It all started with a phone call on a quiet morning. After fifteen years of early mornings, late nights, and hard work, I decided to sell my flower shop. Honestly, letting it go felt hard at first, but I finally had some savings and a chance to figure out what I wanted next. I was sitting at my kitchen table when my sister Lisa called.
“Ivy… can I come over?”
Shortly after, she showed up looking exhausted and stressed, but she didn’t waste time before she said, “We’re about to lose the house.”
She explained how Rick’s construction business had fallen apart, how the bills had piled up, how the bank was closing in. They had tried everything, but nothing worked, and they were desperate to find a way out.
“How much do you need?” I asked, because I’ve always been the one who steps in.
“Twenty-five thousand,” she said.
That amount was nearly half my savings, but she was my sister so I agreed to give her the loan.
Rick came later to sign a basic loan agreement. He looked ashamed. “We won’t forget this,” he said.
I believed him.
After the money hit their account, Lisa called crying with relief, and I felt good about helping.
However, months went by and there was no mention of repayment. They didn’t even make small steps towards returning the money. Instead, my sister and my brother-in-law’s social media accounts were filled with photos of weekend trips, new clothes, dinners out. Rick even bought a brand-new truck.
Meanwhile, I was stretching groceries and teaching small workshops to rebuild my income.
A year later at a family dinner, I asked casually, “So… how are things financially?”
Lisa smiled. “Much better. Rick even got a bonus,” she said but mentioned nothing about the loan.
Another year passed with excuses, delays, and vague promises. Finally, after Thanksgiving, I confronted Rick.
“It’s been two years,” I said. “What’s your plan to pay me back?”
He looked shocked, as though I wasn’t asking for anything that was mine. “Maybe next year. You’re fine, Ivy. You can afford to wait.”
In that moment I realized they never saw it as a loan. In fact, they believed I just needed to give them the money because I was all by myself. They probably believed I didn’t need money since I had no family on my own.
His words were enough to force me cut contact with both of them. I blocked their numbers and skipped family gatherings. Losing my sister was painful, but being used by the people I loved and trusted the most felt even harder.
Life moved on and I was able to grow something new with my workshops. And then, during a casual conversation with my cousin, she mentioned Rick had borrowed money from nearly every family member and never repaid any of them.
Months later, I got a call from my sister. She looked drained and devastated.
“I’m divorcing him,” she said. “He hid money from me. We could’ve paid you back years ago. I’m sorry.”
She promised to repay me once the divorce settled.
Three months later, I received a check with the full amount plus interest along with a short note that read: Thank you for letting me fix this.
Eventually, Lisa joined my workshops and we were able to start a solid business together.
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