but he needed to know the truth about the woman who became his son’s step-mother.

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Monica Pop
Monica Pop
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